Women know how to give appropriate "respect" or "face" to their husbands and boyfriends, which can be said to be a stepping stone to achieving harmony in the relationship between the sexes today.

Don’t underestimate this problem. During dinner parties, it often happens that wives don’t know how to give face to their husbands in public.

Last week, at a table of more than a dozen people, before the second course was served, Mrs. Chen blurted out to Mrs. Zhang next to her while they were toasting. He said: "You will make money by paying your husband back. My husband's monthly income is less than half of your husband's!" Mr. Chen, who was standing by at the time, immediately changed his face when he heard that his wife was so "frank". One of the invited guests stood up immediately in order not to make the scene too embarrassing: "My car is parked on the side of the road and may be towed away. I will park the car and come back later." Mr. Chen After saying that, he left the table, of course, and walked away. The so-called parking was just an excuse to leave.

The issue of face should not be underestimated. There is a slang saying in China, "A hanged man will lose face - he wants to save face." This expresses one of the national characteristics of our country, "good face", which even foreigners know. Say "NOFACE". Everyone hopes to be "respected" in front of others, or to live with "dignity". In other words, no one wants to have their self-esteem damaged or be humiliated, let alone being disparaged by their wife in front of people they know!

The famous writer Somerset Maugham once said: "Self-esteem is a virtue and a driving force for a person's continuous upward development." In modern sexual relations, it seems that we should learn how not to hurt The other party's "virtue" and "motivating force", no?

Saving face is actually a kind of language art. Mrs. Chen can definitely say: "Congratulations! Mrs. Zhang, your husband is getting better and better at making money. Let my husband ask him for advice one day. Please tell me how to make a fortune. But in other aspects, you may want your husband to learn from my husband." If you say this, everyone will be happy.

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