Marriage is the most important thing in a woman’s life, even her life. Women often lament that "a good job is not as good as a good marriage, and a good parent is not as good as a good husband." But the more important and valued things are, the more likely they are to go wrong, so many women are blaming men, and even say that no man in the world is good, but there is no woman whose father does not love his daughter. From this gnashing of teeth curse, we can see how much the woman hopes to have a happy marriage, how much she loves and how much she hates.

In fact, it is often the woman’s own actions that destroy a marriage. While women are cursing men, women need to review their behavior in marriage. The following are 9 stupid things that women often do in marriage.

1. Tie a man to his belt.

Marriage between a man and a woman does not mean that the man wishes to lose his freedom. On the contrary, a man hopes that his home will be his haven, where he can take a rest when he is tired. No man wants to live quietly at home forever. It is a man's nature to venture into the world and find the feeling of being a man in the process of conquering the world. Many women interfere severely with men's activities, making it difficult for men to move forward.

2. Love your man, hate your man’s family.

Although a man enters the marriage hall with a woman amid the blessings of his family, a man will never forget the other woman who gave birth to him. Many women think that after marrying a man, he should be theirs. This is a big mistake. Many women compete with their men's mothers and sisters for affection, leading to a thousand-year-old mother-in-law-daughter-in-law war, which causes men great pain.

3. Thinking that if you control a man’s money, you can control a man’s heart.

Women seem to be naturally interested in money. There was an article on Ifeng.com today saying that women nowadays are becoming more and more “prostitutes”. After reading it, I feel that this is indeed the case. It is normal for women to be afraid that men will look for women outside. However, women think that by controlling a man's wallet, they can control his behavior. Controlling a man through this can only be a dream. If a man wants to hide some private money, it is very simple. A woman's deduction of money will only increase the man's resentment.

4. Peep into men's privacy like a spy.

Everyone has his own privacy, and he does not want this secret to be discovered by anyone. Many women try every possible means to find out whether men are in contact with their ex-girlfriends, and they frequently spy on men's emails, phone calls, and text messages. Sometimes I find some questions and ask them frequently, always pushing the man into the corner, and I have to ask the ugly Yin Mao. At this time, the man is like a prisoner. This is how some men cheat.

5. Thinking that men are like towering trees and everything will be fine if you marry a man.

Nowadays, there are still many women who hope to find a good man, so that they can have enough food and clothing to live a life of food and mouth. In fact, for women who cannot stand on their own, as youth goes by, men's interest and sexual interest will become lower and lower, and the chance of losing favor will increase.

6. Treat men as your own sons.

On the balance of love, men and women are equal. But many women interfere strictly with men, sometimes managing and demanding men like their sons. To a certain extent, this is a contempt for the humanity of men. From another perspective, it is true that women have serious psychological problems. Men need care, but men need respect even more. Men never forget their dignity for a moment. People often say that a man's knees are filled with gold. This is why. Women must regard their men as men and give him due respect and dignity. This is not only a requirement of love, but also a requirement of human nature.

7. If you can’t control your mouth, your husband becomes a machine for venting your anger.

Three women in one play, where there are more women there is more right and wrong. This phenomenon shows that women’s mouths can easily cause trouble. A woman cannot vent her anger on her man because of her emotional changes or because she has no place to vent. This will only increase the man's resentment. Although men have the obligation to comfort their women, needless venting of anger is in vain. In times of pain, a woman's tears are a thousand times better than a woman's mouth. Why use tears to arouse a man's sympathy?

8. Ask your husband a thousand times if he loves you.

Women like to hear men say "I love you". But men don't express love in the way women often want them to. So some women are very coquettish in front of men, hoping that men can say this sentence, and some women even force men to say this sentence. Men sometimes say "I love you" painfully and against their will, but their inner world is saying "I love you". I hate you so much, you tire me out so much!”

9. Don’t pay attention to protecting the secret of your figure and expose your body too much.

A woman’s body is the biggest magic weapon to attract men. Nowadays, many women are trying their best to increase the height of their breasts and increase the depth of their cleavage. But when at home, many women don't pay much attention to their bodies. In fact, this is the biggest misunderstanding of a woman. When a woman shows her beautiful figure outside, it can only attract meaningless turns of heads. But at home, it attracts the admiration of her man. However, after marriage, several women Can do this. Many women dress like women selling vegetables on the street at home. Can men not be offended?

Editor: Love lies in choice, but also in careful care. When women pray for happy love, they need to check their own behavior. Love can only be given to those who deserve love, not necessarily those who desire love!

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