It’s totally exploded! The woman’s bizarre reason for divorce is shocking. She hates her mother-in-law holding the child and her sister-in-law going on a blind date

Although divorce is very common, what is the weirdest reason for divorce you have ever heard? A Sichuan woman's bizarre reasons for divorce were revealed on the Internet. She said she hated her mother-in-law holding her child while basking in the sun, and she hated her sister-in-law's constant blind dates, so she wanted to divorce her husband. It is reported that the woman wrote 30,000 words of bizarre reasons for divorce, each of which was trivial, and the couple had no emotional problems.

A Sichuan woman named Zhang wanted to divorce her husband. On the 16th, the Nanxi Court of Jinzhai County mediated the couple. To the judge's surprise, the woman Zhang actually wrote a 30,000-word divorce complaint. The reason for the divorce was quite bizarre. .

It is reported that in 2012, Zhang met Wang, a man from Jinzhai County, through online chatting. They both worked in the same city and soon established a relationship. The two received their marriage certificate in 2013 and gave birth to a son, Xiaomao (pseudonym), in the same year. . In 2014, they returned to their hometown in Jinzhai with their one-year-old son.

Zhang listed many reasons for divorce in the complaint. For example: the husband born in the 1990s is still like a child. He does not go out to make money, but surfs the Internet and plays games at home all day long. He relies on money from his parents-in-law for living. After marriage, the husband continues to have sex with other people. Girls chat online and more. These reasons for divorce are barely passable, but the following reasons are a bit unbearable.

Zhang wrote in the complaint: "Xiao Mao has jaundice, and his mother-in-law always hugs him to bask in the sun. Is it okay to bask in the sun?" "They hug the child and keep swinging around. It's so annoying!" "My sister-in-law also I’m not young anymore, I keep going on blind dates all the time, I can’t stand it!” and so on.

Regarding the above case, many people find it incredible that the relationship between husband and wife can be broken by such trivial matters. In addition to the trivial matters of life, there are several factors that can lead to the breakdown of a couple's relationship.

6 factors that affect couples’ emotions

1. Mutual disloyalty

Generally, couples have a gentleman's agreement before getting married, such as "who will do more housework", "how to deal with the family's financial income", "whether each other will be conservative in personal communication activities", etc. But if one party of the couple fails to keep or breaks the promise, then the vows made before the marriage will be in vain. In daily life, some couples hide their income and expenses from each other; some couples break their promises and cheat on each other when it comes to housework; and some couples secretly have close relationships with friends of the opposite sex. The list goes on and on. The disloyalty of one party will often lead to the disloyalty and resentment of the other party in a chain, and even the other party will retaliate with the same disloyal actions, eventually falling into a pit of mutual suspicion and unable to extricate itself. At this time, it is too late to regret.

2. Bad personality

When a couple lives together, they still need to maintain their unique personalities. If one person lacks personality, the person living with him or her will feel monotonous and boring. A husband who lacks personality will not be favored by his wife. Similarly, a wife who lacks personality will make her husband feel like nothing. Bad personality and temper are an important cause of conflicts between couples.

3. Relative issues

The husband's relatives are the wife's relatives, and the wife's relatives are the husband's relatives. The husband's family and the natal family are one family. This can greatly reduce conflicts between husband and wife over issues such as support and reception. Improper handling of relatives' issues will not only affect the relationship between family members, but also affect the relationship between husband and wife. One couple had a huge quarrel because they failed to handle this issue. The husband's hometown is in the countryside. Once, the husband's parents went to the city to visit their son and daughter-in-law. The wife thought her mother-in-law and father-in-law were rustic, unhygienic, and uncivilized. She never looked good to her mother-in-law and father-in-law, and deliberately looked for She quarreled with her husband over some trivial matters. When she saw her husband giving her parents a few dollars, she made a fuss in the room, forcing them to stay there for only two days before going home full of melancholy. Of course, the husband refused to give up, so the two parties started fighting "with live ammunition" and finally had to break up. This example shows that improper handling of relatives' issues will often hurt one party's self-esteem first, which in turn will often lead to the breakdown of the relationship between both parties. Therefore, both husband and wife should regard "your mother as my mother", respect each other, and be polite to each other, so that the relationship between the two parties will be more harmonious.

4. Mutual dislike

This situation is manifested in that you don’t want to look at me, and I don’t want to look at you. The two sides do their own thing and do not interfere with each other. They often adopt a bystander, indifferent, and disgusting attitude towards some issues that require cooperation. The main reason for this situation is that one or both spouses have a bad temper, treat the couple's life as a bachelor's life, only care about themselves in all aspects, ignore others, adopt an uncooperative attitude towards the husband or wife, and do not care about speaking. No matter whether you are doing something or not, as long as you are willing, you will not listen to any objections. If the other party expresses the slightest objection, you will lose your temper. As time goes by, resentment gradually develops: one party always feels dissatisfied, even disgusted, with the words and deeds of the other party.

