One of the ambiguous relationships: brother and sister (sister and brother)

Ambiguous index: ****

Innocence index: ***

Signature slogan : "So-and-so is my brother, and we are relatives."

"She is 10 years younger than me, little sister..."

Classic shot:

1. Every day at noon, a young woman would appear at the front desk of his company, smiling and carrying a few lunch boxes, and said: "Brother... how do you like the egg fried rice I made today?" and then smiled. She watched him finish eating carefully, then helped him clean up, not forgetting to carefully wipe the rice grains from his chin. He said distressedly: "I really don't know what's going on in your little head!"

2. At the party, there were so many beauties around him, and the buddies teased each other, so it's not surprising that they often eat tofu. . However, someone told her a dirty joke, which made her blush. He immediately stood on his head and lectured the other person: "You can't bully her, she is my sister."

3. She was fashionably dressed. , but there would often be a young man beside her, sweetly calling her sister. In fact, they are not related by blood at all. When crossing the road, she would hold his hand tightly, and when eating, she would specially give him a chopstick dish. Many men who pursued her would easily suffer her eyes. Only this little "brother" sometimes looked like He protects his "sister" like an adult, but sometimes he becomes a little naughty person who makes his "sister" laugh or cry.

Relationship analysis:

For the "brother", the meaning of the little sister's existence is to make him have the desire to protect her. When the heroism in the man needs to be poured out, When he feels helpless and lonely, his "little sister's" well-behavedness and tenderness often make him feel more comfortable than ordinary gentleness and considerateness, and her admiration for him makes him feel extra confident, which just satisfies the man's needs. Some kind of spiritual conquest. For "sister", what she wants is very simple - to be loved and protected.

For "sister", before there is a perfect boyfriend, "brother" is a very considerate little follower. He has the dual benefits of a man and a boy. He will not deliberately get in trouble with her. When she is in trouble, he will not betray his oath, and when her maternal nature comes out, he becomes a cute and innocent "little thing". For the "younger brother", the "sister" is often a woman who is trustworthy and full of feminine charm.

Potential crisis:

In real life, most "family" relationships are often difficult to evolve into real love relationships. In this type of relationship, there are mostly elements of pity and love, with little common language, let alone equal experience. Moreover, the feelings between "younger siblings" and "older siblings" are often more heavy and complex, and very complex. It is easy to fall into it and find it difficult to extricate yourself. Once the "ambiguity" is excessive, and once the "older brother and sister" have a lover, the "younger brother and sister" will inevitably become a stumbling block.

Ambiguous Relationship 2: Beauty and Beauty

Ambiguous Index: *****

Innocence Index: *

Signature Slogan : "A woman's heart and body can be separated. There is only one pure word between us."

"There is no pure friendship between men and women? That's just because you haven't found a confidante."

"He is my soul confidant. We understand each other but will never possess him."< /p>

Classic scenes:

1. Every time after a quarrel with his wife, he would rush out of the door and run to her house to cry. After that, he would say: "Why do the people I love Not you? Why can't my wife be as considerate as you?" She replied: "If your wife could be like me, she wouldn't be your wife."

2. After being criticized by the boss. , she couldn't figure it out, and her girlfriend refused to invite her to go shopping to relax. She insisted on calling him to complain bitterly. He analyzed cases and principles of life for her until she became cheerful again. When she encounters some major choices, she will also consult with him, and she feels that they have a common language. She said: "My boyfriend understands my body best, and you are the confidant who understands my thoughts best."

Relationship Analysis:

When you are depressed, you encounter all kinds of life In times of difficulty, they become fish that "help each other". Once the sea tide returns, they swim away separately. Even if both parties have lovers, some private and intimate conversations are only spoken to the "girlfriend".

To a certain extent, this kind of relationship between men and women is mostly love that stays on the spiritual level. It can also be said that compared with the relationship between lovers, they only lack physical communication.

Potential crisis:

Even the most innocent confidante can easily be misunderstood as a third party once one of the lovers is not open-minded and sensible enough; secondly, he is a man after all. Once a woman "wines with a close friend, a thousand cups are too little" and becomes overly affectionate, she will inevitably "take off her clothes and take off her belt". Once the last line of defense is broken, it will be difficult to continue the "confidant" relationship.

Ambiguous relationship three: Internet lover

Ambiguous index: *****

Innocence index: **

Signature slogan : "I love you, even if I never see you. I can feel everything about you, I can't see you, that's not a problem."

