A woman never understands why she is beautiful, has temperament, has a career, and is not lacking in love, but she only has no marriage? I had never been in a hurry before I was thirty. With so many people around me, I could just marry anyone. But when I really want to get married, I find that some of them are not suitable, and some of them walk away first. There is no suitable candidate! why is that? The following is a prescription written by a man for a woman who is puzzled. Please give her the right medicine...

Concept of a Good Man This is the most frequent complaint of women who cannot get married. For these people, the men they meet are either not attractive enough or too attractive; good men either do not exist on this planet at all, or they are unlucky enough not to meet them, or they are all dead. Even if I bump into a few of them by chance, they are either married or they just don’t like them. The first thing this kind of woman needs to deal with is her own mentality problem: What exactly is a good man? If you haven’t figured it out yet at the age of 30, the problem lies with you. Do you want to marry the man you love, or a good man? Moreover, there is no label on the face of a good man, and there is no unified standard. Are you rich? passionate? Thoughtful? Or something else? The problem is that no matter how good the conditions are for a man, if he is not suitable for you, what is the use.

Choosing a husband should never be based on the concept of "tailor-made". Instead, it is more like going to the market to select a mobile phone. Your task is to choose a relatively suitable mobile phone from the top Vertu to the cheapest domestic mobile phone. You have to get rid of the old idea of ​​a good man, because a woman’s idea of ​​a good man is like a dot-com bubble, it doesn’t exist, and even if you catch it, it will eventually burst.

The drug addiction of bad men is exactly at the two extremes of the previous category. Some women specialize in wasting their youth by messing with bad men (mostly married men who seem to be unhappy in marriage), but their awareness of reality and strategic methods are far behind. inferior to the mistresses. Their catchphrase is: "You don't understand him, but he is actually very good to me." Indeed, men who have the ability to take care of their wives and the energy to deal with their lovers are by no means ordinary people. Most of them have money and leisure to give You have the whole world except marriage.

There is also a typical case of cross-infection between "bad men" and "ex-boyfriends". Women with soft hearts or soft ears have particularly weak resistance to this germ. Generally speaking, it is the ex-boyfriend who has broken up with you for a long time (or even married) who will suddenly give you a phone call "I want to see how you are doing" and meet you before and after meals. The standard line must be "To be honest, you are the person who knows me best in the world." If you are temporarily confused and unable to bear loneliness, and continue to maintain this troublesome relationship with him of "occasionally eating meals + occasionally going to bed", then don't blame Old Man Yuexia for looking down on you. Please, you should let your brain work sometimes: If you are so good that you are invincible in the universe, will you wait forever for such a rotten man? Think about it clearly!

Ex-boyfriend’s unrequited love

Yes, the fish that escapes is always the biggest. No matter how cruelly you broke up with him at the time, now it seems that only your ex-boyfriend has a good personality, is handsome, considerate and gentle, and has a wonderful sex life. But remember: this is history. If you were the one who suggested breaking up at that time, please don't consider the issue of face. Pick up the phone and call him now (according to experience, the chance of recovery may be 5%-10%). But if he dumped you, then with all due respect, the chances of Saddam giving up terrorism are definitely much greater than the chances of you getting back together. Life must go on, please don't let a memory affect your happy future.

Wolf-dog hesitancy

Men have an ancient logic that they want their future wives to look like a lady outside and a slut in bed. In fact, women also have the same idea of ​​​​being out of the same family, that is, they hope that the man she falls in love with is a wolf full of mysterious temperament, but in front of herself he is like a loyal and upright dog. The difference between the two is that most men will clearly realize the truth that they cannot have both, one morning, and then quickly marry a lady (are you afraid that you can't find a slut in the promiscuous world outside? ) But women procrastinate and wait in this state of uncertainty until they exceed the shelf life.

The other kind of woman jumps between the two types of men. When she is with a wolf, she feels insecure. After thinking about it, it is more practical to find a dog. But after a while, I felt that although the dog was upright, it was too dull. This kind of life lacked freshness and excitement. Forget it, let's find a wolf. In this way, she jumped around, never able to figure out which one she wanted. The truth that a man can figure out in an instant takes a woman a lifetime.

Aimless waiting maniac

My girlfriend is 35 years old and still single. We are all anxious for her. She is actually more anxious than anyone else, but she would rather be short than in vain and would rather wait. She doesn’t want to find just one. There are many men who admire her, but most of them are rejected by her for one reason or another. She firmly believes that the man who belongs to her must be waiting for her somewhere, but the two of them are separated because of the fate. We have never met, maybe the next one will be. Sometimes we would jokingly say that you are in such good condition that instead of sitting and waiting, you might as well grab it. It doesn't matter whether he has a wife or a girlfriend, as long as you like it, take the initiative. My girlfriend is not a proactive person, and she doesn’t like to take other people’s things.

The lesson of this story is: "The next one will be better" is definitely an unrealistic idea. It is more suitable for those who have just lost their love and are looking for comfort, rather than for you who want to get married.

Never discount

Sales has a golden rule: there are no products that cannot be sold, only shopping guides who cannot sell products. Every woman once had a new product of the season, but if you have become an out-of-season inventory, then the problem is not necessarily the product itself, but that you have not found the right sales method or main consumer group. It is a respectable spirit to insist on not discounting, but if you have a business but no market, you need more flexible and smart methods.

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