Introduction: It’s not that women are stupider than men, but that women always love more seriously than men. A person who loves more seriously will always be constrained by love. Maybe a woman has the IQ to play with a man to death, but she definitely doesn’t have that calm heart.

Many women have written to ask this question: "How can men and women be closer than friends and more distant than lovers?"

If she can ask this question, she probably The man across from him didn't make her extremely angry, but he didn't completely satisfy her either.

Women all know that today’s love market is very competitive, and they always hope to have one or two “stocks” around them, so they can attack when they advance and defend when they retreat. When you can't find a more suitable opportunity after going around and around, you can start eating the "food reserves" of the year.

What a beautiful idea.

But it must be said that being able to ask such a question shows that she has very little love experience: Do you really regard men as herbivores? Do you think that you can rely on your simple glass heart to secure her love? Are you playing with him firmly? If you want him to be three steps away from you, he won’t dare to be two and a half steps away from you?!

Before falling in love, every woman has a complete set of detailed love stories. Strategy, purpose, means, methods... She understands everything with one heart. She feels that she can definitely win without losing with her intelligence.

She thought she was the Tathagata Buddha and could hold the monkey tightly in her hand.

But it was only after the love encounter that I discovered: Women are never destined to be Buddhas, and they will eventually become the Sun Wukong in the hands of men, the Buddhas.

It’s not that women are stupider than men, but that women always love more seriously than men. A person who loves more seriously will always be constrained by love. Maybe a woman has the IQ to play with a man to death, but she definitely doesn’t have that calm heart.

Yes, men will not let women be the meat on the brim of their hats. The women they like must be able to see and eat them.

Those sisters who extravagantly hope to be ambiguous but not in love with him can take a break.

In fact, most of the men who are good at this kind of aloofness are those who have wives or girlfriends. They don’t dare to blatantly pick up girls outside, so they will be subtle and wait for the opportunity.

Looking around, an unmarried man without a girlfriend is directly pursuing the "theme" to pick up girls. He doesn't have much time to waste on useless things!

When it comes to falling in love, sometimes you have to be "stable and ruthless": choose the right partner carefully. If you are in an unsuitable relationship, don't shout "start" easily. If you have found the right partner, strike quickly and knock him unconscious!< /p>

The time of being coy has passed. Men are all impatient. If you are always slower than others, then you are out!

Like all office romances, Donna is firmly opposed to making our relationship public. In order to accommodate her, I became her underground lover. We didn't go to and from get off work together. In order to deceive others, I even went back to the dormitory to live for one or two days a week. The rest of the time, I lied about living at my aunt's house. Everything was well hidden as per her request. However, I also found that she is gentle and kind, but sometimes her mood changes.

Once my work unit went to Lushan Mountain for a vacation, a young girl from my colleague asked me to take a photo. As soon as I got home, she had a fit: "If you like this girl, just go!" This was the first time I talked to her. They started arguing, and suddenly she was seen clutching her chest and slowly collapsed to the ground. I was immediately frightened and hugged her tightly, promising over and over again that I would take good care of her in this life... I believed that her moodiness was the sequelae of that unfortunate marriage, and I also believed that I could use my love to to heal her. I don’t know how long it took, but when she regained her breath, we both had tears in our eyes.

We didn’t quarrel for a long time. She often treats me as a child and always happily praises me as a very sensible child. We are becoming more and more like an "old married couple" who get along well. However, she still refused to take another step forward. Every time she mentioned marriage, she would always make a serious face and tell me to find another girlfriend. After two or three times, I just assumed that she had not come out of the shadow of her last marriage and did not dare to mention it again.

Last month, Donna was going to Guangzhou for a business trip. The night before leaving, I went to her place to help her pack her luggage, and unexpectedly found a condom in the trash can in her bedroom. I was stunned! Surprised, humiliated, angry, sad, confused...

She is back. I don’t remember how I asked her, I just remember that she didn’t say anything, just cried and shook her head. In the early hours of the morning, she told me that she liked me, but always treated me as her younger brother. After that, I grabbed my luggage and left, leaving me still confused and heartbroken.

After that, it took me a lot of time to sort out some clues. In my impression, I seem to remember that my colleagues said that Donna was divorced for a middle-aged man. It is said that she gave up everything for him, including her house and daughter. But for some reason, after the divorce, that person never had anything to do with her. I think he was the man that day. However, I don't understand why Donna kept hiding his existence from me, but she didn't hide my traces in the house from him. Maybe I'm just a substitute for her when she's lonely, maybe I'm just a weapon for her to demonstrate against that man, maybe I'm nothing...

To be honest, even a man would mind this kind of thing. But I really loved her, and my buddies advised me to break up with her afterwards, but I still couldn't let go. Am I less of a man? Coke's voice became lower and lower, and the last sentence was almost said to himself.

When she came back from a business trip, I did not pursue the matter further. But no one can pretend it never happened. I moved back to the dormitory from her place, but I still had the habit of staying with her for one or two days a week without talking about relationships, marriage, or anyone else.

In the past two years, I have rejected many friends’ offers to introduce girlfriends, because she felt that I was being delayed. Recently, she often advises me to find another girlfriend, and even asks colleagues and friends to help me keep an eye out for introductions. She said her life was over, but mine was just beginning. She said she would take care of me like a younger brother for the rest of her life. Her behavior confused me. I don't know if she loves me or not. I even doubt that I can fall in love with someone else again in this life?

Before leaving, Coke returned to the smile he had when he came, as if what he just told was just someone else's story.

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