It was the weekend when his wife was on a business trip. Zhao Gang sent a message and received a reply shortly after. There were only three words on it, "Come here..." Zhao Gang was ecstatic and went downstairs to look around for a few seconds. After checking his eyes and making sure that there were no neighbors or acquaintances walking around, he quickly ran into an adjacent unit building.

Wang Yue carefully prepared several side dishes at home and also took out a bottle of red wine. Her husband was a businessman and was often on the road, so the two of them had very few opportunities to meet. "Ding dong..." The doorbell rang. Wang Yue glanced out from the door mirror, then opened the door and gave way. Zhao Gang rushed in all of a sudden, and Wang Yue quickly closed the door. The two sides hugged each other tightly like lovers who had been separated for a long time.

The two spent a sweet weekend together, but on the night they parted, something unexpected happened. Wang Yue's husband suddenly returns, and her affair with Zhao Gang is exposed. The lovers on both sides were furious and filed for divorce. Both families perished at the same time.

Zhao Gang and Wang Yue's extramarital affair has been going on for a long time. Wang Yue's difficulty is that because her husband is living abroad, she can't live a normal married life at all, and her sex life is even more out of reach. Zhao Gang did not share her difficulties, but his wife had a conservative personality and had entered menopause. They often had conflicts and their sex life was very disharmonious. But Zhao Gang liked a passionate life, so he wanted to have an affair to satisfy his desires.

By chance, the depressed Zhao Gang met the depressed Wang Yue. The encounter between the two was like "dry wood meeting fire." Zhao Gang pursues Wang Yue in the form of "stealing". Since her husband is always not at home, Wang Yue readily accepts. Zhao Gang and Wang Yue's extramarital affair is on the "right track". The man enjoys the excitement brought by the affair, and the woman obtains the satisfaction of her sexual life.

However, Zhao Gang and Wang Yue were still punished for their extramarital affair, and this "stolen" happiness brought them painful lessons.

Cheating men like the pleasure of "stealing"

The reason why many men engage in extramarital affairs is to pursue the pleasure of "stealing". There is a folk saying: A wife is worse than a concubine, and a concubine is worse than a thief. Therefore, an extramarital affair may also be an affair.

In the eyes of ordinary people, cheaters are mostly men. They always have an unsatisfied heart and always want to try the "flavor" of different women, especially other people's lovers. "Stealing" carries a sense of guilt. If successful, it will give people illusory satisfaction and include excitement and pleasure.

Not only men, but women also "steal". As the saying goes, "stealing men" refers to women's affair. However, most women who have affairs have something in common, that is, they are dissatisfied with their desires or have an unsatisfactory married life, so they seek sustenance other than marriage. However, no matter what the reason is, extramarital affairs and adultery are violations of ethics and morals. Anyone who touches it will pay a heavy price.

Pay attention to three moments to kill men’s extramarital affairs

"Ten men and nine flowers" is a common psychology among many men. An American marriage expert said that men are sexually insatiable animals. Therefore, after pregnancy, because of the birth of the child, you put all the focus of your life on the child, neglecting the emotional communication with your husband, and showing no interest in sex. This will make your husband’s heart start to wander, and it will also make your husband’s heart wander. Men are prone to extramarital affairs.

When people reach middle age

For men in their forties, when they realize that they are no longer young, they will feel fear in their hearts, so they will subconsciously focus on their appearance. For example, if he often wears fashionable clothes or often looks in the mirror, this may be a sign of his midlife crisis. Therefore, starting from this change of his, you need to start paying attention to his thoughts and give him more care, so as not to let him fall in love with you.

In times of bereavement

There is a plot in "Yongzheng Dynasty": When Yongzheng was deeply saddened by the death of a relative, a maid gave him gentle advice. Yongzheng, comforted by her kind words, took the maid as his own that night. So when you see this, you will definitely think, why did Yongzheng still have the heart to do such a thing when he was so sad?

Psychologists say that on the contrary, when men are in extreme grief, they need sex more to vent their inner sorrow, proving that he has not been completely struck down by grief. He needs to feel the vitality and passion of life in a deep despair.

Therefore, in this kind of mood, a man really wants to find a woman to replace his wife to soothe his injured heart and vent his inner sorrow.

When you meet an old lover by chance

First love will leave the deepest memory in every man's heart. After a man has experienced the dull life in marriage, one day, he meets his first love girlfriend by chance. It is easy for the two of them to "rekindle old love" and reminisce together. , then it is easy for two people to fall into a warm life and have extramarital affairs.

The above are the three moments when men are prone to cheating when they have extramarital affairs. For women, they must always observe the man's words, deeds, and thoughts. When there are signs of extramarital affairs, they must nip it in the cradle as early as possible.