A loving wife must learn the four auras of a prosperous husband. Tolerance is the "preservative" of marriage
Although men all like beautiful women, they all covet those sexy and beautiful women. When they really want to marry, they will choose the wife of a prosperous husband. "Wangfu" is a very popular and popular term. The most straightforward explanation is: the wife can make the family prosperous and the husband's career flourish. So, a wife who wants a prosperous husband must have four kinds of aura.
Strong aura 1. Delicate and savage spirit
After all, a woman is a woman, and she still needs to be a little bit coquettish in order to show her true nature. If a woman is not coquettish, she will inevitably be too beautiful, intimidating, and loses the desire to be close to others; if a woman is not unruly, she will lose some charm, be too peaceful, and lose the desire to conquer.
Why are there not many women who like Lin Chiling, but there are so many men who like her? It seems that men really like coquettish and coquettish women. Such women make them feel that being a man is very satisfying and they have a desire to conquer.
Of course, if a woman really stood in the living room at home with a rose in her mouth to welcome her husband back, she would probably scare half of her husband's life. This is just an example to prove that coquettishness is an indispensable quality for women, but it must be done in a measured way, and never copy it.
Prosperous aura 2, fireworks
Just being coquettish is not enough, life is not a romantic life after all. Well, some pyrotechnic gas is required. But many women now refuse to go to the kitchen. They believe that once a woman enters the kitchen, she has degenerated and entered the stage of being a yellow-faced woman who revolves around the pot. She will continue to degenerate and will never be able to get rid of the smoke for the rest of her life. And a man will eventually get tired of her because of the irremovable smoke and turn his back on her.
Of course, women do not have to cook for every meal every day. We might as well regard cooking as a mood and life adjustment. When you are tired or in the mood, you can also be lazy. Of course, a man can't be an absolute bystander. He has to be a low hand and show his hand occasionally. Only two people have to do anything together to be sentimental.
Prosperous aura 3, bookish aura
If she just hangs around the pot every day, how is such a woman different from a full-time cook? What men want is not just to satisfy their stomachs, but more importantly, to satisfy their hearts, or what we call their minds. In fact, a woman who loves reading can really impress men with her background and temperament. As the old saying goes, if you have poetry and books in your belly, you should read more and read more books. That kind of temperament from the inside out will naturally make men appreciate it and linger on it.
Wangfu aura 4. Atmosphere
With a bookish attitude, women will become more generous. Arguing over every detail with a man, getting into an argument over trivial matters, and dragging a man into quarrels will only cause a man a lot of headaches. A woman's magnanimity is also reflected in many aspects, such as how she treats her husband's friends. Many women control their husbands too strictly and like to tie their men to their belts. This practice is actually very inappropriate. When many women get married, their husbands are their entire world. However, if a man regards his wife as his entire world, it can only be said that he is as narrow-minded and worthless as a woman. Men need friends. Let’s not say “it’s easier to have more friends”. You must at least have this point of view: being with friends often can promote the relationship between husband and wife.
Tolerance is the "preservative" of marriage
Conflicts in marriage are inevitable, but they can be dealt with calmly. People can not escape from doing wrong? When facing your lover's mistakes, you should understand and sympathize with them with a broad mind, and guide and correct them with the intersection of your souls. Mandatory control will only deepen the rebellious psychology of the other party, and there will be an obvious "master-slave" relationship between them. In the long run, there will be a gap in the relationship.
To correct your lover's mistakes, you should use your utmost patience to help him or her correct their mistakes, just like elders do to their juniors, give the other person a chance to change their ways, impress the other person with true feelings, and let them feel the power of love. Of course, you cannot make mistakes often, let alone repent. Human hearts are made of flesh. If even love cannot shake his or her cold heart, you should consider whether to continue living.
A true marriage is not only the spiritual and sexual fusion of men and women, but also needs to be based on mutual respect and tolerance between men and women. The relationship between men and women, even those who have been married for many years, is not an inert element in chemistry. It does not have a relatively stable structure. If they are not careful, they will break up.
Love is a fragile product, which needs to be "handled with care"; love is a perishable product, which needs to be guarded against and always observed to see if it deteriorates. Be a thoughtful person and don't put her in a safe just because you brought her home or married him.
Love requires tolerance and understanding. No matter how perfect your love was, it will always become rusty or even miserable due to the erosion of time. For marriage, the most difficult thing is not life, but the reunion of hearts.