Men often behave very strangely, and there are various names for it. You will understand whether you are in a bad mood, under great pressure, want to be free, or want to be a virtuous woman, but men To be honest, there are 8 behaviors they have that actually mean they already want to break up, but they haven't said it yet because of their face.

Junichi Watanabe said in "This Thing About Men" that if you want to break up in your heart, you will express it clearly. Men are just the opposite. They rarely say breakup directly, but express their intention to break up with ambiguous words and deeds. This can be understood to mean that a man has a gentle side and does not want to cause a blow to the woman; but it can also be understood to mean that he is cowardly, cunning, irresponsible and pretentious.

How would he say breakup

1. Nothing she did was wrong. I must first declare that it was not me who did this, but one of my buddies. What he did at that time was to "find faults". His wife's cooking was too bland, her soup was too salty, her clothes were not washed cleanly, and she was not attentive to her friends... in short, everything was wrong. In fact, this is too cruel. It would be better to just say "I don't love you anymore".

2. Become more and more indifferent to her. Most men will not tell a woman to break up directly. Because they don't want to make themselves evil, and don't want to bear the guilt of abandoning others. They usually only become more and more indifferent to their wives (or girlfriends), without sex, without hugs, ignoring her, and lacking warmth. He didn't care about everything about her, what she wanted to do together, just pretended not to hear. He would often find reasons to avoid seeing me, disappear from the world, not answer calls, not reply to text messages, and always said he was busy. In the end, the woman couldn't bear it anymore and took the initiative to separate. Their goal was achieved.

3. Pretending to be in high debt The person I was with at that time was a "fence girl", that is, the kind of woman who ignores her own conditions and blindly demands too much from men. She paid too much attention to material things, which made me feel very uncomfortable, so I wanted to separate. But my own conditions are pretty good. I have a house, a car, and my own career. I am her ideal marriage partner. I was worried that she would keep pestering me, so I thought of a way. I bought my house with a loan, and the monthly payments would last for 30 years. I also prepared several fake IOUs, all with large amounts, and pretended to let her find out inadvertently. . It worked, and she quickly distanced herself from me when she found out I was in deep debt.

4. Let time and space distance us. Our company has an opportunity to work in the Korean head office for 3 years. I took the initiative to apply, and the manager approved it. Then, I told her that the company must require me to go on a business trip and asked her to wait for me for three years. As a result, within half a year, she couldn't bear the loneliness and had an affair with Hongxing. Then, we divorced naturally.

5. When she came to my house and said that she could not forget her old relationship, I put pictures of my old girlfriend in the bedroom and living room. Everything was as I expected, and she started asking me curiously. I immediately turned gloomy and said in a deep tone, it was just that her parents disagreed, and eventually they broke up and we could only be friends, but I still liked her in my heart... When it came to the sad part, I squeezed out a few moments. Tears.

Generally speaking, speaking well of your old girlfriend in front of your new girlfriend will have two results: she will love you even more; the other is that she will become jealous and leave you on her own initiative. I know this person's character belongs to the latter type. The result is divided.

6. Help her to reach new heights. I have a buddy who is almost 40 years old. He is a diamond king with countless readers. If nothing else, let’s just say that he drove that car. We joked that if the gold digger saw it, he would immediately rush over and lie on the front wheel, shouting: “Either run over me or get on top of me.” "With this buddy, everything will be easier."

We created an opportunity for her to meet my buddy. Sure enough, she quickly became attached to that guy, and things became quiet here. However, two months later, the guy dumped her because he just found out that she was once my lover. Yes, we are a bit shameless and insidious, but if she wasn't so vain and money-worshiping, she wouldn't be in this situation, right?

7. She refused to have a child. She told me that she was pregnant and wanted the child. I said that now is the time to start a career, and the financial and other conditions are not available, so there is no way to have this child. This is true. We were still renting a house at the time. However, from the bottom of my heart, I was not mentally prepared to be a father. Moreover, although we received a marriage certificate at the time, I did not care about her at all. Not too satisfied. At first, being with her was like riding a donkey to find a horse. After riding for a long time, I couldn't get off, so I had no choice but to get married. But she insisted on having this child, and I had always been tolerant to her. Now I got anxious and choked out: "If you want to have a baby, just give birth to it yourself." Then, she slammed the door and walked out. Later, the divorce agreement was brought.

8. Run away from home and follow the trend. Every time my ex-wife quarrels with me, she likes to play the trick of running away from home. Every time I have to look for her everywhere and persuade her to come back. Later, I got annoyed and once argued with her. I could have tolerated it, but I still deliberately made her angry. She ran away from home and I stopped looking for her. That's how they broke up.