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Uneasy about "size".

This is the deepest trouble for men, which is often related to the lack of correct sexual knowledge and wrong comparisons with friends. To eliminate this unnecessary panic, wives should encourage their husbands to tell each other their sexual feelings in a timely manner. At the same time, men should also remember that the size of the penis will change dramatically after an erection, so the size of the penis in a calm state does not mean anything.

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Worrying that it will not last long.

Are you about to ejaculate? Will the time be too short? Statistics show that the more fearful a person is that their sexual intercourse will not last, the more likely they are to suffer from sexual dysfunction. Especially during a certain sex, an unintentional remark from the wife, such as "It was so fast this time", may leave a shadow in the husband's heart: Is she complaining that I didn't do a good enough job this time? Men who lack confidence in timing should actively exercise their pelvic floor muscles to delay ejaculation.

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Worried about difficulty in getting an erection.

More than 80% of men have experienced occasional erectile dysfunction, which is normal. But in the eyes of many people, the inability to have an erection equals "asexuality." This is related to their limited sexual knowledge. It is recommended that men ignore erection problems, immerse themselves in the process of experiencing pleasure, and try to get the wonderful feeling of skin-to-skin contact without relying on the penis.

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Worry that your partner will be disappointed.

Men will feel disappointed if their sexual life does not go according to their own design or does not meet expectations. To avoid these problems, start by not setting unrealistic expectations. Things are not always as perfect as imagined. Most of what we see in pornographic films and online literature is inconsistent with reality.

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Fear of unwanted pregnancy.

Men will not be proud of an unexpected pregnancy. Instead, they will have perceptions such as "they did not calculate it well" and "trouble". The wife's multiple unexpected pregnancies will also shake a man's confidence in enjoying "sexual bliss". If there is no need for reproduction in the short term, then stick to using condoms, birth control pills, etc. Some men also have doubts about the future and are afraid that they or their partners will change their minds. This is also the illusion created by the Internet, modern literature, and film and television works. Time may dull passion, but it will not completely kill love. Couples should have confidence in themselves.