A smart woman will not be a man’s lover
The role of a lover is like the most beautiful flower in spring. It blooms full and disappears quickly. When you fall in love with a man, it is best to stay away from the role of lover. It will bring you happiness for a while, but it will make you bear eternal heartache.
Once two people become lovers, they no longer feel relaxed and transparent. When there is an inexplicable responsibility between two people, they will naturally make many demands on each other. Maybe this kind of request is normal, but when he can't satisfy you, he will inevitably feel sad and melancholy, and you will fall into an emotional whirlpool and be unable to extricate yourself. The lover's role creates a sense of insecurity because he cannot see the light of day, and he even loses himself in worrying about gains and losses.
A woman who loses herself will always lose her once dazzling charm.
Being friends with a man is a joy. You are your own. There may be a feeling between you and him, but this feeling will not make you lose yourself. You both have your own life, you won't ask too much of each other, and you won't have sleepless nights for him. You will share his happiness and his pain, you will drink together and make some pink jokes without feeling tired.
When you become his friend, he will regard you as an asset. He is relaxed and natural in front of you, and he will think of you when he is happy or troubled. He will appreciate your independence and your thoughts, he will recall your smile and your charm, he will work actively because of your encouragement, and he is willing to let you meet a successful and radiant man.
Lovers are too sensitive and lose their hazy beauty because they are too close to each other. A grain of sand cannot be rubbed into a lover's eyes, and a grain of sand that can only be seen under a microscope can wear away two delicate hearts. But friends mean tolerance and making each other happy.
If a man is troubled by his lover, he will talk to his friends. Lovers are heavy, but friends are light; lovers mean tears, but friends are the sunshine above your head.
Smart woman, if a man attracts you, you must not be his lover. Because many men are too forgetful, they will forget your previous brilliance and beauty, and they will turn their attention to others and turn a blind eye to you. You can choose to be his friend. From the day you choose, he will look at you with admiration and he will never forget you again.
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