The loveliness overflowing from the intimate relationship between men and women. When a man and a woman live separately and independently, neither is a complete person. Usually, men are too masculine but inevitably willful, and women are too feminine and often appear weak and lonely. It is only because of the contrast of the opposite sex that individuals with sexual characteristics show their superiority and beauty. D.H. Lawrence pointed out in "Sex and Loveliness": Sex and beauty are inseparable, just like life and consciousness, just like flame and fire are the same thing; sexual attraction is the attraction of beauty, and sexual charm is the transmission of beauty. .

Intimacy, as a manifestation of the physical and mental proximity of the two sexes until they are inseparable, should be a manifestation of beauty.

According to the degree of physical and mental closeness and integration between individuals of both sexes, intimacy can be divided into several levels, and the beauty revealed has different characteristics accordingly:

1. The beauty of intimacy caused by the effect of the opposite sex. This is the most elegant sexual beauty. People who are negligent may not realize that as long as there is no opposite sex around for a long time, the dormitories of young men will look dirty and their lives will be chaotic. When several young girls pass by from time to time, these young men will pay attention to being neat and tidy. , foul language will also be reduced virtually. The same is true among young women.

In social situations, when facing cute people of the opposite sex, regardless of men or women, most people will speak and behave appropriately, showing that they are well-informed and polite.

This kind of intimacy is only on the edge of sex, but it already shows the creation of beauty, which is admirable.

2. The beauty revealed in love letters and actions. When intimacy is directed toward a specific person of the opposite sex, and one expresses one's feelings in the hope of establishing a more intimate relationship, sweet words may be received in large quantities. A sincere person not only pleases the other person with words, but also turns it into actions to encourage himself to make progress and work hard to build happiness with a solid material and spiritual foundation.

3. The beauty presented in the process of sexual union. Intimacy in a narrow sense only refers to the sexual union process, such as the early stages of flirting and sexual arousal. Obviously, without the broad scope of intimacy mentioned above, it is not enough to pave the way for sexual life. Only intimacy in the narrow sense is not enough. Sexual intimacy should be a gradually deepening, continuous and gradual process. The couple's intimacy reaches the point of sexual union, and a large number of intimate actions have long been stored in beautiful memories. Therefore, the intimacy of sexual union has a culminating nature and is the emotional expression of the final stage of peak experience. When both partners exude the beauty of intimacy, sexual harmony can be achieved.

Historically, the beauty of intimacy has been deeply suppressed and devalued by sexual confinement. The shame culture of Easterners and the guilt culture of Westerners both regard sexual pleasure and sexual life as ulterior and shameful acts. Therefore, the connection between sexual behavior and beauty is ruthlessly blocked and denied by various prejudices. Intimacy Being ostracized, even the newlyweds only pretended to be very indifferent in front of others.

But if we look at sex, sexuality and sexual behavior from an aesthetic perspective, the beauty of intimacy is an objective reality. The beauty of intimacy points to the perfection of human nature, which is the principle that the beauty of intimacy follows. If this principle is violated, intimacy may not be recognized by beauty.

Intimacy without love and social civility, such as chaotic sexual intimacy, intimacy in prostitution, etc., has no chance of beauty because it violates the principles of human nature. Intimacy between the sexes in public should not exceed the level acceptable to the public. Abuse of sex, implicating sex with money and power to pollute the pure sexual world is an ugly behavior.

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