Are male and female close friends for love or sex?
Looking at the world, too many men and women come together because of youth, beauty, money, interests, etc. However, when the beauty is gone, the fate is over. The best relationship between a man and a woman is when they appreciate and make up for each other, attract and elevate each other. Because the more material desires expand and dissolve the beauty of human nature and life ideals, then in spiritual life, men long for women to hold roses to lead them forward, and women need men to extend their strong hands to lead them out of the mundane mud. Only by mastering the seven inches of control can the friendship last forever.
Staying with beautiful mature women activates my sexuality
Lai Jun, male, 28 years old
After graduating from university, I applied to be a reporter at a city TV station. Once when I went to an agency for an interview, I met the beautiful and mature Hong. Although I already have a young and beautiful girlfriend Hui, I am still deeply attracted by the feminine red.
Hong is 35 years old. She exudes a charming confidence and grace in every gesture, exuding mature beauty, like a ripe peach. During the interview, I was even more impressed by Hong's rationality and poise in handling the issues. In contrast, Hui is like a green apple, always shy, always showing hesitation and haste in his speech and behavior. I appreciate the atmosphere of red. After the interview, Hong did not hide her affection for me at all, and generously left me her phone number so that I could chat with her when I had time.
In this way, Hong and I came together and respected each other's lifestyle. There was no financial relationship or utilitarianism between us, it was entirely out of a complementary need of emotion. Hong is a woman with comprehensive physical, psychological and personality maturity. She makes me feel comfortable in every aspect. In front of red, I am completely relaxed, my body and mind are at peace, and I am full of happiness. When I was with Hui, I had to keep accommodating her. I was burdened mentally and couldn't let go, so I couldn't enjoy the joy.
It was like spring breeze. Within half a year, Hong and I were promoted to department heads by our respective units, and our careers were booming.
Find people with the same ideals and improve your emotional intelligence
Gong Xiaohua, female, 33 years old
I deal with complicated and boring official documents every day, and I enjoy writing poems in my spare time. Gradually, the dull and mediocre life day after day made me numb. I felt that my inspiration was exhausted, I had no passion, and I was distressed by it.
At a literary salon, I met Hai, the editor of a literary magazine, and we had a great chat. After I came back, I chatted with Haibo Blog on QQ, sent text messages and made phone calls, and discussed poetry together. Our writing has each made great progress during the discussion. My relationship with the sea is growing day by day. There was a tacit understanding, but we both tried to avoid the word sex.
Because Hai and I are people of the same way, our souls are nourished by rich literature, and we pursue a transcendent and perfect state. If we develop into lovers, it will be vulgar. The current situation between us is actually quite good: a little more affection than a little love, and we can move forward and retreat freely. Maybe one day we will eventually become lovers, but that will happen in the future. Anyway, Hai and I are enjoying the moment.
Leaning next to the man from the mountain, I feel solid
Lin Lili is 36 years old
I was born in a scholarly family, and the tips of my fingers have never been touched since I was a child. . After graduating from college, through a matchmaker, I married Chen Biao, a 30-year-old deputy director of the Planning Bureau, and we became an official wife. In order to allow me to have more time and energy to care for my husband and raise my children, Chen Biao quickly transferred me to his unit to be responsible for the errands of issuing documents.
Chen Biao was determined to pursue an official career, and three years after his marriage, he successfully took the throne. He has a successful career, and there is an endless stream of people surrounding him, and of course beautiful women are among them. Gradually, I became a vase decoration for his official entertainment, a kind of show. For this reason, I felt an inexplicable loss. As a 30-year-old, I didn’t want to live in his shadow.
I majored in interior decoration in college, so despite Chen Biao’s dissuasion, I resolutely resigned and opened a decoration company with my classmates. Five years later, the company grew to 10 chain stores. With my own ability, I have built a career, lived in the most luxurious villa in the city, and enjoyed driving and eating every day, but I still couldn't hide the loneliness in my heart. I deeply longed to have a soul-connected person of the opposite sex. friend.
At a friend’s birthday party, I met Gao Qiang, a professor at a certain university. Gao Qiang is over 50 years old, has written many books, is elegant and calm, and when I am with him, I always feel a kind of humanistic nourishment and infiltration. My heart became softer and firmer.
My close friends are puzzled by this. Why should I find a man who is more than ten years older than me as a companion? Why not find someone younger and more passionate. Only I know that sex is not important to me. Happiness comes from the fullness of the heart. With Gao Qiang, my emotional dust has settled and my spiritual home is lush.
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