As society develops, men will cheat, and women will cheat too. When men cheat, it is not uncommon for women to cheat. As a husband, you should carefully observe the changes in a woman's life and take action as soon as possible to save the relationship between husband and wife. Let’s take a look at the signs and countermeasures before a woman cheats!

Check out the 5 major signs that a woman is cheating

1. Concept of time

This is easy to understand. My wife, who used to come home on time, suddenly often comes home very late or leaves home too early. She also likes to ask about your work and rest time, and when you go on business trips, work overtime, and come home. This kind of view It seems that he is concerned about your going out, is afraid that you will have an accident, and is worried about you. In fact, sometimes this is because he is afraid that you will discover his secret and is preparing for it.

Not only that, but some of the love birthdays and wedding anniversaries you had when you were young were forgotten, but the concept of time that was clearly remembered in your mind suddenly began to shrink, which means that your wife is emotionally disturbed.

2. Emotional instability

When a person is doing something that even he feels is not honorable and is indebted to others, he is often mentally weak and timid, and always tries to find ways to cover up the truth, hide its traces, and try to minimize the matter. Within the scope, so as not to expose the traces and arouse the alertness and suspicion of bystanders.

3. Change of habits

According to common sense, most of the sudden changes in some of our habits and routines happen for a reason. For example, it is very unbelievable for a person who is not very enthusiastic about the work of the company to suddenly claim that he has been very busy at work recently and needs to work overtime and go on business trips.

4. Increased activities

This is actually one of the most important details in changing habits. Women’s strategies are often very superficial. You generally can’t marry a woman with scheming intentions like a Bond girl, so once your lover doesn’t like social activities, She began to go out to various occasions, such as jogging in the morning and partying at bars. We can't say that our wife's personality has changed from introvert to extrovert. Instead, we attribute the reason to excuses. A woman who keeps saying that she doesn't like eating oranges turns to you one day. Peeling the orange peel off means that someone is already jealous, which means that cuckoldry is not far away from you.

5. High phone bills

The phone calls of those who have affairs often reflect abnormal behavior, just like Yan Shouyi in Feng Xiaogang's movie "Mobile Phone" who keeps telling lies. Women are no exception. When they lie, they must make sure that their faces are not red, their necks are not thick, and they are not breathless. They are realistic. As if it's nothing, of course, I'm not here to ask you to make unreasonable suspicions about your lover, but to ask you to discover and save it in time.

How do smart men prevent their wives from cheating?

1. Spend more time together.

The traditional Chinese concept holds that men are responsible for outside affairs and women are responsible for domestic affairs. This understanding provides an excuse for men to stay out often or even stay away from home at night. Many women take care of the housework, and it seems that a woman's position is at home. But a woman will be lonely and boring at home alone for a long time without the company of a man. After a long time, you will think of finding friends for entertainment or participating in some social activities and going out from home. Under the influence of the already lonely psychology, when a woman goes out, she is likely to be tempted by other men.

2. Occasionally ask to attend my wife’s parties.

If a woman always has activities that you feel you cannot control and you are not at ease about your wife's whereabouts, you can temporarily ask to participate in your wife's activities. In particular, you can take your husband to some activities. If your wife is having an affair, she will naturally not be able to find an excuse to refuse your participation. Even if she makes excuses, she will be very reluctant at times. If you don't regularly participate in your wife's activities, you will naturally have a deeper understanding of your wife's interpersonal relationships.

3. Let your female relatives become your wife’s partners.

There are several advantages to doing this: First, it allows the relatives of both parties to truly blend together and become as close as one family. Rather than being separated from each other and burying each other. At the same time, take more care and support each other in daily life to eliminate loneliness. Another benefit, of course, is to change the wife's daily social environment, thus reducing the possibility of an affair. In addition, relatives can play a supervisory role and transmit information. Although these do not need to be deliberately arranged, they will be conveyed through the daily words and deeds of loved ones.

4. Prevent your wife from becoming the leader’s celebrity for no reason.

If the wife is not usually a capable person in the work unit, nor does she have any special relationship background. If you suddenly become an important figure in your work unit or a popular figure of the leader, and often accompany you to drinks, play, or go on business trips, then you have to pay attention and ask a few more questions. At this time, your wife often says she has to work overtime, so you have to be more cautious. If your wife's talent was not appreciated before, but now her gold finally shines, there is no need to worry.

5. Pay attention to whether there are any changes in your wife's life routine.

Once a woman has an affair and has an extramarital relationship, it will naturally not be peaceful. If a man cannot find out for a long time, it can only be said that the man is too stupid. If a woman is outside and occasionally has extramarital sex with others, and it is mostly improvised, it will be over after that, and it will not affect the normal life of both parties. But once a woman has an affair outside of marriage, she will definitely have major changes in her life patterns. Such as phone calls, text messages, outing patterns, mood changes, etc. Therefore, when a woman has an extramarital affair, she must try not to change this pattern at first, but as time goes by and the relationship deepens, it becomes difficult to maintain this calmness. When women often make excuses to justify their behavior, men need to pay more attention.