The "weekend couples" who live apart in two places are being praised as a "new fashion" by some young people. It is said that there are many benefits: they can be together or separated, and can be moved freely. It is better to spend time together than newlyweds, and to fully have personal space when sharing time; Not only do they worry about each other, but they are not unbearably lonely; they can stretch their heads out to breathe some fresh air in the "sieged city", and at the same time have the ease and ease of being single and the warmth and solidity of family life... "Weekend Couples" "Is it really so beautiful and romantic? After a period of enthusiasm, people today began to make another discussion about "weekend couple".

Story: The Trouble Caused by "Weekend Couple"

Whoever says "Weekend Couple" to Rongrong is bound to get scolded by her. Rongrong and her husband are college classmates. When she was assigned for graduation, her husband was in Shijiazhuang, but she returned to her hometown in Hubei to find a job. After getting married, they started living the life of a "weekend couple".

Every time she gets together with her husband, Rongrong has to ride the train for more than 10 hours, and then transfer twice to get home. Every journey was not easy due to the sun and rain. Due to motion sickness, I kept vomiting every time I rode in the car. When I got home, I lay down and rested without even wanting to eat. I was so tired that I didn’t even think about being intimate with my husband. Every time on the way home, Rongrong would look at the lights of thousands of houses outside the car window and sigh: When will I stop being so exhausted?

Later, the company where Rongrong worked wanted to set up an office in Shijiazhuang. In order to take care of Rongrong, the company transferred her to Shijiazhuang. During that time, Rongrong felt deeply happy. She and her husband finally lived a "normal" life, going to the market to buy groceries and attending concerts together. Rongrong thought romantically: No matter how dull the marriage is, as long as I have his warm breath on my pillow every morning and every night, I want nothing more.

One day, her husband suddenly told Rongrong that he was going to resign and go to Beijing to develop. Rongrong was not mentally prepared at all, but because she was just pregnant and needed money to have a baby and buy a house, Rongrong had no choice but to agree to her husband's request.

So, they became a "weekend couple" again. When he is not too busy, my husband goes back to Shijiazhuang every weekend. The rest of the days, Rongrong dealt with the various discomforts of pregnancy and the chores at home alone, feeling lonely, isolated and even helpless, and her heart was always empty.

In the blink of an eye, the child is almost 3 years old, and they are still a "weekend couple". My husband is getting busier and busier, and he comes home less and less often. Later, he said that he loved someone else and asked Rongrong to set conditions for a divorce.

Rongrong said: What are "weekend couples"? Only young people play this kind of stuff. The breakdown of many families is actually caused by "weekend couples"! What is better than a little separation than a new marriage? It depends on the stage. In the first two years of marriage, it was still the same, but as time went by, when the passion was exhausted, both parties felt that the marriage was dull and trivial. "Nothing can win!

Since we are husband and wife, we have to stay together for the rest of our lives. Being a "weekend couple" is a last resort and no alternative. Don't believe what the ancients said: "If love lasts for a long time, how can we stay together day and night?" If couples don't live together, why get married? As for those couples who live in the same city and live together in a house but insist on living apart, if it's not "there is a situation", then they are mentally disturbed and are looking for something to do, or they are Eat too much to keep you full, looking for fresh food.

Criticism: "Weekend couples" have many disadvantages

Disadvantage one: escaping responsibilities

"Weekend couples" sound beautiful, but this marriage model is not very practical In fact, it gives people a sense of insecurity. Those who choose to be "weekend couples" either don't want to be bound and are unwilling to take on family responsibilities; or they lack confidence in the traditional marriage model and want to escape; or they are perfectionists and hope that marriage will always be as sweet as love. This is an act of only enjoying the passion of marriage and evading the responsibilities of marriage. It is a misinterpretation of marriage and a manifestation of selfishness.

Disadvantage 2: Having different ideas

As the saying goes, a hole as big as a needle fights against a big wind. Many of those who clamor for their own space have different ideas. A ghost believes that two people who love each other deeply should enjoy the life of the Cowherd and the Weaver Girl. Passion and romance are only a small part of married life, and mutual support is the main body of married life. It is a kind of happiness to be able to stay together morning and night after getting married. Why must we artificially create separation? Romance and style have too much temptation. You can get together in a hurry and leave in a hurry, even if you have a strong immunity. , how can you guarantee your partner?

Disadvantage 3: Children suffer

"Weekend couples" only enjoy the right of love and do not consider family responsibilities and obligations, such as Children's play house and wandering emotions do create the beauty of distance. A brief separation can make the relationship between husband and wife more intense. But what about their children? A childhood lacking the love of both parents can easily lead to a depressed and lonely character. Everyone is busy on weekdays without interfering with each other, but the short get-togethers on weekends are particularly warm. This is based on the premise that the children have to suffer. "Weekend couples" not only affect the relationship between husband and wife, but also affect the parent-child relationship. Unless objective conditions do not allow it, when "weekend couples" enjoy the so-called special warmth, please don't forget to look at the aggrieved eyes of the children!

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