Generally speaking, those who serve as introducers for blind dates often have a good understanding of both men and women. It is not just that they know the basics of the relationship, but it can also be said that they know the good and bad of the person and are familiar with each other's temperament. Therefore, before a blind date, the matching rate between men and women in terms of hardware (family background, education, personality) is often better than other media means, such as QQ, the Internet, etc., and the success rate is also better than the latter. Of course, this is just the first step of a blind date. If you can accept blind date as a method and hope to find the other half of your heart through this ancient medium, there are a few points you cannot ignore:

1. "Blind date" before blind date

You have to determine what kind of person you are looking for and what requirements you have for his "hardware", such as job, income, family, education, appearance, etc. Don't be embarrassed, just say it boldly, this is the "blind date" before the blind date. If you are an apple, you must choose the one that suits you best among millions of apples; if you are a mango, you must also choose the mango that suits you among the piles of mangoes. No one would force an "apple" to marry a "mango". The reason is obvious, the "hardware" matching rate is too low.

2. Warm-up

If the other party’s hardware conditions meet your requirements, you can ask the contact person to leave a contact information for each other first. Through phone calls, text messages, etc., communicate in advance to achieve "know yourself and the enemy, and you will never be in danger". Please note that this is important. Many people will definitely fail once they go on a blind date; if they go on a blind date again, they will fail again. The bad thing is that the two parties on the blind date did not communicate in advance. Suddenly, somewhere, two people were sitting together with their eyes wide open. They didn’t know where to start. How high could the success index of this blind date be?

3. Time and place for blind dates

Modern people are too busy with time, but this is not the reason for "no time". It is best to choose a blind date during the day, so that both parties have more time and can fully communicate in depth. The location of a blind date varies from person to person, but a place that is too noisy or lively is not an ideal blind date location and will also add invisible pressure to the parties involved.

4. Don’t attach too much importance to the “first meeting”

Many friends met through blind dates, but when they talk about meeting for the first time, they will use “funny”. To describe it as "no feeling", the two sides only started to have a good impression of each other after meeting several times. Indeed, in this world, the probability of falling in love at first sight is too low, and we cannot be demanding of others.

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