Compared to the vested prey that the birds cling to every day, men prefer the Tianshan Snow Lotuses that require risky pursuits. What a good man gives to a good woman is more of a responsibility, but what a good man gives to a bad woman is all his passion and expectations. The highest level of a woman's badness is to make a man always regret and miss her badness forever! Why are men obsessed with "bad women"?

1. Because getting along without pressure is the realm that men pursue.

“Bad” women are like sharp knives, just as the name suggests. Come and go like the wind, come when they are together, go when they are not, there are no four words on the forehead - you are responsible. Therefore, a man would rather blow smoke rings in the middle of the night and recall the woman who cruelly abandoned him, than worry about it in the middle of the night, fearing that if a mistake is made, someone's youth will be delayed and someone will be blamed for the ages.

I have seen many men insist on leaving the woman who loves him very much. The reason is that the woman always wants to ask him if he dares to love her as he said he did.

2. Because the feeling of being stung is the warmth that men remember.

Hormones determine that men want to challenge and conquer. If you haven't been stabbed hard, you don't know how powerful you are. The memory of pain always comes more clearly. This is the same for men and women. Therefore, men will not remember a woman who has no "lethal power".

The rupture left after tenderness can keep a man from recovering for a long time. Just like my male friend, he is so unaccustomed to being let down by others, and it is always girls who pull him. The skirt asked him to stay, but now that a woman left without his consent, he could only use the patience of his whole life to keep her.

Being obedient and obedient will not be loved, because it goes against the nature of male animals. If there is no conquering and resisting rejection, what is the need for a man in this world?

3. Being able to control your own life is the life that men admire very much

In Yi Shuxin’s novel, the male protagonist has this sentence: Today’s women, any They are independent and free-spirited at all times, brave and open-minded, which makes people admire them. Most men look down on women. In addition to loving them, if you also love your job, your friends, your own house, and your own money, he will usually be surprised. And if you are fulfilling and joyful when traveling alone, still sexy and bright after breaking up with him, and continue to get promoted and know how to manage money, he will definitely "worship" you sincerely.

They don’t measure whether a woman can handle a man, but only whether she can handle her own life. In that kind of "life", men can be partners, ladders, or even just embellishments. To put it bluntly, the weight of "yourself" in your heart is the same as the weight of you in a man's heart!

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What can we learn from “bad women”?

1. How cool your heart is, how gentle your eyes are.

Be gentle, be gentle. Even for those of the opposite sex you are not in love with, even for those whom you are obsessed with, you don't have to act like a cold and tough saint. A "bad woman" usually doesn't let outsiders easily see which man is the most important in her heart; give more patience and respect to every man who passes by you, and you will definitely gain a lot!

However, underneath the soft appearance, there must be a "cruel heart". No man likes to be hysterical. Once your emotions are often out of control, you are not too far away from losing him. The cruelty we are talking about means having super control. Don't worry, no one wants you to control him. As long as you occupy the driver's seat and control your emotions, you will be invincible.

The talented Lin Huiyin told Liang Sicheng distressedly that she fell in love with two people at the same time and did not know what to do. She was as honest as a junior sister asking her brother for advice. As a result, her lover Liang Sicheng and "spiritual partner" Jin Yuelin were naturally in extreme pain, but in the end they both told her: You are free.

　2. It turns out that I don’t want anything, including the baggage.

The famous Akana Rika is good at everything, but she likes to carry the whole world’s baggage alone. Wanzi arrived at the station on time, with an answer that satisfied her; but she insisted on testing this man's determination, so she left the train a train earlier, crying on the return train - this was too much. The result of taking men seriously.

And "bad women" understand men's innocence, so they are rarely disappointed in men. Because essentially, they don’t think of men as too perfect and powerful. They are very considerate, especially when it comes to men’s weaknesses and flaws. So as a good woman, you should also admit this fact: women are as tough as steel and men are as weak as paper. You are stronger than them, so you don’t have to expect too much from them or ask for too much. That way you will naturally be less disappointed.

What to do if you lose the one you love? Choose love! Those who are less emotional but have harmonious tastes are usually happier. True love comes only once in a lifetime? This is a big lie.

3. It is better to make tea than to make men

Good women are always available, but bad women are always "busy".

Learn from them, you don’t have to deal with all kinds of men, you just have to have your own world.

