"Every time after sex, he falls down and sleeps soundly. He is satisfied, but I always feel like I still have something to say." Most women will make similar complaints after sex.

Guo Jun said that a perfect sex life is a combination of foreplay, climax and afterplay, but ignoring the "afterplay" is a common problem among men all over the world. A survey in the United States once showed that after sex, 32% of men immediately smoke or get up to find something to eat, 17% of men fall asleep, 14% of men get up to go to the toilet, and 9% of men go to the shower. Taken together, 72% of men ignore the period after sex. The same is true in Asian countries. 40% of men in Japan show no tenderness to their wives after having sex.

"In fact, afterplay can play a compensatory role both psychologically and physically." Ma Xiaonian said that psychologically, proper hugging and touching will make women less "he only cares about venting." ", don't care about me at all"; physiologically, many women have difficulty reaching climax during sex. Afterplay can help them welcome a belated climax through the stimulation of sensitive areas with hands and mouth. For men, although due to physiological reasons, the penis will return to normal within 30 minutes after ejaculation, Duan Xueguang pointed out that good communication between husband and wife and appropriate affirmation of male sexual ability are also very necessary after-plays.