First, Hongxing’s cheating. Pain level: five stars

Hongxing’s cheating requires no explanation. The most painful thing for a man is this, and the outcome is of course divorce. If you don't have children, it's easier to deal with, just break up and break up. With children, it's a lot of trouble for two people. Let's just make do with it. Life is worse than death. Let's cut it off. The child has become a victim again.

A friend once got divorced quietly and did not mention it to anyone after the divorce. Only a year later did his friends know that he was single (single blog, let’s talk about being single). The reason is because his wife Hongxing cheated on her. During the divorce, the property was divided. In order to show his generosity, the man even left the house and borrowed money from various sources at the beginning of the divorce.

How painful do you think a man would feel if this happened to him?

Second, Hedong Lion’s Roar Pain Level: Four Stars

I used to be a little bird, but after getting married, I suddenly turned into a roaring lion in Hedong. One can imagine the feeling in the man's heart. Tit-for-tat confrontation is too unmanly, and family conflicts will intensify and even get out of hand! Compromise, being weak and being bullied means pushing too far, and in the long run, it will definitely lead to bronchitis and ear pimples. Although it is a small thing, doing it every day will drive men crazy.

There was a man, after his wife yelled at him for seven years. divorced. He said that Shi Zai couldn't bear the feeling of being a slave and being scolded every day.

Third, Suspicion and Jealousy Pain Index: Four Stars

This kind of thing can also make men angry. Catching wind and shadow, interrogating day and night, this kind of life is really not what a person should live.

A man divorced his wife after more than ten years of marriage. His wife said every day that she suspected he was having an affair, and she interrogated and followed her every day, forcing him to report it. He couldn't bear the feeling of being interrogated every day, so he got divorced. In order to prove that he has not had an affair, he has not married yet.

Fourth, Economic Dictatorship Pain Index: Samsung

The wife is the housekeeper and holds financial power. This would have been normal. But if his wife is arbitrary and acts as an economic dictatorship, the man's life will be difficult. Think about it, all the money you earn is paid in full every month. To use money, you must apply in advance and undergo strict review and approval. There are only sporadic transportation expenses in the pockets of clothes. More importantly, when a man goes out, he needs money for everything. If the wife does not approve, it may be too late to approve the payment. Men are often unable to move even an inch.

There was once a man who forgot to apply before going out. He didn't have money to go home, so he had to borrow money from friends. Extremely embarrassing.

Fifth, the battle between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law Pain index: three stars

Have you ever enjoyed the feeling of being attacked from two sides and not being human inside and outside? Men must feel this way.

Think about it, one is my wife, the person who has accompanied me through life! The other is my mother! The person who gave birth to me and raised me. And these two women. Fighting for the same man. For baby feeding and education issues. For the sake of living habits. There will inevitably be some friction. Once a woman is angry, she will not be reasonable and will only vent her anger. So the man becomes the punching bag.

Sixth, extravagant spending, pain index: two stars

Most men don’t have a lot of money, nor are they rich. If your wife has been spoiled and spoiled since she was a child, she will spend a lot of money. Men have a harder time. I know a man. My wife is very capable of spending money. Her monthly salary is 3,000 yuan, but she can’t buy clothes worth more than 2,000 yuan a piece. One month's salary was spent in half a month. I feel uncomfortable with the remaining half month, and I always have to borrow money temporarily to survive. Buying a house is even further out of reach. After spending all the money, she still complains that her husband is useless and cannot make any money, and is a waste. The man was very angry and later divorced.

So, men are in the stage of falling in love. You must stay away from girls who are extravagant and can't afford it. A friend of mine met a beautiful woman when he was in a relationship, but later broke up with her, saying that he couldn't support this woman and said goodbye as soon as possible, otherwise there will be endless troubles.

Seventh, vanity and sophistication Pain index: Level 1

This kind of woman, first of all, has a very strong vanity, saves face, and compares with others every day. Compare food, clothing, houses and cars. A woman's vanity and sophistication will become a yoke placed on a man's head. Little C is such a woman. Compare with others every day. It was hard for her husband to earn enough money to buy a two-bedroom apartment, but she refused to buy a large house with an area of ​​120 square meters. I want my husband to ask his parents for it. My husband doesn’t want to touch his parents’ pension money. As a result, the two people had a big fight and no one bought the house. Later, house prices soared, and the money that could buy two houses could only buy one. The woman was furious and called the man a loser. The man is very angry about the divorce. (After the divorce, the man took matters into his own hands, got promoted, and made more money. The woman regretted it to death, and the man was very happy to get rid of such a woman. This is something I won’t say anymore.)

Such women tend to look down on men's poor relatives, which makes men very embarrassed. Parents are often intolerant of men. There was a female doctor who looked down upon rural people. She scolded and insulted her parents-in-law who came from the countryside every day. She was also cold-tempered towards her relatives in the countryside. The man was in pain all day long.