Modern society is developing at a rapid pace, and we must keep pace with the times when dealing with many things. Otherwise, if we fall behind one step later, we will fall behind step by step. At the least, we will have to pay tuition, and at worst, we will be beaten. The same is true for marriage. In fact, there are many marriages in life that are destined to fail from the beginning, or experience more ups and downs than others. The fundamental reason is that from the very beginning of marriage, many of us have personally buried multiple time bombs for marriage. As time goes by, the conflicts in the marriage will continue to accumulate, and eventually, somewhere you don't care, the time bombs will accumulate. Explosions occur during the day or at night, but their impact on marriages is often devastating.

It is not sensational to say this. Because in real life, many of us lack the vision for predictability and the understanding of sustainable development. A little carelessness will cause the wrong spark to start a prairie fire, and then it will be difficult to recover. But what I want to explain here is that because men and women have many differences in physiology, habits, ways of thinking, and even social environments, the number and types of bombs lurking in their marriages will also be different. This problem is particularly prominent among women. Most of them enter marriage with more good hopes and dreams than men, but in the end they are more hurt by marriage than men. Therefore, here is a list of five time bombs lurking in women's marriages, hoping to be helpful to all my friends.

Time Bomb 1: Unprepared, too transparent

In real life, women are always too good at changing roles before and after marriage. In love before marriage, they are still like an arrogant princess. After marriage, you can willingly be the slave of the other party overnight; before marriage, you wrap yourself up tightly, but after marriage, you can walk naked in front of the other party. Being so extreme puts you in a very dangerous situation. Because everyone is exclusive in terms of their own attributes. Real life will always allow each of us to maintain a relatively independent space, mood and privacy. This is a necessary condition for human emotional survival. If a woman shows herself too transparently in front of a man, apart from giving him some freshness and a moment of excitement at the beginning, the rest will be boring, vulgar and unattractive for a long time. The development of things must follow the most basic laws. Everything has a process and degree of understanding. Just as rice must be eaten slowly, the flowers of emotion must also bloom slowly. Let men understand you in the process of a woman's flowers blooming. Accept you and fall in love with you. If it is too bright at the beginning, the rest will be the coldness of the whole winter.

Time Bomb 2: People are not self-reliant and are too dependent

I have a female friend who gave up her original job as soon as she got married and stayed at home to raise her husband and children. She wanted to rely on her husband’s family background and ability to go to work. She supported herself, but in the end she got divorced not long after. Her husband’s reason was that he was too tired and didn’t want to be tied up by someone like this all day long. She had no independent opinion and had to ask herself about everything. She needed someone to do everything. Stay with her. However, this female friend also felt aggrieved. Just think about it, didn’t she have his consent when she resigned? She was even more depressed about the problems she had been pestering him about all day long. Just think about it, didn't he complain all day long that she didn't have enough time to spend with him? When you are in love, as long as you are apart for an hour, you will be on the phone one after another...

So, we come to a conclusion: it is better for women to be more independent, otherwise they will rely too much on the other person, and the other person will sooner or later Feeling tired and tired is fundamentally different from the "I" I said when you were in love before marriage. Love is love, marriage is marriage. When you are in love, mutual dependence is a kind of sweetness, but after marriage, the lack of self-reliance will make the other party Feeling is a burden that will become overwhelming over time. If you don't pay attention to timely adjustments, it is very likely to become a time bomb lurking in your marriage.

Time bomb three: unforgiving and too nagging

After ten women get married, nine will become nagging, mean-spirited, and hate the iron. However, for men, it is like a tight spell on the head of Sun Wukong. The more you recite it, the tighter it becomes. If one day you are pressed and can't stand it anymore, you will pick up the golden cudgel and beat the master. In addition, there are some women who always like to keep the word "divorce" on their lips as a mantra all day long when they have nothing to do. Over time, the other party's misunderstanding will come true, and the subconscious will form between them: Just leave!

Time Bomb Four: Not satisfied, too demanding

As the saying goes: Those who are content are always happy. But women are always more difficult to be satisfied than men. They not only require men to earn more and more money, but also demand that men go home early every day. She wants all the cars and houses owned by others, making men exhausted and exhausted every day. , if he encounters a useless man again, he will set up "Hedong Lion's Roar" and treat the man as a human being. In fact, such women are often losers in the end. They lose because of "not being satisfied". They satisfy their desires and lose their marriage. To be honest, this kind of woman is doomed to fail in her marriage from the beginning, because greed is a time bomb lurking in her marriage.

Time bomb five: Impractical and too vain

There is nothing wrong with women being vain. It is just like men being lustful. As long as it is moderate, people will probably tolerate and understand it. But vanity is something that can easily be inflated. Too much vanity means being unrealistic. If you are not practical, you will be ambitious, deceitful, and deceive each other. As a result, you will quickly lose the basic trust between husband and wife. Crisis can quickly develop. Regarding this, the longer the time, the more it can be tested. It accumulates over time. Once, twice or a day or two, it is easy to get a man's tolerance and forgiveness. If it lasts for a long time, no one can stand it. The reason why it is said to be a time bomb is because it often exists from the beginning of marriage. Many women cannot handle it well, do not know how to seek a balance between gain and loss, and develop as they please based on vanity. To be honest, I understand women's vanity very well, but it is natural to weigh clearly what is more important than marriage, and we must not let it harm our marriage, because after all, no matter how brilliant vanity is, pragmatism must prevail. Underpinning.

The above five time bombs all have one thing in common, that is, they actually exist in marriage, and they exist in an inadvertent way, and are easily ignored by people. However, they will change over time. The accumulation will also accumulate due to the number of times. When the accumulation reaches a certain level, it will quickly produce an explosive effect. Its destructiveness is very huge and should attract everyone's attention (especially female friends).

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