Nowadays, cheating is no longer just for men. Women also frequently cheat, and even have mental cheating. So, is it more serious for a woman to cheat physically or mentally? Today, the editor will give you a detailed introduction to the big PK of women’s physical and mental infidelity. I hope it will be useful to you!

What is a woman's bottom line when it comes to physical or mental infidelity?

Extramarital affairs and extramarital sex are nothing new. Every once in a while, a friend will tell you about this or that extramarital story. The perpetrator is always a man, the one injured is always a woman, and the plot is always the same. Recently, some scholars have analyzed divorce caused by extramarital affairs and third-party involvement in Shanghai. The results show that more than 60% of the plaintiffs are women, and among those divorced due to extramarital affairs, 51% of the men had premarital sex.

For men, sex and love can be separated. They may not be able to distinguish between everything outside of marriage, between love and body, love and organs. Under the various objective reasons of "having no control over themselves", some women sigh and accept, some women repeatedly weigh and hesitate, and some women choose to declare loudly that they are not in agreement.

Physical cheating is forgivable

Xiaoyu, 27 years old, housewife

My husband and I have been married for 3 years. We just got pregnant some time ago. Recently, I have started to notice that my husband is acting strangely. He always avoids me and sends text messages and calls. Sometimes he comes back very late after get off work and looks very tired. Every time I ask him, he answers: "The company has been in trouble recently, so it's very busy."

One time, he came back at night, took a shower and went to bed. I got up secretly and looked through the clothes he had changed, and found a lip mark on his shirt! I woke him up immediately, crying and asking him why he did this to me. My husband immediately apologized and explained to me, saying that the woman was just a temporary fling, that he met her while socializing with clients, and that he had no feelings for that woman at all. He also repeatedly promised that he would not look for that woman again. Although I was very sad, thinking about my unborn baby and this family, I still reluctantly forgave him, otherwise I would definitely divorce him.

Mental cheating will not be tolerated

Ms. Zhao, 41 years old, company manager

I just divorced my husband because he had a relapse with his old lover. If it was just physical cheating, I can understand that it might be impulsive or confused on his part, so there is still room for redemption. A man can be forgiven for having fun outside. When he is tired, he will come back on his own. But if a person changes his mind, even eight hundred old cows cannot bring him back. Mental infidelity is scarier than physical infidelity. Who wants to live with a body and maintain a superficial marriage. What's the point of keeping such a marriage alive?

Both mental and physical infidelity can cause harm

Psychological counselors say that whether it is mental or physical infidelity, most people will face two paths: one is to make a big fuss and break up; the other is to bear the consequences and maintain the shell of the family. Many women will choose the second option, for the sake of their children and themselves. Whether it is mental cheating or physical cheating, it will cause great harm to the other party, but the degree of harm is different. When you have this thought, please give some thought to your family. Love is selfish, marriage involves mutual loyalty, and both parties must shoulder family responsibilities and obligations.

Warm reminder: Neither physical cheating nor mental cheating can be forgiven

No matter what the reason is, no matter how you cheat, we must confirm a moral concept: cheating is wrong and will cause harm to the people you love! Don't believe the lies that come from children who make mistakes. Who's body and heart can be completely separated without any involvement, and who can guarantee that the so-called "never do it again" by men can really be true. The oath cannot be dissipated in the wind and mist. Tolerating him is also giving up the quality of the relationship. Men will not be grateful for this, and you will only be able to validate your weakness and compromise.

Love is selfish, but marriage requires fulfillment of responsibilities. When love enters the palace of marriage, love includes mutual loyalty, and we must assume family responsibilities and obligations. Mistakes made by either party in love will hurt the other party. If you really love the other party, then please keep yourself safe and don't do anything that makes the other party sad and makes you regret!

How lustful women seduce and "seduce" men

Women are inherently sensual animals and have the advantage of being lustful, especially in the eyes of men. So, how does a lustful woman seduce and "seduce" a man?

1. Most lustful women are a little "bad"

This kind of badness is a fairy-like badness, a kind of coquettishness emanating from their lustful hearts. Most of them are masters of kite flying, knowing when to pull it down tightly and when to let it fly half an inch; each of them is a Tai Chi master, with deep internal strength and excellent martial arts. They know better than ordinary people how to use four or two to move a thousand pounds and how to use women The tenderness to dissolve the man's strength. All of this confirms a very fashionable saying at the moment: women are not bad, men do not love them.

2. Lustful women are very confident

The reason is very simple. Only when a woman has the ability to be confident can she dare to be lustful and be good at it. Self-confidence can stimulate people's potential and make people always develop in the direction of their inner pursuits. It can make people give full play to their own advantages and beauty, and experience a more advanced and positive realm of life. And how precious this is to a woman whose youth is fleeting. In short, it is still the same old saying: I am confident and I am beautiful!

3. Lustful women cherish their bodies very much

Lustful women pursue physical beauty and physical health more than ordinary women. People cannot live without pursuit, especially women who are traveling through time. Only by pursuing can they be beautiful, happy and happy. I have always been opposed to the kind of people who, once they get married, completely close themselves off, never leave the door or take a second step, and only have children and husband in their eyes, but I have become a disgusting yellow-faced woman. This What a great tragedy for women. You have spent your youth and hard work, but you are not as good as a man. It is even very likely that the man will find other women outside, and let other women use your husband while spending a lot of money on you. Spend the money you save frugally. But lustful women will never do this. They understand better than anyone else: women are three-thirds of their looks and seven-seven of their grooming. Only when a woman takes good care of herself and dresses up beautifully can she take better care of her family and make her man look forward to coming home every day.

4. Most lustful women are humorous and can take jokes

In today's society, perhaps "orthodox" is just a derogatory term for women. There are not many men who like women who are unsmiling and have a bitter face all day long. They need women not only to know how to laugh, but also to learn how to make men laugh. It takes a lot of humor to make a man laugh, and even more often, it takes a lot of humiliation. What men love to hear the most are those "seductive but not gratifying" dirty jokes. If a woman can tell a few of them, her attraction to men will be extraordinary. However, all these humorous, embarrassing and dirty jokes are owned by perverts. At most, it just depends on what kind of men they tell them under what circumstances. In fact, the most important thing about daring to be "lustful" lies in the change of women's concepts. Don't forget how difficult it is to be sexy. Femininity can be exuded from small details and make the opposite sex obsessed.

The above is a detailed introduction on how lustful women seduce and "seduce" men. I hope it will be helpful for you to further understand sex.