As a woman, breaking up with men, doing well is a style, not doing well, but it is a hierarchical problem! How do you want him to remember you?

Make him feel guilty whenever he thinks of you in the future? fail! Because subconsciously he believed that he was the one taking advantage. Let him feel that breaking up is a relief when he thinks of you in the future? fail! Your interpersonal value in his heart is negative. Make him angry whenever he thinks of you leaving him? A failure within a failure! After so many years of emotional investment, I ended up with a "cruel" evaluation.

So, what is a stylish breakup? Let's put it this way: The purpose of breaking up is not only to leave him, but also to let him remember your kindness and your kindness... This is the art of breaking up.

First, you have to be rational. Dealing with the matter rather than the person, breaking up is just a denial of your relationship with him, not a denial of him himself. No one would worry about someone who denies themselves, right? On the contrary, the closer it is to breaking up, the more you need to affirm his goodness and the people around him. A woman who still thinks about saving a man's face when breaking up is a treasure to any man.

Secondly, you have to be generous. Everything in the past, no matter who was right or wrong, is in the past. Tell him that you have no regrets about being with him and that your experiences are your precious memories. The expression should be sincere and the tone should be plaintive. If you really don't know how to do it, you can review "Moonlight Treasure Box" a few times first. It's not about learning the white crystal, but about learning the Supreme Treasure. Don't make a mistake.

Again, you have to be considerate. You heard me right, I’m talking about consideration. Although you initiated the breakup, you still need to be considerate and even more emotional than when you were passionately in love. Told him to remember to eat hot snacks when working overtime at night, and don’t always nibble on burgers; don’t drink too much at social events, and don’t drive after drinking; he will be alone in the future, and remember to take medicine on time: The yellow suit has been ironed and hung in the closet. ...Try to make him feel that what he has lost is not a girlfriend, but a warm care; at the same time, it will bring back his tender memories of you in the past and cause the physiological effect of soreness in his sinuses.

Finally, you have to be firm. Firm yet calm, gentle yet principled. You are here to break up! Don't change your mind due to his fragile recovery. Don't say "Actually, I haven't thought about it yet". Breaking up must be planned before taking action. If you haven't thought about it well, don't take action. Going back on your word will only make him think that you are asking for something in order to make progress, and using the threat of breaking up to make him submit is so despicable that it is equivalent to "crying, making trouble, and hanging yourself".

What did you say? hypocritical? Insightful!

I know that many people must fight over what is right and wrong when they break up with their former lovers, and are used to hurting each other until they are completely naked and mentally broken. Maybe this is more enjoyable and more real, but it is completely out of style. , not suitable for women! You think, if you can make the person you once loved remember a little more tenderness and a little more beauty, why would you be a little hypocritical?

Next we need to choose a way to make the breakup as poignant and emotional as possible. Why add this paragraph? It's because some women think too simply.

For example, one woman suggested deliberately "accidentally" leaving a "used" condom under the bed.

Comment: Smart-aleck type. The breakup process did not fully consider Chinese characteristics. Chinese men's generosity towards their girlfriend's "sexual" betrayal is most likely a pretense. If you break up with him at this time, do you still expect him to have good memories of you? For him, it was an abandonment based on betrayal. No matter how well you do during the breakup, your thoughtfulness and generosity will be understood as a mask to cover up your guilty conscience.

For another example, another woman suggested: How about finding a backup player for him?

Comment: Eight Po-type. The man's idea is: "Are you so sure that you won't be able to find me if I leave? Do you still need to bother arranging an analgesic for me?" The correct approach is: Even if we break up, you must believe that he can handle it well. Taking care of your own feelings is also a form of respect for him.

It is recommended not to involve too many external reasons and concentrate on arranging a peaceful breakup! Provide a few ideas and you can draw inferences.

A sophisticated algorithm: Choose the critical moment of his exam or defense, accompany him, and cheer him up. When he comes out of the examination room, explain to him your true purpose with an expression of infinite nostalgia. At this time, the more you cry, the more he will think that you are a good woman who can bear emotional pressure for him, understand the severity, and know how to advance and retreat.

Step by step method: Choose a day that is special to you, or go to a special place. Use the particularity of the place or time as the introduction, recall the good times of the past as the preface, analyze the objective reasons for the breakup as the main text, and end with the first and second of the previous text. The attitude should be depressed and narcissistic in memories.

Distance cooling method: If he is a man who roars like Ma Jintao when he is excited, I advise you to take a leave and go traveling! Just leave him a letter. Distance calms people down and can effectively reduce noise decibels.

Romantic and warm method: Make a reservation at the restaurant where you first date, and let him wait for you under the soft and ambiguous candlelight. Ask the waiter to deliver your tactful but firm handwritten letter to him in half an hour. Let him lose you in the anticipation of you, let him lose you in the sweet memories of the first date.

I write the above words in the hope that every couple who have ever loved will remember more good things. After all, every relationship is fate, and what we get from it should be more aftertaste rather than resentment.

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