Sex life refers to fixed or irregular sexual contact and intercourse in order to satisfy one's own sexual needs, but is not limited to sexual intercourse. It is an important part of a couple's life. Both men and women need to understand some common sense about sexual life.

Handling sexual accidents

1) Sexual allergy

Most allergies occur due to incompatibility with cream latex and other contraceptives and drugs. Women often feel vaginal stinging and burning. In the event of an allergic reaction, you can wipe or rinse with water, wet towels or paper towels to remove residual liquids, creams, etc., and then take a warm bath.

2) Spasm and pain

The cause may be related to excessive vigorous movements and over-stretching of muscles during sex. The way to avoid it is to have sufficient sexual foreplay and gentle movements. Once it occurs, it should be stopped until the symptoms subside.

3) Contraceptive slipping

Almost all married people have experienced an accident in which a condom broke or the vaginal septum slipped. The correct approach is: take the morning-after pill twice within 72 hours; if the condom falls off in the vagina, just gently pinch the root and pull it out.

4) The vaginal septum cannot be removed

Sometimes more violent movements will push the vaginal septum deeper, making it difficult to remove it. To do this, get into a squatting position, then hold your breath and contract your abdomen. The vaginal septum will be pushed outward to a position where you can reach it and remove it yourself.

5) Pelvic congestion

When a woman is sexually excited, a large amount of blood flows into the pelvic tissue to form a state of congestion. At this time, you should lie on your back and use a pillow to raise your buttocks for half an hour every time, 3-4 times a day, which can help blood reflux. If necessary, you can take anti-inflammatory drugs such as aspirin.

6) Urinary tract infection

Generally speaking, having sex 4-5 times a week or having sex for too long each time is considered "excessive". Excessive sex can cause bacteria to invade the urethra and even ascend to the bladder, leading to urinary tract infection.

7) Neck pain

Stiff or stretched neck muscles are prone to sprains. You can twist a towel around the neck and tie the two ends tightly to support the head and reduce the burden on the muscles.

8) Back sprain

Normal sex should not be painful. Back pain during sex is more common in women whose back muscles are relatively weak. The treatment method is to immediately lie on your side with your knees bent, place a pillow between the knees, and apply local cold compress.