He's sloppy during foreplay

If it's just once or twice, you won't say anything, but with men, it can easily become a habit. So you think, "He doesn't want me to feel good!" This type of comment can easily turn into accusations. Because you want him to guess your wish, and if he doesn't guess it, you will feel disappointed, so your tone will become harsh and mean. If you want to change him subtly, the best way is to say some assumptions to him during sex: "I would like you very much if you were like this." You can explain to him in a low voice: "If a man's sexual behavior The impulse comes from sight, while women come from touch and hearing. "If you treat him with a lecturing tone, he will feel inferior and think that he is not a good lover. This doesn't help solve the problem.

He is always the same

After dating for a period of time, you find that his sex routine remains the same or rarely changes. Find a quiet evening to talk to him about this, preferably at his home, where he will feel more comfortable. Ask him to tell you about his sexual fantasies and then suggest that he give it a try with you. If he wasn't an absolutely selfish person, he would ask you the same question right away.

You can also tell him honestly that he is not alone in having sex, so he should listen to your feelings. Suggest new positions and ask him frequently about how he's feeling so he doesn't think you're blaming him. But be careful not to go to the other extreme: habits have their own benefits, and some traditional postures are guaranteed to give you pleasure.

He can't get an erection

You have spent a long time trying, stroking, kissing, and stimulating, but he is still indifferent. You are almost exhausted. You should talk to him before you go crazy over this situation. The approach must be gentle, because this question points directly to his manly dignity. The conversation needs to be conducted with a sense of distance, as if the issue does not directly concern you. A woman can get along well with a man who doesn't have sex, but that's not a lover, he's a roommate. It's best not to let him become like this.

Maybe he has a health problem that medication can solve, but if not, he needs to see a specialist. This way your love can last. But don't play yourself as his psychiatrist or do any abrupt psychological analysis.

He is very clumsy and impatient

He also touches you, but not in the right place, neither lightly nor severely. Every time he touches you, he is anxious and anxious, like a wok that is burning red in the mouth. This cannot go on.

In order not to hurt his self-esteem, you can say this to him: "Not all women like one way, and some women do not pay attention to touching (you are making sure that his way is not that bad), but you She is the kind of woman who prefers gentleness." This is the sandwich rule: give him a compliment and a criticism.

He never takes the initiative to ask for sex

Whether you wear G-string underwear or sexy underwear, you can't divert his attention from the football game on TV. You feel like you're the one asking every time and he's not interested in you at all. Often we tend to ignore or deny this problem: it's somewhat irritating for women to have more desires than men, and we all think it's men who should woo women.

Communicating with him is the only way to solve the problem, but pay attention to the skills. He is not a machine and cannot have sex at any time, but you are still a little worried about him, and his body needs to be decoded. Be sure to avoid suspecting that he has someone else in mind, or complaining tearfully that he has no desire for you.

I've never (or almost) had an orgasm

It's not that he's not talented, but you can barely remember the last time you had an orgasm. It's not easy to tell him that you always fake orgasms so as not to upset him.

You don’t need to tell him that you are not satisfied nine times out of ten. You only need to say that you don’t have an orgasm every time. Generally speaking, women take longer to achieve orgasm. It takes you longer than the average woman (so you can take some of the responsibility on yourself), so he needs to be patient.

He ejaculated too early

The first time, you thought he was too excited, but the second and third time it was the same, your fight never lasted more than five minutes. It is very dangerous to criticize his sexual ability: "Boy, is three minutes too short?" If he is also secretly anxious, such criticism will make him feel even more inferior.

The only way is to cheer him up and tell him that although you haven't had the full pleasure yet, ejaculating quickly is a very normal physical reaction of a man. Prolonging the duration of ejaculation is not something you are born with, but requires learning and training. He can practice alone so he doesn't have to worry about your pleasure. Let him focus on his feelings, especially the moment of climax. In this way, when you have sex, he can notify you in time, and then you can help him delay the onset of ejaculation.

I want him to help me realize my sexual fantasies

You are very harmonious in bed, but the sexual fantasies in your mind never have a chance to come true. You really want to try it with him. You worry that he doesn't understand your thoughts, that he will be angry and think that you want to change someone else, and that you find sex with him boring. If you don't want similar misunderstandings, be clear in your suggestions. Tell him that women also have very specific sexual fantasies, and that although he is an excellent lover, you still hope that he will cooperate with your willfulness.

Be careful, asking him to fulfill all your sexual fantasies is a mistake. Certain ideas should stay in your secret garden.

He wants to do something you don’t want to do

Some of his requests make you feel perverted and embarrassing. You don't want to be seen as a rigid woman by him, you want to make him happy, so you think it's all your fault.

Tell him: Accepting all his offers is not proof of love. You understand some of his desires, but there are some things you don't want to do. You need time and love. If you really want to try it but are afraid to commit, just let him wait until you have the desire too. Especially don't be too stubborn. Love is also about making compromises. If necessary, you can consult an expert to remove certain psychological barriers.

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