5. Disharmonious sexual life

A harmonious sex life has always been ignored in our country. When it comes to sexual issues, others will immediately accuse you of having ulterior motives or bad intentions. In fact, a harmonious sex life plays a very important role in maintaining the relationship between husband and wife. Many couples' emotional discord is actually caused by this, but "emotional discord" is more polite and easy to accept than "sexual discord", while the latter is difficult to be elegant. In some divorce cases, emotional discord becomes a substitute for sexual discord and thus becomes a legitimate basis for divorce. Therefore, although the relationship between husband and wife is not entirely dependent on sexual union, if one or both parties have never been satisfied in their long-term sexual life, it will affect the relationship between husband and wife anyway.

6. Improper handling of family income

The family's economic and income issues often affect the relationship between husband and wife and become the trigger of marital conflict. The family's financial situation should ensure that they live within their means and use it rationally. In fact, this is not a question of more money and less money. It mainly depends on the attitude towards money and how to arrange it. The two parties have different attitudes towards money. You want to buy a refrigerator, and I want to buy a suit; you want to buy cigarettes, and I want to buy groceries; or the husband is extravagant, and the wife is stingy; the husband is stingy, thrifty, and the wife pursues a high-consumption lifestyle; Once the couple gets entangled over money issues, the couple's relationship will inevitably be affected, and the further development of the couple's relationship will be out of the question.

How to maintain the relationship between husband and wife

Always recall passionate love: passionate love is the precursor to marriage. The scene where a man and a woman in love are so attached to each other that they cannot leave each other for a moment is really wonderful. After getting married, often recalling the love scenes before marriage can arouse the emotional resonance of the couple, increase romantic emotions in the memories, and yearn for the future, thus enhancing the relationship between the couple.

Arrange another "honeymoon": The honeymoon when you get married is the period when the couple has the strongest relationship. At that time, the two people put aside all the troubles, completely entered the world of love that surpassed honey, and enjoyed the joy of "Garden of Eden". After marriage, if you can take advantage of holidays and arrange a "honeymoon" of varying lengths every year, travel to a different place, recreate a small world of love between the two of you, and relive the sweet dreams of the past, you will surely be able to continue to create waves of love and make the relationship between the couple stronger and stronger. .

Celebrate commemorative festivals: wedding anniversaries, each other’s birthdays, love anniversaries, etc. These are important days in the love history of the couple. At that time, appropriate forms of commemoration will be used to make both parties feel that the other party has deep love for them, which will play a great role in strengthening the relationship between husband and wife.

Compensating for past love debts: Due to limited conditions, many couples are unable to repay each other's love in an ideal way when they get married, such as not being able to go on honeymoon, not being able to buy a decent gift for their lover, etc. A few years later, when the conditions are met, remember to complete these unfinished matters to repay the love debt owed in the past. This will make the other person think that you are a very affectionate, passionate person, and their love for you will double. , For example, many gay men buy gold jewelry for their lovers after marriage, and many couples who have passed their thirties take re-wedding photos, etc.

Learn to please your lover: Some men and women, when dating each other before marriage, always try to please each other, but after marriage, they no longer care about how the other person feels about them. This approach will damage the relationship between husband and wife. Therefore, after marriage, lesbians should be as gentle and gentle as ever, caring and caring for their husbands; while gay men should carefully understand their wives' inner feelings, not only be considerate and protective of their wives, but also learn some skills to please their wives, such as Be her adviser when buying clothes, help her make a beauty plan, add some humor from time to time, etc.

Create unexpected surprises: Surprising the other person unexpectedly often acts as a "stimulant" for the relationship. Therefore, creating a little surprise is very good for enhancing the relationship between husband and wife. For example, without telling the other person, bringing his or her relatives from afar to meet him or her, buying an item for the other person that he or she wants to get, creating an activity for the couple that the other person is not prepared for but likes very much, etc., can all lead to unexpected surprises. Suddenly, strong feelings burst out in surprise, setting off a jubilant love wave.

It’s appropriate to have a little farewell: “A little farewell is better than a wedding.” After living a peaceful married life, consciously leave each other for a period of time, deliberately cultivate the longing for the lover, and then reunite happily. At this time, the emotional heat of the couple's longing can be intertwined into a joyful reunion carnival, pushing the peaceful relationship between the couple to a new peak.