Smart women should never ask their husbands these four sentences

The phrase "I was wrong" is often considered to be a men's patent, and women are disdainful to say it. Some women express that they are wrong by Acting like a baby and using it to prove one's fault is generally welcomed and is certainly worth promoting. In my opinion, if a woman does not say "I was wrong" in her life, she has failed as a woman.

Women always use this to complain about men’s incompetence in some aspects. This kind of accusation of incompetence may be in career or life, but it is often this sentence that hurts men greatly. Self-esteem and career are important parts of a man's life. Blind sarcasm may put a man in a desperate situation.

There are hundreds of millions of men in China. Each man has a different career and different abilities. Naturally, the rewards from society will vary widely. Since women have chosen, they should face reality and be content with what they have. As long as men do their best, We have no reason to blame them.

As a man in politics, China's officialdom is a pyramid. The vast majority of men are only in the center or even at the bottom of the tower. After all, there are only a handful on top. As a man in business, shopping malls are like battlefields, with successes and failures. There must be gains and losses. Gentlemen love money and get it wisely. As long as you spend enough money, why force too much and make each other unhappy? For men who have failed in their careers, women’s comfort and encouragement are what they need most. of.

If this sentence floats out from a woman's gentle mouth, it will move a man. It reflects the woman's concern for the man, because what is hidden behind this sentence is: "I "I'm worried to death", but if it is asked with a raised eyebrow, it will make men feel sick, because this sentence appears most frequently in police interrogations of prisoners, such as: "What are you doing between what time and what time?" etc. , to determine whether there is a time to commit the crime.

Some women often adopt this attitude when asking questions. It seems that if a man does not appear in front of a woman for a moment, he is committing inappropriate behavior outside. In fact, a man should have his own living space. This space is free. After all, a man has his own career and social circle. If you love him, you must believe in him. If you believe in him, you must give him space to breathe. It is okay to blame him once or twice, but more If they are suspected of being spies, there will be a gap between them.

Legally speaking, men are not obliged to report everything to women. Some women may say that my man is not angry and will answer honestly when I ask him. This is not necessarily a good thing. A man giving up to a woman does not mean that he is afraid of women. He may feel distressed or disdain to pester her. Even if he is really afraid of women, then this man will completely lose his edges and become inhumane. Women must not be proud of the admirable "wife chastity"!

Most women are unwilling to admit their mistakes

The phrase "I was wrong" Words are often considered to be the preserve of men, and women are disdainful to say them. Some women express themselves in a coquettish way by acting coquettishly. Using coquettishness to prove that they are right is generally welcomed, and of course it is worth promoting. In my opinion, if a woman does not say "I was wrong" in her life, she has failed as a woman. Using coquettishness to win a man's sympathy and then his forgiveness, in the end, he still doesn't really realize his mistake, which can only make people suspect that it is a prelude to the next mistake.

But most women use the sentence "It's all your fault" to get rid of it. Women have no opinion on many things. Before making a small decision, they always like to ask men: "Is this true? Is this okay?" , once a man nods, he will do it boldly and confidently. If he succeeds, he will be elated. If he fails, he will put the responsibility on the man. The idea is the man's, and the result should be borne by the man. In fact, occasionally saying "I was wrong" will make a woman more attractive.

If a man's cell phone rings, women will unconsciously ask: "Who's calling?" If a man hesitates for a moment, he will immediately be questioned further, and a normal phone call will be accused of unwarranted charges. Some women like to look through men's mobile phones. Whenever they see unfamiliar call records, they will not forget to ask "Whose phone number is it?". A patient man will explain it. Repeated questioning may escalate the conflict. Mobile phones are men's My dear, this is absolutely true. As a woman, you might as well leave some privacy to your man. Maintaining a sense of mystery is not unhelpful to love and marriage.

I used to like to look through my husband’s phone book. Whenever I saw a strange girl’s name, I always wanted to ask her questions, such as: What does she do, where do we know each other, etc., until one day I found out that my husband There was no girl's name on the phone. After being puzzled, he told the truth. It turned out that he had changed all the girls' names to homophones, such as "Li" to "Li" and "Fang" to "Fang". It suddenly dawned on me that this was a silent resistance to my dominance. Only then did I get rid of this problem.

Mutual respect between two people is the basis for maintaining a beautiful love and marriage. This respect should not only be kept in the heart, but also expressed in words. Respect is trust, just like wanting to hold a hand of fine sand. If you pinch it too tightly, it will often slip out from your fingers. Only by gently lifting it can it be perfected.