He is reluctant to buy you a flower. He is reluctant to accompany you to eat a meal. Your birthday, Valentine's Day, wedding anniversary, etc. A gift, even a house that you jointly financed, he only wrote his name... Such a stingy man, why do you still tolerate him?

Unless he grows up like a flower

My girlfriends often criticize men’s bad habits to me.

Among them, what I dislike most is the stinginess of men.

It doesn’t matter if women are stingy. If the characteristics of men in a city are stinginess, that city is blind.

A girlfriend of mine lives with a boyfriend, and that man has been living and eating at her house.

Later, because of work, he moved to another district. From now on, he will see her once a week, mainly on Sundays, because he knows that she usually eats at home on Sundays, and her aunt comes to the house every Sunday to clean and cook for her.

When he came that day, there would naturally be good meals and dishes ready to go. Once, when takeout was delivered to the house, my boyfriend didn’t take the initiative to pay at the door, but deliberately walked into the room inside. This behavior is very unpleasant.

When a man invites her out to dinner, it seems that he wants to invite her to dinner alone during some festival, friends, or family, which is rare.

He often reads her blog, so he should know her birthday, but not only does he not have a gift, he also wants to contact her after her birthday to ask her what she has been busy with recently.

They lived in different districts. One weekend, he said he wanted to see her. In order to rush back and wait for him, she gave up the concert that was about to start. However, on the way home, I received another call from a man, saying that his home was too far away from hers and that he had to rush from the west where he lived to her east...

My girlfriend didn’t After listening to what he said, she understood what he meant. If he wanted to take a taxi, it would cost a lot of taxi fare. She didn't say that she even wasted the concert. If you think it's too far, you should tell her earlier and don't come here again. . My girlfriend just said okay coldly and hung up the phone.

After that, the stingy man wanted to contact and meet again, maybe because he missed the delicious food cooked by his girlfriend’s aunt, but his girlfriend said that she was not interested in this man at all. Even if he is frugal now in order to become the richest man in the world tomorrow, his bad nature has already existed, and a woman living with such a man is just like living a life as a miser. He may be very good at making money and calculating, but he just doesn't know how to live and doesn't understand what is most important in life and what is truly worth cherishing.

Such a stingy man, unless he grows up like a flower and has the ability to make women take the initiative to spend money for him, but the flower has to be thanked.

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If you love me, just spend money for me

What kind of man are you afraid of? I'm afraid of the kind who can only use his mouth to make money. For example, a man loves you, but he doesn’t spend a penny for you. He talks sweet words to you, touches his upper lip to his lower lip, or sends you hot text messages, but he won’t treat you to dinner or buy you flowers. .

Some people may say that I am vulgar. How can I be good? Who can live without food and clothing? Don't say I am a materialistic girl. Love is not just for words. I love you and you love me. What's the use of talking about it? Why don't you give it to me? Instead of giving me a flower, give me a beloved thing. Even if it is cheap, I also like it.

Or we can just go to dinner, you order some side dishes and drink with me, and just talk about love. I have no interest in it. It’s not that I’m greedy, it’s because love should have fireworks, let alone money. It's tacky to hook up, but sometimes money really means love.

I have seen a man talk about how he loves a woman, how he can’t live without her, and how he will only love her for the rest of his life. When a woman needs money, he can’t give it up. He said, Our love cannot be related to money, otherwise it will become a very vulgar thing. But he is willing to spend money on himself. His clothes are all famous brands, his perfume costs at least two thousand yuan, and he uses the best speakers to listen to music. The woman glanced at him and said, how can a man who is reluctant to spend money for a woman and a man who does not step forward at critical moments make a woman believe in his love?

They finally broke up, and they broke up in a vulgar way, because of money.

The woman said, why would you follow a man who refuses to spend money on you? Such a man is too selfish.

There is also an AA system. Men who are in an AA relationship with women are even more boring. If they are in an AA relationship with you in terms of money, how can they be in an AA relationship with you emotionally? I am in an AA relationship, bah.

A couple spent their own money after getting married, but got divorced six months later. This is normal. Financial foundation is sometimes the best glue for love. When two people stick together and save money together, how difficult would it be to break up?

Not a woman’s love Money, but money can make women feel warm.

Zhang Ailing likes money, but she almost never spent Hu Lancheng’s money. Hu Lancheng only gave her money to make a robe, and she felt extremely happy. Later, she gave him the money. He was in trouble, so she sent him most of the royalties, completely losing her self-esteem.

Throughout her life, Zhang Ailing has always been involved with money. She was always wandering in an insecure environment without a fixed source of money. When she was poor, she could not even pay the rent. In the end, , when she died, the house was bare, there was not even a table to write on, and there were paper bags everywhere. When she died, people would often cry when she saw her. If she married a good man, how could she be so miserable? What if a man would be willing to do so? Why would she be wandering on the streets of a foreign land after spending money on her?

So, I believe that a man who loves a woman deeply will be willing to spend money on her. If he has one hundred yuan and is willing to spend ninety for you, he is a good man. If he has one million and is reluctant to spend ten thousand for you, you cannot have such a man.

There is another virtue called frugality

Men’s stinginess is naturally despised by women, but now, stinginess has become the main theme of men. Although the world is a big place, it is getting harder and harder to find a man who is not stingy. Instead of struggling with reality, it is better to adjust your thinking and re-examine those stingy men with a new eye.

It is not easier for men to make money than for women, but it is more difficult for men to have no money than for women. If a woman is poor, people say it doesn't matter. She can still find a rich husband anyway. If a man is poor, his life will be a complete failure. Therefore, it is understandable that they save a little and regard money as a little more important. What's more, a man who spends a lot of money may be happy when he's in love, but may give you a terrible headache when he enters married life.

Unprincipled rush to pay for various occasions, impulsive consumption and never careful calculation. Tell me, grandpa, can you be more frugal? He said, for a grown man, what does it mean to be frugal?

Besides, stingy men are less likely to get involved with women. Because flowers and grass are not fuel-efficient lamps. But he himself is energy-saving and fuel-saving. Naturally, he would rather watch TV at home than spend money in a Western restaurant for Yi. If a man is stingy, his luck will be compromised. Think about it, which young woman would like a stingy married man?

If your relationship is good and victory is in sight, you can also understand that his stinginess is to reserve energy for the peace and happiness of your future life. . In today's global energy crisis, such a man is truly the best person to be far-sighted and prepared for a rainy day. A man, braving the world, saves money desperately so that the woman he loves, that is, you, can have a smooth life in the future without having to endure all the hardships. Isn’t it very warm?

If you are a consumerist (female shopaholics are really rampant nowadays), you need a stingy man even more. Regardless of whether he has the say in your relationship or not, he can at least remind you from time to time that there is another virtue called frugality.

When a man passes through his ignorant youth, he experiences the hardships of life. You still expect him to spend his last dollar on roses instead of bread like a young man, which is obviously too idealistic. The unworldly love is just a perfect POSE. Is it easy for a grown man to bravely bow down to money? If he hadn’t understood the hardships of life, and if he hadn’t had 120 million in the bank, do you think he wouldn’t want to spend a lot of money on beauties?

Final friendly reminder: For stingy men, tolerance is tolerance and precaution is precaution. The AA system will destroy relationships, but private money can never be lost.

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