Be kind to your sexual psychology
The sexual psychology of Chinese people has always been unspeakable. Caught between the extremely traditional feudal ideals and the sexual liberation thoughts imported from foreign countries, the Chinese people have a strange mentality of "not tired of facts but tired of telling them." In fact, Chinese people are all ordinary people, and they are very eager for sex, and they are not disgusted with all kinds of sexual facts. But Chinese people are extremely tired of discussing and talking about sex. Rather than groping in the dark, you cannot treat sex education correctly. It seems that whenever sex is mentioned, it is vulgar. As soon as children are exposed to sexual knowledge, they become evil.
A large condom model was once erected on the streets of Wuhan, but it was removed soon after. The reason is that "sexual products are not allowed to be advertised." Why can’t sex products be advertised? This actually also reveals the unhealthy psychology of society. "When I see short sleeves, I immediately think of white arms, immediately think of nakedness, immediately think of genitals, immediately think of sexual intercourse, immediately think of hybridization, immediately think of illegitimate children." Mr. Lu Xun already put this issue into perspective more than half a century ago. Chinese social psychology cannot rationally distinguish between sex and pornography, and the relationship between sex and obscenity. These are things that are similar on the surface but are completely different in ethics and morals. And this confusion has caused people to shield and suppress sex in society. Under the impact of the inner sexual impulses of Chinese people, this kind of suppression often appears pale and sanctimonious.
When some people were young, they often complained that their parents could not understand them and tell themselves about sex directly, leading them to make mistakes and take the wrong path. But when these people became mothers and fathers, they forgot their original needs and embarrassment, and shut their children out of sex education without hesitation, letting them go back to the old path. I really don’t know if this is good for the children or is it harming them? Therefore, when parents give condoms as gifts to their adult children, some people are surprised, while others sneer at them. Children will eventually become adults, and they will eventually have sexual needs. As they mature physiologically, they will definitely have sexual curiosity and primitive impulses. If they do not use scientific methods to "guide" them, but blindly "block them" ”, the result may be counterproductive.
In fact, sex is an unavoidable topic. It is an unavoidable need for every adult. Since everyone needs it, and every adult is exposed to it, and even secretly yearns for it, why can't it be faced truly. This may require everyone to ask themselves. From a moral perspective, do you treat sex well? Are your thoughts clean and pure? Purifying one's own soul is the only way to truly get out of the vicious cycle of Chinese society.
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