"People's hearts are different, just like their faces." Personality also plays an important role in sexual response and behavior. Personality is divided into 4 types, namely sanguineous, choleric, phlegmatic and depressive. Different personalities behave differently in sex. Phlegmatic people are slower to initiate sex. Choleric types are more active during sex.

With different personalities, people have different conditioned reactions to their partners and external stimuli, and hidden negative knots will be exposed. "Many men suffer from sexual dysfunction because of high pressure. Some people also have character defects due to their special growth environment, which will also affect their married life." Xu Jianyang said. The following three bad traits often ruin your sexual interest.

Some people are spoiled, self-centered, accustomed to demanding others, and do not know how to be considerate of others. They are also more demanding in their married life and always feel that their partners should take the initiative. Nowadays, there are more and more only children, and this situation may become the main reason for conflicts between couples in the near future.

Some people have been living in a repressive environment since childhood and have introverted personalities. They tend to go to two extremes in sex. They are either overly sensitive to their partners and often think that their sexual feelings have been ignored, but do not take the initiative to reveal them to each other; or they are blindly " Offense," even in some extreme sexual forms. It is recommended that these two types of people learn more about "sharing" and serving others, and master the methods to correctly express their needs and hopes.

Some people have experienced setbacks and doubts. They also lack enough self-confidence and security during sex, and will watch their lover's every move with vigilance. There are people who please their partners, and there are people who use "abstinence" as a punishment.