Many couples feel that their sex life is not particularly happy after marriage because it can become boring for a long time. At this time, you need to use some tricks to ignite each other's enthusiasm. So what are some tips for improving the quality of your sexual life?

9 sex skills to help you experience different sexual pleasure

1. Simmer over slow heat

The flavor of stir-frying will never be better than that of simmering. When kissing, it should be like your lips are glued to glass, when licking, it should be like sweeping dust on an antique, when touching, it should be like applying ointment to the back of a burned hand... In short, direct your mouth, tongue, and hands according to the slow-motion speed of a movie. This will Making her skin more sensitive than ever.

2. Ever-changing

Don’t always do those things after dinner and before going to bed, and do it in bed! In this way, women will be distracted because there is no freshness and excitement. Of course, they will not be able to go to bed. The consequence of not being able to go to bed is that it will be difficult to reach your climax. Find another place, like on the floor, like in the car. Try another time, such as early morning on a weekend or a sunny and warm afternoon.

3. Play hard to get

Use her warmth to guide your movements, rather than your desire to burn her out all at once. This should be the guideline for any technique you use next. For example, don't touch her attractive breasts until she takes the initiative to lift them; only touch her waist and lower abdomen until she grabs your hand and puts it between her legs.

4. Knowledge related to pumping techniques

In order to obtain high-quality sexual pleasure, in addition to the frequency, depth and duration of pumping, it is also related to the caliber and length of the female genitals, the size and length of the male genitals when erect, the lubrication degree of female secretions and other factors. If you encounter problems in these areas, you must seek medical treatment in time.

Some men who are inexperienced in sexual intercourse do violent forward and backward thrusting movements in order to capture the pleasure during intercourse. However, only the monotonous movement of thrusting is not sex.

Pumping requires various changes. If you want to give yourself and your partner pleasure, novices must first "learn" pumping skills. Maybe things don't go well the first few times. This is a sign of unfamiliarity. Once you become proficient in using it, you will be like a fish in water.

5. Increase sexual pleasure with reasonable pumping frequency

According to data, men generally pump 1-2 times per second during sex. When the pumping frequency exceeds 2 times per second, it can be regarded as high-frequency pumping. High-frequency pumping time can generally only last about 2 minutes.

When the pumping frequency reaches once every few seconds, it is low-frequency pumping. Low-frequency pumping is generally used to suppress the evacuation of a man's sexual desire or sexual excitement energy, prevent ejaculation from occurring, and thereby extend the duration.

High-frequency pumping is to increase the sexual desire of both parties, concentrate the sexual excitement of both parties, promote the occurrence of joint orgasm, and obtain the highest quality sexual pleasure.

6. The depth of pumping determines the intensity of sexual excitement

The deeper the man pumps, the woman will obviously feel sexual pleasure from the contact between the "little DD" and the cervix, which can give women a completely different pleasure from rubbing the clitoris.

On the contrary, when the frequency of thrusting is lower and the thrusting is shallower, the degree of sexual excitement of both parties will be weaker, and the corresponding level of sexual pleasure will also be lower.

7. The pumping movement is not simply "in and out"

Sexual thrusting is not just about going in and out. The best way to thrust is through varied movements.

In particular, repeated insertions at slow speeds and shallow couplings can make women in the excitement period restless. When women desire stronger stimulation, deep couplings will be given.

The "nine shallow, one deep, three on the left and three on the right" in ancient Chinese sexual secrets are very practical.

Generally speaking, the pumping frequency is inversely proportional to the pumping depth, that is, the higher the pumping frequency, the shallower the pumping depth.

8. Have a sense of enjoyment

Sometimes, women are afraid that their husbands will not be satisfied, so they try their best to accommodate his needs. But sex is actually about giving and receiving from both parties. If you blindly satisfy the other party, in the end, women will become hating "that thing." Women should be straightforward about their needs to their husbands without feeling guilty or embarrassed, because in fact, men like women who can enjoy sex. When a man discovers that his actions can bring happiness to a woman, it can excite him more than any aphrodisiac.

9. Don’t fake orgasm

In order to please their husbands, some women can fake orgasms so realistically that men cannot tell the difference. But when they do this, they don't think about the long-term consequences: if they don't feel happy but pretend to have an orgasm, they will let their husbands continue to repeat his wrong actions next time because he mistakenly thinks that way can make women happy. A woman once had such an experience: her husband rubbed her vagina vigorously in an attempt to bring her to orgasm, but it caused her great pain. She was embarrassed to tell him that his way was too rough, so she faked an orgasm to get him to stop. Unexpectedly, he would rub her in this rough way every time, causing her more and more pain. Finally, she couldn't bear it anymore and had to tell him the truth. This devastated her husband, and the woman was very remorseful. It would have been better if she had explained it from the beginning.