American experts comment on different sexual frequency

Recently, the latest issue of "Yueji" magazine in the United States pointed out: The most ideal frequency is when both husband and wife reach an agreement on sexual intercourse and do not stick to a fixed pattern. The article also invited a number of American sexology experts to comment and provide guidance on different sexual frequency.

Once a night

Expert comments: I admire your extraordinary energy, but don’t “have sex for the sake of sex” and ignore emotions. John Gagnon, professor of sociology at the State University of New York at Stony Brook, suggests that in the past month, pay attention to the time and frequency of sex, and discuss with your partner whether the frequency of sex is appropriate, and strive to satisfy both the physical and mental aspects. .

Twice a week

Expert comments: This is the "standard sex frequency" that many people adhere to, but Dr. Eric Jensen, an expert at the Institute of Sexology at Indiana University, said that this is not actually the science. The truly scientific frequency of sex is determined based on physical needs and the emotions of both parties. After a couple has lived together for a long time, the frequency of sex will form a habit, and it is easy to become more form than substance. At this time, couples should learn to break the routine, such as changing the fixed time and place.

Two or three times a month

Expert comments: If both of you accept this frequency, then don’t worry too much. Mary Urapini, a psychosexual therapist in Houston, USA, said that for some couples, quality trumps quantity in their sex life. Especially after the age of 40, a quality sex session is better than daily passion. Activities such as learning new things and going on adventures together will bring the couple closer together, improve intimacy, and make sex happen naturally.

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