Every adult has the right to pursue a sexual life, but many people think that sex is not a noble thing and will shy away from it when it comes to sex. Therefore, not everyone really understands sex. If you want to improve the quality of your sexual life, you can enjoy it to the fullest only if you understand common sense about sex.

What are 8 "sexual things" that both men and women need to know?

1. Ability to brew passion by oneself

When watching TV series or movies, partners often have sex because their passion is uncontrollable. In fact, real sex life is not like this. Some people will be troubled by lack of passion. However, sexual desire is not natural and concurrent. You might as well brew your own passion, such as doing something that makes you feel excited or happy first, or you can also bring the awareness of wanting to possess the other person, so that your sex life can become passionate.

2. Sex life is not perfect

A considerable number of people believe that only a good sexual partner can have a perfect sex life, but this is a wrong idea. There is no such thing as a perfect sex life, only whether it is successful or not. As long as the distance is shortened during sex, both parties can enjoy pleasure, which means that the sex is successful.

3. Pain during sexual intercourse is normal

Feeling discomfort or pain during sex but not wanting to tell the other person will affect sexual harmony over time. In fact, sex life is not static. You might as well try using lubricant. You can also have 10 to 15 minutes of foreplay before sex, such as hugging, kissing or caressing, etc., which can stimulate the secretion of love fluid, lubricate the vagina, and reduce the pain of sexual intercourse. If you still feel pain or discomfort after multiple interventions, try to go to a dermatologist or gynecologist for an examination, because skin diseases, sensitivity to pain, allergies, and insufficient estrogen levels in the body can all lead to painful sexual intercourse.

4. You can have wonderful sex without sexual experience

It does not mean that the better your sexual experience is, the more you can enjoy the beauty of sex. In fact, previous sexual experience has no effect. The main thing is how you treat your current sexual life in your own heart. Don't always think that you are not ready or have not mastered enough skills, and that sex life is not so particular. As long as you follow your emotions and intuition, you can make sex more exciting.

5. Women can masturbate

Due to the constraints of traditional thinking, a considerable number of women were indoctrinated with the wrong idea during their childhood, believing that masturbation is very shameful. However, women who masturbate properly can better understand their bodies and know what to do to achieve orgasm.

6. You need to consider your sex life when you are single

Generally, married people only think about their sex life, but when you are single, you should consider what kind of sex life you want, understand your desires in advance, and know what to do to mobilize yourself.

7. Let your mind be relaxed

Many men often complain that their wives are not open-minded when consulting sex doctors. Therefore, women should have an open attitude towards sex life, deal with it correctly, learn more relevant common sense, and explore it with a positive and enthusiastic attitude.

8. Learn to innovate

If you want to try new things in your sexual life, you can boldly try it, such as using sexual appliances, not to mention sexual positions, taking the initiative during sex, and you can also tell the other person your sexual fantasies. Only by learning to innovate can you Only then can sex be full of freshness and excitement.

Warm reminder

Both men and women have knowledge about sex. They should not be coy and boldly put forward their own ideas. This is the prerequisite for a harmonious sex life.