Smart people understand that family should be a place where affection is more important than reason. If you want to create a warm atmosphere, you must master the art of concession. The "three more and three less" principles introduced below may be able to help you.

Change less, adapt more. After many people start a family, they gradually discover some of the other person's shortcomings in life. For example, the wife is dissatisfied with her husband and son throwing socks around, the husband is dissatisfied with his wife spending money randomly, etc. Many people hope to persuade and change the other person, but in the end, after all their efforts, the other person still goes their own way, and the more they think about it, the more angry they become. In fact, some personalities and behaviors are difficult to change. Trying to rebuild other people's living habits will not only make them instinctively disgusted, but also create a confrontational mentality. Even if what you say makes sense, it will be difficult for others to listen. Therefore, when building a family, we must not only accept the advantages of our family members, but also learn to coexist peacefully with their "shortcomings". Therefore, instead of rushing to change, it is better to slowly adapt to these flaws.

Contract less and share more. Some families like to outsource housework to others. You do the laundry, I mop the floor, etc. Such clear responsibilities are not a bad idea. However, after assigning tasks, many people will stare at the speed and quality of the other person's housework. If they fail to do a good job, they will find fault and criticize, making the atmosphere very tense. In fact, it is understandable to be lazy occasionally. Regarding housework, you don’t necessarily have to force your family to do it right away. Instead of being contracted and allocated, it is better for the family to share the tasks together. One person collects the bowls and the other cleans the table, enjoying the fun and warmth of cooperation.

Demand less, respect more. After some parents have children, they will "consciously" train their children and make many demands on their children according to their own wishes, such as what time they must go to bed, what they must study, etc. Some wives will also shape their husbands in this way, such as asking their husbands to have more contact with a certain leader, etc. In fact, both adults and children have the wisdom to choose to do the right thing. What family members can do is to make fewer demands and give more respect. The more respect a person gets, the less his abilities and wisdom are suppressed, and the more he can exert his own strength.

There are benefits to men being afraid of their wives

Some men say that the "fear" of "being afraid of his wife" is actually "love", and he is "fearful" because of his "love" for his wife. There are no henpecked men in the world, only men who respect their wives.

1. Henpecked people can live longer: People who are henpecked cannot smoke, drink, or have fun. They must report home early after get off work every day. Therefore, life is extremely regular, and many bad habits before marriage have been changed. The heavy housework has exercised the body. Is it possible to live longer?

2. Henpecked people can save money: People who are henpecked use their wives as an excuse to avoid socializing with friends and friends. The money saved on cigarettes and alcohol can help them realize their plans for housing and cars as soon as possible.

3. Henpecking can ensure social stability: Family stability is the cornerstone of social stability. The decline in domestic violence can free up the people's police to devote more energy to dealing with the blind flow of society. The decline in the divorce rate will also allow the courts to concentrate on handling major and important cases that endanger national security without having to detain suspects for extended periods, which will contribute to the high reputation of the proletarian dictatorship.

4. Being henpecked can be beneficial to job hunting: Long-term henpecking can hone a person's careful and responsive personality. Such a personality is conducive to confidential work. You can add this to your resume. If your employer turns a blind eye to this great advantage of yours, is such an unwise person still worthy of you working for him? What future does the company have? It’s okay if you don’t want such a job.

5. Being afraid of your hen is a statesman’s style: People who are afraid of their hens have a plan in everything they do. They make good excuses for all kinds of accidents in advance and lie without a blushing face or a heartbeat. This is an indispensable quality for politicians, Clinton The president is proof of that. Henpecked people are good at making promises to their wives. This also applies to politicians to voters.

6. Those who are henpecked can be promoted: When the Organization Department inspects cadres, "decent style of life" is a very important item.

7. Being afraid of hens is a feat of changing customs: "Being afraid of hens" is the complete abandonment of the feudal ideology that has been entrenched for thousands of years and favors boys over girls. Comrades sacrificed themselves to establish a new trend of contemporary socialism. At present, the situation in big cities such as Shanghai and Guangzhou is very good. In the future, the focus of work should be shifted to the vast world of small towns and rural areas, so that new flowers of socialism can bloom all over the country.

8. Being afraid of your wife is a kind of great love: the "fear" of "being afraid of your wife" is actually "love", and you are "fearful" because of your "love" towards your wife. My wife is God, my wife’s words are the imperial edict, my wife’s opinions are the final ruling without appeal, and my wife’s requests must not be forgotten. Let us generalize: If everyone puts the people they work for first and employees are "afraid" of work, why not take it seriously? The boss is "afraid" of customers, so why worry about not providing attentive service? Officials are "afraid of the people", so why not worry about "people's interests above all else". Then there is no need to leave it to the next generation to surpass Britain and catch up with the United States.

9. Being henpecked is good for the parent-child relationship: The unshirkable responsibility of a housewife is not only to carry the gas tank, but also to consciously change diapers, put the children to sleep, cook, clean the home, etc. Teaching by example is more important than teaching by words. This not only sets an example for the son and allows him to adapt to the new fashion of favoring daughters over sons as soon as possible; it also increases the daughter's yearning for a better and happy life in the future.

10. People who are henpecked are the healthiest on the Internet: they can consciously resist the temptation of bad websites and speak seriously and responsibly. Put your wife's worries first and actively search for information that can improve the quality of your couple's life. The wife is happy and happy, and she must share interesting jokes and gossip news with her.