Some people say that marriage is a grave. It will kill each other's love and make the original strong emotions dilute or even disappear. Anyone who holds this view is definitely a fool who does not understand emotions and cannot manage a marriage. Because if you regard it as a grave and jump into it, isn't it just "digging your own grave"? Once again, this fallacy must be corrected. Marriage is happy and married life is sweet. It is actually very simple to achieve this goal.

Happy little things express love

Married life is made up of many small things, such as cooking, laundry, housework, etc. These seemingly trivial things have a great impact on the couple's relationship. From now on, start by changing yourself, get up early and cook a sumptuous dinner for the other person; help him/her wash the dirty clothes; buy a small gift to surprise the other person after get off work; or say a tender word to your lover, this way The performance will definitely bring different touches to the other party, and the relationship between husband and wife will also be sublimated.

Grasp things of common interest

Since we are a couple, there will definitely be things that resonate with each other, whether it is hobbies or certain habits. Only by grasping these common points can we make each other closer and keep the relationship temperature constant. For example, if you both like to watch movies, then you can take the initiative to book two tickets, find time to go watch them together on weekends or holidays, and relive the scene of your love; if you like to eat, it will be even easier, and search for delicious food in the city to taste together.

Set aside time to give your loved one a "vacation"

Even if they get married, both husband and wife still have to have their own circle. Maybe it's a classmate, a colleague, a friend, in short, any friendship that is a legitimate relationship should be supported. To be honest, being around someone every day will not only make you tired, but the other person will also feel visual fatigue. So, give your lover a "holiday", let the man go out to drink with his buddies, and let the woman go shopping with her best friends. If you are classmates or colleagues, it will be easier. You can prevent classmates or colleagues from getting together.

We must remember that marriage is not a tool to bind a couple, but a platform for two people to live a harmonious life together. Therefore, we must not only nourish the marriage with love, but also allow both parties to enjoy the sweetness and happiness of marriage.

Women who act stupid in marriage are happier

If you don't want to break up your relationship or family because of trivial things, you can try "pretending to be stupid". But one thing everyone needs to be clear about is: pretending to be stupid does not mean swallowing your anger. It allows you to change your perspective, change your way of thinking, and blur some of the little things in your life. On certain occasions, remember to pretend to be stupid, which will enhance your feminine charm. Women who "pretend to be stupid" are actually in a state of mind and are done by smart people. That kind of smile that understands everything but doesn't reveal anything is what fascinates men the most.

A wise woman will play dumb

Compared with men, they are naturally more sensitive. This also causes women after marriage to become less confident and more sensitive due to various reasons such as giving birth to children and gaining weight. They often suspect that their husbands are doing this or that, and eventually become A "grudge woman" who runs away when a man sees her. No man likes a resentful woman, they prefer a wise woman who knows how to "play dumb" at the right time. A woman's tolerance will make a man feel safe, and sometimes giving in is for better defense. The reason why her marriage was on the edge was because she didn't know how to adapt and adjust her mentality appropriately. A wise woman will not be like an orange that is squeezed out of its juice and then discarded. She should be like a vibrant tree, with spring flowers and autumn fruits, branches and leaves, and each season has its own unique beauty.

Good women pretend to be stupid

Being a woman is not a problem that can be solved simply by marrying a man, let alone being a good woman. Therefore, it is difficult to be a woman, and it is even more difficult to be a good woman. Since the beginning of the world, there has been no woman who doesn’t want to be a good woman, but some women fail to become good women or even become bad women because they pretend to be stupid because they don’t understand.

Cute women can play dumb

No one dislikes cute women, but cuteness must be backed up by a smart and wise mind. Don’t say that a simple silly woman doesn’t like a woman. Even women don't like it. It's in women's nature to act stupid, but their relationship with men is always a bit inextricable. Men don't seem to like smart women. Even if they have to say it out of their mouths, they feel very uncomfortable in their hearts. The man's tricks cannot withstand the scrutiny of smart eyes.

Experts suggest that it is not difficult to be silly, but it is difficult to "pretend". This level is difficult to grasp. Once it is exceeded or something is leaked, it will make a woman look artificial. So playing dumb is a skill. A woman who can pretend to be stupid can make fewer enemies and more friends in her career. A woman who can pretend to be stupid can have less trouble and more happiness in love. A woman who can pretend to be stupid can have less embarrassment and more friendship in social life. , A woman who can pretend to be stupid can have less friction and more harmony in front of her mother-in-law.