There are more and more leftover men and women in the city. They are all lonely and miserable because they cannot find the partner of their dreams. They cannot see happy smiling faces all day long, and there is a dark cloud hanging over their foreheads. Young people look like they have experienced many vicissitudes of life. Such buddies and sisters can be seen everywhere on the street. Here, Xiao Ma has summarized some suggestions for the leftover women born in the 70s and 80s. Maybe you will find it reasonable after reading them. I hope these suggestions will be brought to the sisters. Change and quickly find the "Prince Charming" in your heart!

1. You must believe in beautiful love, but marriage is not entirely love! Marriage is based on the financial and emotional foundation of both parties. Be realistic! In fact, marriage is based on the financial and emotional foundation of both parties. The ancient view of being well-matched still exists today. When considering the issue of marriage, two people can only get together if they have equal conditions. Don't believe the Cinderella story. You and he are too different, or he is too different from you, and neither of you will feel comfortable.

2. I believe that each of us has had an unforgettable relationship, maybe on the university campus or in the office. Sisters, don't hide in one place and lick your wounds quietly without wanting to withdraw from that relationship. You must understand that it is wonderful to have it once, and people always have to look forward. Because in real life,

The one you love most often doesn’t choose you;

The one who loves you the most is often not the one you love the most;

The one who lasts the longest is neither the one you love the most nor the one who loves you the most.

It is just the most suitable one The person who appears at the right time.

Sometimes the marriage partner may really meet the right person at the right time and get together. Many people who walk into the siege will have this feeling.

Marriage is not the tomb of love. It is not that scary. What is more important is to find a suitable person who you can rely on and share with to face life! After all, although a person's life is free, when you get older, It is inevitable to feel lonely. Most women always need a marriage certificate and a family to feel safe.

3. The general social circle of leftover women is very narrow. They are either classmates or colleagues. They should take the initiative to expand their social circle. Although we are so-called white-collar workers in big cities, our living circle is only that big. Apart from colleagues, It’s basically not easy to make many friends among classmates. You can attend more friends' gatherings. Friends will bring friends, and your social circle will expand. Brother Xiao Ma is not opposed to blind dates. Don’t feel shy about this. You can take the initiative to introduce a man to a married or enthusiastic friend by joking. Don’t go on a traditional blind date, just invite a few friends out for dinner and get together. This way the acquaintance will be more natural and less awkward. If you feel good, just talk about it. If not, just stop there!

4. Women must pay attention to their appearance. Body shape, try to choose suitable hairstyles and clothes, take good care of your skin, external conditions are also very important. There are no ugly women, only lazy women! As long as you are willing to spend more time and energy, you will definitely be more attractive than before, and More confident. Men are always visual animals. Even if you are not good-looking, at least you should be pleasing to the eye.

5. In your spare time, enrich yourself, cherish your appearance, and keep yourself in good fighting condition. When you don’t have a suitable boyfriend, don’t provoke the following men:

A married man, he just wants to take advantage of you, don’t believe his story about an unhappy marriage, that’s all nonsense!

A man who is engaged in music and art, and lives a life of self-avant-garde is more attractive, but he is not suitable for marriage. Usually you can't get him.

What can a man who is unfilial to his parents and violent tend to do if he is not even filial to his own parents?

In fact, open your heart and don’t be too picky. Wear as big shoes as you want, and don’t stick flowers in cow dung. There are still many good single men. Maybe you are not satisfied with the economic conditions now. As long as he is more motivated, he will always have a prosperous day. Remember to choose a potential stock. Just fine. A good man must be cultivated slowly by you. There are few ready-made ones waiting for you. Stop dreaming! The most important character is kindness, responsibility, and loyalty. These are the most important qualities of a man. These conditions are the most important. What's important is money, houses, cars, etc. It's not the most fundamental thing. What about him having a golden mountain? If he gets you, he will torture you mentally (raise a woman outside and never come home all day long). This is the meaning of marriage. Are you happy? Don't care what others say. What matters is how you feel in your own marriage. Only you know whether you are happy or not.

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