"We fall in love in the world of bits, leaving the Internet, this Love cannot survive."

Classic scenes:

1. He goes home every day to eat the food cooked by his wife, and then when she is washing in the kitchen, she hears something coming from the room. to the sound of keyboard tapping. The woman who doesn't have to take care of his life and everything is sharing her husband's feelings with peace of mind on the other side of the Internet. And she is still quietly guarding the soulless body of the man she married.

2. "Dear, I'm sending you 999 roses."

"Really?"

An email with a picture of roses arrived "whoosh" Her email.

"Let me kiss you..."

"Well, I feel it, your soft and moist lips..."

"Well, I I brushed my teeth specially for you."

Relationship analysis:

On the Internet, they "fell in love" and even held a wedding. They were two strangers who had never met before, playing word games. They are each other's source of dependence and interest. They are addicted to it, and the Internet makes them look "perfect."

Different from ordinary online dating, most of these online lovers will not meet each other, but rely on their imagination of each other to create various romantic atmospheres and assumptions.

Unlike love in real life, the cost of online lovers is very low and there is no need to bear moral pressure.

Potential crisis:

Because what we love each other is only our own imagination and the maze created by words. So if, if we meet, the consequences are hard to imagine. Forget about the beautiful dinosaur, if you find that the one opposite is actually...

Ambiguous relationship four: Opposite sex living together

Ambiguous index: ***

Innocence index :***

Signature slogan: "Living alone is too heavy a burden, and I'm afraid of the dark. It's easier to take care of me if I have a boy."

"Her important meaning is reflected Every month when I don’t know what else to eat besides instant noodles.”

"His importance is reflected every time the fuse breaks and the gas tank runs out of gas..."

Classic shots:

1. He takes care of his room It's called the boys' dormitory, and she calls her room the girls' dormitory, and the rest are for public use. The sewer is broken, and even if he is addicted to the game console, he will be there at a moment's notice. It was raining heavily outside and I couldn't go out to eat. I coaxed her a little and promised to have money to treat her to a big meal. I promised that two hot dishes and one soup would be served to her in a short while.

2. There was a party to be held in the evening. She discussed with him: "Maybe I have a lot of friends. I can't accommodate so many people in my house. Can you make some space for me?" He agreed immediately. , said: "Just give me delicious food next time. I will automatically disappear on the day of the party. Send me a text message when the party is over..."

Relationship Analysis:

Compared to women and men living together, men and women living together bring more feelings of pleasure, trust and relaxation. Just like the meaning of "matching men and women so that work is not tiring" in the office, this type of new tenant relationship is full of interest in another sense. The survey shows that most women who live in opposite-sex apartments believe that men do not care about details such as the size and orientation of the room, who uses the bathroom more or less, and the situation between women. It's much more complicated. In serious cases, it can even lead to an unhappy relationship and friends turning against each other. In real co-housing, men and women respect each other, keep a distance, and can help each other. For both parties, they can not only experience most of the advantages of the opposite sex, but also avoid the trouble of mutual suspicion, exclusivity, and preoccupation.

Potential crisis:

The house itself is already very ambiguous. Single men and women living in the same room, even if it is not the same room, are very, very close. People who go home often return themselves to their true nature, where they are casual, free, undisciplined, and even the ugly details of life are exposed in front of each other. Although some people develop love because of their very close lifestyles, after all, they are still A distant man and woman. People of the opposite sex who share a house can easily develop into lovers, and from sharing a house to living together. However, if you seek shared housing out of temporary blindness or with the mentality of solving personal problems, you may be taken advantage of by people with ulterior motives, hurting your feelings and disrupting your life.

Ambiguous relationship five: sexual partners

Ambiguousness index: *****

Innocence index: *

Signature slogan: "You only need companionship, not love."

"There are many solutions to the emptiness of the soul, but there is nothing you can do about the hunger and thirst of the body, so I need a sexual partner."

Classic shots:

1. When she was about to get off work on Friday, her cell phone rang, and his voice rang: "Is it convenient for you this weekend?" She thought for a while: "Let me think about it. Oh, no, I have a friend who is coming from Guangzhou to visit me. I’m afraid it won’t be convenient for you to come.”

He said simply with a smile: “Okay, I wish you a happy weekend. Just miss me.” call me."