Why do many couples complain that their sex life is not happy? In fact, many times it is not a problem of sexual ability at all, but because couples have misunderstandings about sex. These blind spots in sexual understanding will affect the sexual performance of couples. Life has an impact, so let’s take a look at these misunderstandings.

1. The bigger the penis, the greater the sexual charm?

In men, there is an organ that has "evolved out of control", and this organ is the man's sexual organ. Over the past few million years, the thing between a man's legs has evolved larger and larger, which has puzzled physiologists and worried that if this evolution continues, the thing between a man's legs may one day become so big that Unable to get underneath a woman.

The above worries of physiologists are just unfounded worries. For a modern man, if the size of his thing is smaller, he will be very anxious. If the size of his thing is larger, then he will be so proud that he will feel that no matter what he does in bed, the woman under him will get great satisfaction. He didn't know that the woman under him was actually tired of his monotonous piston movements and considered sleeping with him to be a painful torture.

No matter what the size of the thing between your legs is, it is necessary for you to constantly study and improve your sexual skills. Only in this way will your "return rate" become higher and higher, and your sexual charm will be higher. It will get bigger and bigger. Here I will tell you one of the simplest and most basic sexual skills. This sexual skill was summarized by Japanese sex expert Adam Tokunaga: "The structure of the vagina is very strange, it can stretch freely. After the penis enters the vagina, the vagina quickly expands. It can respond to the size of the penis in an all-round way, thereby changing its own shape. This process is very important. Only when the penis is stationary can the vagina successfully remember the shape of the penis and prepare for the next thrust. Adequate preparation. If a man twitches desperately as soon as he inserts it, the vagina will only feel a hard object stirring inside, and the woman will not be able to settle down physically and mentally, so she will naturally not feel comfortable... not only after inserting the penis, Stay still appropriately, and this should also be true during sexual intercourse. Stop pumping first, keep still for a short time, and then start the piston movement again. Before and after, the woman's sensitivity will change greatly. ”

2. Will holding back and not ejaculating strengthen your body or hurt your body?

In the "Ten Questions", a bamboo slip medical book from the Han Dynasty unearthed in Mawangdui, Changsha, you can see this saying: If "Hey" after seven times without ejaculation, such a man will be free from illness for life; if "Hey" If he still doesn't ejaculate after eight times of "hey", he will live a long life; if he still doesn't ejaculate after nine times, he will be like a god.

An even more miraculous statement comes from the "Records of Nourishing Nature and Prolonging Life" written by Tao Hongjing during the Wei, Jin, Southern and Northern Dynasties: "He who can control twelve women without leaking will make people grow old and beautiful; if he can control ninety-three women without leaking, Long live those who leak."

If a man has sex with 93 women but still refuses to ejaculate, can he live 10,000 years? I believe you can figure it out with your little toes. This statement is pure fiction. Modern medical experts have clearly pointed out that holding back without ejaculation will prevent the congestion in the entire reproductive system and pelvic cavity from quickly subside. If things go on like this, it may induce neurasthenia, seminal vesiculitis, prostatitis, habitual non-ejaculation, retrograde ejaculation and even ED and other diseases.

It can be seen from this that cherishing sperm as much as life, and therefore often holding back without ejaculation, is definitely a bad habit that sooner or later will make men feel that life is worse than death. In fact, if a man can "have sex" when he wants to "have sex" and ejaculate when he wants to, according to his age and needs, this can help him maintain good function of his testicles and prostate.

Of course, telling you to "have sex" when you want to "have sex" does not mean to encourage you to have sex seven times a night or nine times a night, because if a man often has sex many times a night, he will occasionally ejaculate. Bleeding semen is a trivial matter, and some of the more serious consequences are the same as the diseases caused by often holding back without ejaculating, such as seminal vesiculitis, prostatitis, ED and other diseases.

These misunderstandings will bring obstacles to the lives of both sexes. Therefore, when we ourselves have such misunderstandings, we must correct our mentality in a timely manner and treat sex life in a more healthy and scientific way. In this way Only then can sex become more fun.