In ancient times, people attached great importance to women's chastity, and women who did not keep their chastity would be severely punished. So how do you measure whether a woman is chaste? Unmarried girls are not allowed to have an affair with the opposite sex, let alone have an affair with the opposite sex; on the wedding night, the bride must be tested to see if she is a virgin; married women must be loyal to their husbands and must not betray them; after the death of her husband, she must remain a widow for her husband...

Times have changed to contemporary times. How much do men today care about women's chastity? As we all know, many men now care very much about a woman’s first time. Many men have a virginity complex. When they know that their girlfriend is not a virgin, they always feel that the other person is unclean.

Yes, men all think it is great for a woman to dedicate her first time to herself, because they all like virgins. But why is this? Lets come look.

Men like virgins

To love, you must love a virgin. Women always like to ask men "What do you like about me?" It's very simple, it is that they like women to be virgins. In fact, virginity is no longer just a virgin, virginity has become a plot. How many men in this world are virgins and don't care whether their girlfriends and future wives are virgins? It is a fact that men love virgins. Why do men love virgins? Virginity has a completely extraordinary meaning for men.

What do men love in women?

What do men love in women? What is there about women that men should cherish? Men love women, they love their cuteness, they love their beauty. What attracts men most to women, the excitement a woman feels when she receives a love letter for the first time, the nervousness of looking left and right for fear of being discovered when dating a boy for the first time, the shyness of a woman when she holds a man’s hand for the first time, the first time a woman The implicit feeling when leaning on a man's shoulder, the apprehension of a woman when she kisses for the first time, the half-hearted caress of a man for the first time, the longing and uneasiness of a woman when she becomes a bride for the first time, the first time a woman meets a man. The romantic feelings of a woman and her beloved being together for the first time. A woman blushes shyly when she is with her boyfriend, a woman raises her lips because of jealousy for her sweetheart, and a woman smiles when a man surprises her.

Hymen and a woman’s first time

All of this is what attracts men to women. Love, why is it great? Love is great because of these. Without these, why would a man love a woman? Men love women's implicitness. Love a woman's tenderness like water, love a woman's shyness. These countless women deserve the love of men for the first time. Only virgins can give love. Some women always say that men don’t know what they love when they love virgins. Isn’t it just that they love that membrane? Do men love this membrane? If A woman always has borderline sexual behavior with other men and has done everything except sexual intercourse. So what does this membrane mean to a man? Men love this membrane, and what they love more is the countless first times hidden under this membrane. What they love is the countless charming women who are exposed to it for the first time.

It is often said: "A man always longs to be the first man to the woman he loves, while a woman hopes to be the last woman to be her man." This statement may, in a sense, reflect the importance of love. differences between men and women.

It is true that deep down in his heart, a man always longs to be the original man to his woman. This is what we call the virgin complex. In a traditional wedding, the bride wears a flawless white wedding dress, which symbolizes that the heart and body she devotes to her lover are as pure and flawless as the wedding dress she wears. This idea of ​​​​praising virginity is still followed today.

In fact, hymen is not the same as virginity. How to distinguish true and false hymen?

As a woman, I believe most of them don’t understand the female body. For example, the "hymen" has a considerable influence on a woman's lifelong happiness. How many women really understand the hymen? Now, let’s learn some common sense about the hymen of a woman’s body from the editor.

1. Where is the hymen located on the body?

The hymen is at the beginning of our vagina, which is the outside of the vagina. The hymen is a connective tissue membrane covered by epithelial cells. The hymen has no innervation, but contains a small number of capillaries.

In addition, there are holes in the hymen. Generally speaking, this hole can accommodate the width of a finger, but some people have multiple small holes in their hymen. The reason why there are holes in the hymen is to facilitate menstruation, leucorrhea, etc. to flow out of the body smoothly.

2. When did the hymen begin to appear?

In the 3rd to 4th month when we are still growing in our mother's belly, the hymen in our body has begun to appear and slowly develop into shape.

After birth, as we grow older and enter puberty, the hymen will gradually become larger and thinner. Generally speaking, the hymen in an adult woman is about 1 to 2 mm thick.

3. Hymen is not equal to virginity

Because the hymen ruptures after a woman has sex for the first time, the hymen is traditionally regarded as the only sure way to test whether a woman has had sex. But in fact, the hymen is not always broken during the first sexual intercourse. Some women who frequently engage in high-intensity physical exercise or ride a bicycle may cause their hymen to rupture.

4. Can I get pregnant if my hymen is not ruptured?

Although there are small holes in the hymen, sperm may enter the female uterus through these small holes. But generally speaking, pregnancy will not occur if the hymen is not ruptured. After a woman has sexual intercourse, sperm can survive in the uterus for 24 hours. If you find that you are pregnant but do not want it, it is best to have an abortion immediately to avoid greater harm to the female body.

How to distinguish true and false hymen?

What does a true hymen look like?

The pores of a true virgin's hymen are very small, and the current situation of the pores is very regular, smooth and symmetrical up, down, left and right. The size of the pore can only accommodate the size of a finger, while the hymen is translucent in color, and the hymen is There will never be any scars on the edge of the hymen, and there will be a lot of bleeding when having sex for the first time. There is usually a blood stain as big as the woman's hand. Another feature is that the vagina is very tight and narrow, and the resistance when entering is very obvious.

So how to identify a surgically repaired hymen?

In fact, no matter any hymen repair surgery or Korean hymen reconstruction surgery, as long as the hymen is repaired through incision and stitching, they all have one characteristic. This characteristic is the criterion and basis for identifying whether a woman has had hymen repair surgery. This The basis is universally applicable!

No matter what kind of hymen reconstruction surgery is performed, the hole of the repaired hymen cannot be regular and smooth, and the hole is obviously larger. The shape of the hole is Z-shaped, Y-shaped, or radial. And you can clearly see the entire circle of sutures left around the hymen after the hymen repair surgery.

If you use absorbable sutures to perform Korean hymen reconstruction surgery, you can also see some threads on the edge of the hymen (

Many people think that absorbable sutures are completely absorbed and leave no trace. This is wrong. Absorbable sutures do not mean they are completely absorbed. Women who have had a caesarean section know that absorbable sutures are by no means completely absorbed and leave no traces. , it will take at least 5 years for the thread ends of the absorbable thread to be completely absorbed).

Another way to identify whether the hymen is surgically repaired is:

Because many girls think that the price of hymen repair surgery is the cost of restoring their virginity, often when doing this surgery in the hospital, when the doctor says that they need to do vaginal tightening surgery at the same time, there is an additional charge for the tightening surgery (vaginal tightening fee) (much more expensive than hymen reconstruction surgery), they often do not think about it and do not prepare for this cost, so they do not undergo vaginal tightening surgery at the same time as hymen reconstruction surgery. In this way, although the hymen is there, the vagina is not relaxation. When we had sex, it was obvious that she was a fake virgin.