Believe in fate, she lost three boyfriends in a row. Mengmeng is a bit of a bourgeois woman. She has had men around her since she was 19. Now, she is 26, and she has had three boyfriends, but none of them. Retain.

When her first boyfriend went to college away from home, she and she lived in a different place. She called him once a day and sent a few text messages, just to keep in touch. His classmates all asked him, "You two are so far apart and you don't care more, so you're not afraid?" She said, "Hey, what's mine is mine. If you really change your mind, I can't stop you!" Sure enough, a year later, my boyfriend returned home with another beauty in his arms and said goodbye to her.

The second one was when I was a senior in college, living with a boy from the same school. The two were quite affectionate at first. Mengmeng wanted to marry him right after graduation, but she didn't know how to mention marriage to him and was always afraid of putting pressure on him. She kept waiting for the boy to speak first, but the boy kept delaying, and finally made a promise to get married to another girl behind her back.

The third boyfriend started working and fell in love with the leader of a project cooperation company for a long time. This man was really good to her and used his love to remove the emotional pain Mengmeng had suffered before. Hurt, Mengmeng felt that he should be Mr. Right, and the man also mentioned the idea of ​​marrying her. She was very happy waiting for her happy moment. But at this moment, a love rival appeared. Another girl who was younger than her was crazy about her boyfriend. She believed that her boyfriend had feelings for her and didn't care too much. But the tragic ending still haunts such a "unscrupulous" woman. The little girl became pregnant with the man's child when he was not fully awake... That man must take responsibility! Maybe, he still loves her, but he can no longer stay by her side.

Give me a role model: a smart woman who knows how to manage love

I met this Grace half a year ago. She was the director of a program on CCTV. She had plenty of material and a garage, and she soon got a real boyfriend. Because of his round appearance, we call him Lucky Man. Funan is a senior executive of an IT company. He comes from a family of traditional Chinese medicine. He has good looks and first-class taste. The key is that he can please women. He is definitely a master of IQ and EQ. Grace knew that when facing such a man, one cannot pursue history. She smiled and said to him: "Husband, I am not afraid that you will spend money, but I am afraid that you will not spend it." As the saying goes, when a master meets a master, it is exciting. Sure enough, after meeting Grace, Funan cut off all the ties of love in the past and began to manage their future with peace of mind. I started looking at a big house, started thinking about how to pass the mother-in-law test, and started planning to work together to start a business in the future to give my future children a good material foundation...

Grace itself is excellent, this is the foundation. She is beautiful, capable, and talented, and is a typical woman who can "get out of the living room, enter the kitchen, and get into bed". She is strong and soft at the same time. She is majestic and domineering at work, but she is also a gentle and virtuous little woman in life. Secondly, Grace understands that work roles and family roles must be separated. "No matter how prestigious and praised I am outside, I will be his little woman when I come home. I used to get up early to make porridge for him. I used to bring him foot-washing water to the bed and squat down to wash his feet. I Let me tell you, no man will surrender to such a woman."

Although she already has a real boyfriend, Grace lets Fu Nan know that she is attractive and has many people chasing her. Even when she was dating him, there were countless men who greeted Grace and asked her to go out for dinner. Whether it was intentional or unintentional, Funan knew it. It is said to be a kind of confession, but in fact it is to let Fu Nan know that she has many choices. If you don't work hard and pay attention, there will be no chance. So Fu Nan started to get jealous. Vinegar is a good thing for men and women in love. She began to pay more attention to Grace, worrying that she would be snatched away by other men if she didn't pay attention. People are blindly obedient animals. The more people like something, the more they will grab it. Because I feel a sense of accomplishment when I get it, I started to rush to buy a diamond ring to propose to Grace.

Zhao Geyu's comment: Love is "calculated"

It is normal for a woman to be dumped occasionally. If she is dumped again and again, she should take a closer look. It's my own problem. Fortune favors fools. Those are all self-comforting words. The so-called fools are all fools who are wise but foolish. If you are wise and foolish, you are not stupid, but you are extremely smart.

This woman who has been dumped three times has no business sense. It is very stupid to blindly believe in "fate" and treat relationships with the mentality of "what is mine is mine." First of all, this attitude is wrong. It is too negative and will put you into a very passive situation. The most common saying I have heard is: "What is yours cannot be snatched away by others, nor can it be kept if it is not yours." So you begin to passively wait for your destiny. However, do you know how risky it is to "follow"? This may lead to "following" for the rest of your life. "Destined fate", in the final analysis, must be found before it truly belongs to you.

Once again, there are very few outstanding men. Women are used to looking for men who are more powerful than themselves, and excellent women are constantly emerging. These excellent women are also used to wanting men who are more powerful than them, but there are very few such men who meet their requirements. There are very few men like this at the top of the pyramid, looking down at the crowd below, and they have the magnanimity to see how small the mountains are. However, there are too many women for such men to choose from, and there are too many women around them. Therefore, a woman must know how many potential opponents she has. A good man, an excellent man, must be something you actively fight for or even grab. If you don't fight for it or wait for fate to fall from the sky, I believe you will be miserable until the sea is gone. Even if you have a good man, if you don't maintain and manage it well, he may be stolen by another woman. Times have changed because good men are being spoiled by women.

Finally, you have to give yourself core competitiveness. Love is also economics. You have to think about your core value, core competitiveness, and added value. After thinking about these, the most important thing is execution! You must invest emotionally and you must give. You may not get what you pay, but you will definitely not get if you don’t pay. If everyone is waiting for others to pay first, there will definitely be no success!

Grace is beautiful and smart, has a glamorous career, and has abundant material resources. She also has to know the occasion. Sometimes she is a gentle little woman to please her boyfriend, and sometimes she is a strong woman outside leading the team to charge into battle. On the one hand, she is dedicated and loyal, but on the other hand, she never gives up on her friends and confidants. She shows her charm in every aspect, and men will naturally put all their thoughts on her. Smart woman, at first you spend your attention on the man, but in the end, the man spends his attention on you. Then you are successful.

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