Revealed! The truth about China’s 30 million singles and leftover men

Since 2010, many media have claimed that “society has entered the era of leftover women.” It seems that the current trend of leftover women in China is rampant, and it is difficult to get married everywhere. Older women over 28 years old. However, based on the current male to female ratio of 110:100, if leftover women become a trend, wouldn’t it be more likely that leftover men will disappear into the sea? !

This is indeed the case. According to statistics from the population born between 1980 and 2000, there is a "surplus" of 33.31 million men than women. This means that there are currently more than 30 million men in China who are destined to be unable to marry a wife and can only become leftover men!

It really echoes what many scholars have said: leftover women are just a false proposition, while leftover men are a big problem in China’s marriage and love market!

Let’s first take a look at the main groups of leftover men and leftover women.

In China, the vast majority of leftover women are women who have a stable career, an independent financial foundation, and can achieve a good life supply by themselves. Among this group of people, there are many high-end urban white-collar workers, because of their emphasis on marriage. He has high standards and strict requirements, and he has been unable to make up his mind when choosing a marriage partner, so he was left behind by the marriage. To put it in layman's terms, the so-called leftover women do not mean that they cannot marry, but that they have not found a satisfactory one. Belongs to the "active leftover clan".

However, the vast majority of leftover men in China are concentrated in low-income groups. This group of people usually have insufficient income to meet their living needs and cannot afford marriage. In other words, because they are too poor, girls are unwilling to Marry him! The so-called leftover men are really the "passive leftovers" who have been ruthlessly abandoned by married life.

It can be seen that the leftover women are the "choosing tribe" and the leftover men are the "selected tribe". Leftover women can have a choice, but leftover men really can’t afford to be hurt!

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Revealed! The truth about China’s 30 million bachelors and leftover men

Of course, girls are usually unwilling to accept the truth about leftover men. Those who are not yet married prefer to label leftover men like this: 30 Aged over 10 years old, owning a car and a house, having a stable career, understanding women's hearts...

Yes, there are indeed a small number of this type of leftover men in the city. They have everything that makes a woman's heart beat, they just lack a wife. Especially the leftover women, they are always instilling this idea into themselves: there are many older mature men with good conditions, don't worry, I should meet the next one!

It can be said that the perfect leftover man is mostly made up by women. Although occasionally we can encounter such creatures around us, usually, we prefer to call them by their nickname "player"! They live for love and don’t want marriage at all. In other words, the truly high-end leftover men are not unable to get wives, but they haven’t had enough fun yet and don’t want to get wives at all! In any case, such a tiny minority of people cannot represent the truth about leftover men.

Going back to the original topic, the ratio of men to women in China is currently imbalanced. The number of more than 30 million men continues to soar. The phenomenon of leftover men in China is becoming more and more serious day by day. Especially in the past two years, there has been a lot of talk about money worship in marriage, and girls claim that the three most important things for getting married are "a car, a house and no mortgage"! This forces some low-income marriageable men to be more likely to fail to enter the threshold of marriage! If ten years ago, China’s leftover men were mainly concentrated in economically underdeveloped rural areas, then ten years later, perhaps in every corner of the city, those young men who toiled to get by with pitiful wages would also have to No doubt left!

After Yang Yuhuan was favored, the poet summarized the public's reaction at that time and wrote, "Then the hearts of parents all over the world were not to be reborn as boys but as girls."

In today’s world of high housing prices and high commodity prices, giving birth to a son is no longer a joyful event for urban people!

As the economy develops, women have higher and higher demands on life, and some women have become leftover women. But behind the leftover women, we should also look calmly. In the corners of the city, there are so many leftover men. Even the leftover women are unwilling to give them a second look...

And they are the marriage market. The most miserable people!