Only when a woman has her own world can her heart become bigger; the bigger she is, the smaller the space that can accommodate a man. I know a woman who once hanged herself because of a man. She repented and started learning Tai Chi. The original intention was to see through the world of mortals, but later on the Tai Chi became smoother and smoother, creating my own flowing clouds and flowing water, and a piece of bone-transforming palm. Later, a very decent man was fascinated by the calm and refreshing temperament, and was impressed by Tai Chi. And this man is really ten thousand times more coveted than the original "tasteless hanged man".

Woolf said that women should have a house of their own. In fact, it is best for you to have your own career, your own friends, and your own hobbies, and each of them can make you invest. And focus. Having "your own world" is the key to a woman's charm. Those women who perform well in their own world can always win respect and favor. Their eyes when they are serious and focused can always penetrate a man's chest.

In addition, they always know what they want. If a man is not good at making tea, just make tea. If you don't like this type of man, try another one. In other words, "bad" women have their own unique style and are not obsessed with men as a single species. They have their own vision. Naturally, when they meet the man they like, they also know which red wine to pour on him.

4. Never try to see everything

Sofia? Roland said: "As long as you pretend to be a prey, you can turn him into a lover... 50% of your charm is what you have, and the other 50% is what people think you have." - Don't let men see clearly. Only with you can he be infatuated with you for a longer time.

Space is the trump card of "bad women". A good woman always cares about her husband and monitors her husband attentively. The man feels as if he has a GPS positioning system installed on his body, with nowhere to escape and an unobstructed view. While bad women allow men to be unrestrained, they also give themselves a mysterious space. Some whereabouts cannot be explained, and some personalities are volatile and imperfect, but they are unpredictable and cannot be controlled.

A good girlfriend of mine, who is beautiful, wealthy, confident, and possesses all the qualities a man would want to be attracted to, unexpectedly fell in love with her for many years, and finally lost to a failed woman whose life was very decadent in her eyes. , she even has no fixed abode, and her life is not comprehensive at all. If a good girl is a gorgeous oil painting, she is the Japanese saber that splits the oil painting, but her life is dynamic and lifelike. She hits the man's heart like a little beast, scratching when she's bored, taking a bite when she's hungry, roaring when she's tired, sleeping by herself when she's sleepy, making faces when she's bored, twitching all over when she's excited, her endless movement , Let the man die with his eyes open.

This is life. If you want a man to stay the same, the only way is to be changeable. If you want to be absolutely honest, you must first learn to never let him see everything. Positive examples are as follows: My colleague Linda cannot sing, arrange flowers, or cook, but her male colleagues are always the first to invite her when they go out. The reason is: she is good at table tennis and golf, proficient in the Premier League, Serie A, and NBA, and is knowledgeable about current financial affairs. Enjoy talking about it, and the drinking capacity is great! The men were relaxing and speculative with her, but they couldn't figure out how it was possible for such a graceful figure to have a mind like a man's? They never regarded Linda as a brother, and they were all jealous in their hearts. They wanted to know who taught her to play ball, who watched games with her, who bought stocks for her, and who sang with her over drinks when they were not with them. .

This is not difficult to follow. "Bad women" are usually fun-loving people, and you might as well start by cultivating some of the same interests as men!

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It’s getting “bad” bit by bit!

1. When you pass the men's department and you can't help but want to buy a tie or a sweater for him, please immediately go to the women's underwear counter and pick out a set of sexy underwear for yourself. Have this awareness: having you is already the best gift he has ever received.

2. He doesn’t go home for dinner because he has a social event, so you just make do with a casual meal? Put on your most beautiful clothes, go to a cafe for a light meal, a drink, and then read a book alone for a few hours - pretend you are single, an admirer may show up at any time!

3. Look at your man with a smile and say confidently: "You are awesome!" Men are as vain as children and like to hang around women who often praise them.

4. Keep it mysterious. Don’t report your whereabouts to him every day, and don’t fix the time for phone calls every night. He prefers the feeling of hunting to the sweetness of stability.

5. Develop the habit of turning off your mobile phone, such as during meetings, watching movies, chatting with your girlfriend, or even when shopping and trying on clothes... Let him discover that besides him, you have many " important things".

6. Cherish words like gold. Especially when breaking up, there is no need to write long memories. There is no need for you to explain everything to him, let those heartbroken people regret it on their own.

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