Napoleon has a familiar saying: A soldier who does not want to be a general is not a good soldier. In fact, he also had a famous saying: "Forget it tonight, Josephine." Josephine was Napoleon's wife. It is said that Napoleon, who was all-powerful on the battlefield, lost his heroic nature when he got into bed. He often said "no" to his lover by hanging his exemption card. In the 21st century, it seems that more and more men need to quote Napoleon's famous saying to embolden themselves.

Recently, "Relationship", a British charity organization that provides consultation, counseling and education for relationships and sex lives, issued a report saying that people who are healthy and have no sexual dysfunction simply lose interest in sex life. The number of men seeking help increased by 40%. "In the past, men who consulted us mainly had problems such as sexual dysfunction. The emergence of * has solved these problems to a certain extent. Nowadays, men who come to us often say, 'My sexual function is fine, I just don't want to do it. '. Most of the men with these problems are married people between the ages of 30 and 50. In my opinion, this is no longer a relationship problem, but a sexual psychological disorder," said Peter Bell, the head of the organization's service department. .

Kerry Cooper, chairman of the British Association of Counseling and Psychotherapy, believes that men lose interest in sex life, ultimately because of pressure. "British working hours have changed from the traditional nine to five to extremely overtime. This makes life very stressful, pressure gradually accumulates, and ultimately people have nowhere to escape." In addition, Germany's Göttingen University surveyed 32,000 people A large-scale survey conducted by men and women found that among men and women who only have sex once a week, 36% of men and 35% of women use overtime work to make up for their lack of sex life; while among couples who have no sex life at all, 45% % of men and 46% of women have "rich" hobbies and activities.

The researchers concluded that people who lack sex have to find other outlets, sometimes through overloaded work, sometimes through watching TV and chatting with friends to pass the time. This forms a vicious circle, that is, the less you do, the less you do.

Carey Cooper pointed out that male sexual function is a "technical job." "If men use it as much as possible at the appropriate frequency, sex will become more and more comfortable, and it will be easy to satisfy each other. But if they don't use it for a long time, sex will be difficult. Nowadays, so many men If they are not interested in sex and their sexual desire is getting lower and lower, they will reject sex life. Over time, sex will become dispensable in the couple's life. This is precisely the main reason for the breakdown of modern marriages.

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