Eight ways to keep you away from marriage problems

Marriage is a war between two people, a contest of IQ and personality between the couple. Everyone living in a besieged city will have problems of one kind or another, and they are always the same. There are no more than the following ten situations. Welcome to take a seat. If your marital problems are not one of the following, please take precautions.

The first type:

The hidden dangers of "flash marriage" are highlighted. Flash marriages have become a common phenomenon. After falling in love at first sight, you have to rush to the Civil Affairs Bureau and get a "driver's license", but without getting along, you just hit the road. But on the way, problems arose. Because of the disharmony in each other's personalities, hobbies, lifestyles, etc., the marriage made the two people suffer.

Second type:

The distance between husband and wife continues to widen. There is a gap between men and women. For example, women like Romantic, but men like Normandy; women like fashion, but men like models who wear fashion. For couples, differences in life interests, value orientations, hobbies, etc. not only make their world more colorful, but also fit in with the law of "complementarity."

The third type:

The couple’s life lacks romance and interest. The love between husband and wife will eventually change, from beautiful and romantic love to flesh-and-blood family affection. This is because marriage is more practical and longer than love. Therefore, under this kind of real marriage, the emotional life is in a "tired" state, there is no more "innovation", and it has become a rough line in the oil, salt, firewood and rice.

The fourth type:

Sex life is not harmonious. Sex is the lubricant in married life. A harmonious married life makes both people rosy-cheeked and full of energy. Otherwise, big problems will arise in the marriage. Often, sex between husband and wife becomes an obligation for both people, and it is as boring as a routine every time. The lubricant has lost its effect, and the chariot of marriage is bound to have problems of one kind or another. This hidden danger is very important!

The fifth type:

Being busy all day long makes love dim. Note that the word "love" here is "love" and not "love". Love only becomes so prominent when you are in love with each other. Once you enter a marriage, "love" becomes even more important. Caring for the other person cannot be neglected because of being busy all day long. Caring and taking care of each other, and giving love to your partner anytime and anywhere are the foundation for a happy and long-lasting life as a couple.

Category 6:

The promise made before marriage came to nothing. As many windows as there are in the city, people inside can find as many motives and reasons for getting married. No matter how different the reasons for everyone to get that "license" are, one thing can be the same: their expectations for the future and the expectations for the person who will live with them. Life is not always what people want. Everyone hopes to be wealthy, live in a villa and drive a Mercedes-Benz, but the reality is often cruel. must. Wherever there are people, there will be conflicts. Husband and wife face each other day and night, and of course they will bump into each other. Quarrels are inevitable, but it would be abnormal if they didn't quarrel. But there's a difference between arguing and hurting the other person. If both parties just express different opinions with angry expressions, it is a quarrel; if they also insult the other person's personality and trample on the other person's self-esteem, it is injury. We must be together because of love, and we cannot be disappointed and heartbroken because the beautiful vision before marriage has not been realized. You must believe that tomorrow will be better than today!

Type 7: The harm that adds up to a small amount

Type 8:

Ordinary life makes marriage boring. Marriage will always end up dull, and marriages in the dull period are most likely to have problems, which will test each other's IQ. It is the wisdom of a wise man to add some romance or novelty to a long-term marriage. Not only will it surprise the other party, but it will also give a dull marriage a second spring.