Love is like sand held in your hand. The more you hold it tighter, the less you will leave in your hand. Life after marriage is trivial and ordinary. When you are in love, have you unconsciously developed the bad habit of being a "Chinese-style wife"? How much sand is left in your hand at this time?

Forcing the husband to become a "dragon"

Obviously, women who think this way often have a strong sense of vanity. And there is often a strong attachment mentality. In order to satisfy their vanity and dependence, they do not hesitate to put all kinds of pressure on their husbands. Of course, there is nothing wrong with encouraging your husband to work hard, but if you do not create pressure based on the actual situation, it may be counterproductive.

Racky

Such women often have the following psychology: First, they have a "safe deposit box" mentality, thinking that the "revolution" is over and they can let go, so they dress casually and no longer pay attention to grooming; second, they have a slack mentality, no longer "strictly demanding themselves", everything So-so, just muddle along. Heart of beauty in everyone. Do you think such a woman can avoid disappointing her husband?

Suspicious and arrogant

Suspicious women often stem from lack of confidence in their marriage and lack of confidence in themselves. The fundamental reason for lack of self-confidence lies in the lack of independence and lack of understanding of the nature of marriage. As for an arrogant wife, she often makes her husband frustrated and speechless, which directly affects the harmony between husband and wife.

Disrespecting the husband’s dignity

Men who cannot feel dignity tend to give up on themselves and feel inferior to themselves. Therefore, a smart wife always tries her best to maintain her husband's dignity, inspire her husband to sail through the waves, and regain his glory.

Love comparison and vanity

Some people describe women as a part of the city's scenery. Without women competing with each other and competing for beauty, how could the scenery be "beautiful"? But it would be too vain to compare blindly according to one's own economic conditions. This kind of excessive vanity often makes men who are not "rich and wealthy" mentally nervous and even overwhelmed by it.

Considerate and considerate

Being inconsiderate is a common problem among those who consider themselves "good wives". Some wives are complaining about their husbands: "Why is he still dissatisfied after caring so much about him and taking good care of him?" But she may not know that she has neglected or belittled her husband's relatives and friends intentionally or unintentionally, consciously or unconsciously, which has caused her husband's resentment.

Lack of housewife awareness

Housewife consciousness and housewife ability are closely related. The impact of women with poor housekeeping or housekeeping skills on marriage and family life is self-evident. "Going out of the hall and entering the kitchen" should become a pursuit of modern women.

Disclosure of privacy at will

Family is the most private place, and marriage is the most private relationship. Some women don't understand this and like to talk about "secrets" at home among their female companions, or even private events that happen between husband and wife. If personal privacy and security cannot be guaranteed, can marriage and family life still be warm?

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