7 signs of emotional crisis in couples
As time passed unconsciously, the enthusiasm of two people who were close to each other when they first got married was gradually replaced by indifference and indifference. Disharmony between husband and wife has become a very common phenomenon among people in their thirties and forties. But does this mean that you are really in a relationship crisis? Let’s first take a look at whether the following 7 signs have appeared in your life:
1: No more sweet words
As we all know, sweet words to your wife should be added with some teasing ingredients. , waste no time in praising her, and the relationship between husband and wife will be easier to get along with. The way you speak to your spouse is one of the factors that determine the harmony of your relationship. There are many ways to express a meaning, it just depends on how you say it. If you are no longer interested in sweet-talking your partner, this is a bad sign.
2: Particularly keen on social activities
Both people are busy attending various dances or gatherings between friends to avoid close contact between the two. When the two of them were alone at home, they always left the TV on and didn't want to talk much.
Three: Don’t want to go on a long vacation with your partner
Vacationing together in a tourist resort is an enviable and beautiful thing. But if you only choose a short vacation, it means that you have no intention of staying with your partner for too long. Sometimes this is also a sign of a rift in the relationship.
Four: Are you quietly waiting for the day to leave?
“Sometimes I want to leave him. But I never dare to think too much because I don’t know what others will think of me. , which makes me feel very embarrassed and I can only blame myself for having wild thoughts and not paying attention to him. "If you often have such thoughts, your marriage is in danger.
Five: Afraid to put a photo of the two of you together on the table
There is no photo of you together in the room, and even if there is, it is just a pile of debris under the bed. inside, covered with dust. At this time, you need to reflect on it.
Six: The clothes you wore on the first date no longer fit
A study in the United States revealed that among 2,500 interviewed women who claimed that their marital relationships were not harmonious and unhappy, , in the 10 years after marriage, each gained an average of 54 pounds. Richard, a psychologist who conducted the survey, analyzed: "For some women, weight gain can increase their dominance and sense of achievement in the family, while for other women, it can protect themselves from If you are subject to unnecessary sexual harassment, of course your husband will be less interested in her."
Seven: The two will no longer quarrel
"This is the worst sign," Ms. Li. Said, "Those couples who quarrel all day are more likely to live together than couples who are suffocating. Quarrel at least shows that you still have enthusiasm and courage to communicate sincerely. And the kind of lazy and cold silence is It is the biggest sign of divorce. There are two types of quarrels between husband and wife: one is angry, and everything will be peaceful once the anger is gone; the other is light, and it is irreversible at this time.
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