Now the gender ratio between men and women is out of balance, with significantly more men than women. Some estimate that by 2020, 30 million men in China will be unable to find a spouse. If we follow this logic, women are now a "scarce resource" and they should not worry about getting married. But more and more girls around us are becoming leftover women. There may be many reasons for this phenomenon, but it is mostly caused by women themselves. Here are six ways to find a male spouse for your female friends’ reference.

1. Find someone who loves you, don’t force yourself to find someone you like.

When women have a vague feeling about love, they all hope to find a Prince Charming they like. This is a normal phenomenon. But when they are truly in love, many women find that the person they are looking for never appears; or after they appear, they find that the person does not love them at all, so many women fall into distress.

In fact, men are more looking for the girl they love. When a man gets the girl he likes, he will definitely cherish it; if a man is reluctantly pursued by a woman, he is often more likely to cheat on her, because he always has a girl he likes in his mind. As long as this girl appears, men generally cannot control themselves.

It is better to be liked by others than to find someone you like.

2. Respect men’s pursuits.

There are many female friends who are very indifferent or even rude to the pursuit of men they don’t like. This is a sign of lack of courtesy and self-cultivation. In fact, real love is not in the hands of the pursued, but in the hands of the pursuer. Women should not reject a man's pursuit blindly. They can try to chat, but don't go into depth. If they find that the other person is suitable for them, they can decline tactfully. In this way, on the one hand, I learned a lot of ways to deal with men, and on the other hand, I also learned more about men. It is definitely a good thing for women to have several opportunities to "try love", but it is a pity that many women become leftover women without having any contact with men.

3. Learn to use your female friends to open up your social circle.

Because of work, many girls do not have the opportunity to contact men, but this is relative. In the process of looking for men, women can use the circle of women around them to open up their own social circles, thereby having the opportunity to meet more men.

Xiaoqun is a kindergarten teacher in the county. I rarely have the opportunity to meet men. It is very uncomfortable to see that my classmates and sisters have boyfriends, and some are already married and have children. I am alone. When asking her teacher for advice, the teacher told her to make more use of her girlfriend's circle so that she could come into contact with more men. As a result, Xiaoqun met her current boyfriend at a female classmate's birthday party and was very happy.

4. Failure in love is normal, don’t stop eating because of choking

It is normal for young people to find a partner, fall in love and even get married during adolescence. Just like when we do other things, some are smooth, some are bumpy, some are happy, some are painful... Love and marriage itself are two people who don't know each other through contact, understand each other and choose each other. It is impossible to realize each other for the first time. A man can achieve his ideal love and marriage. On the contrary, if there are failures or setbacks in the love process, not only is this not a bad thing, it can also help women understand life better. So have firm confidence in looking for love, and keep searching hard to find your other half.

5. Learn to show yourself

When a Spanish girl walked onto the T-shaped stage wearing a diamond bra worth tens of millions, the female audience was obsessed with diamonds, and the male audience was obsessed with it. It's the breasts of people, especially Spanish girls.

Men are emotional animals. The first step to catch a man is to catch his facial features, especially his eyeballs. Men like to see girls with beautiful clothes, men like to smell women's perfume, men also like women's beautiful voices, etc. In this way, girls should not be shy about expressing themselves, especially when they see a boy they like, but they should do their best to express themselves.

Today's society is to a certain extent a society of eyeballs. Whoever catches the eyeballs seizes the opportunity. The same is true for love. How to stand out among many girls requires the girl's own performance.

6. Don’t set your sights too high.

Marriage can change a woman's life, but it cannot change her destiny. Many girls hope to join a wealthy family, which in itself is a dangerous bet.

When a woman marries a man, to a certain extent, she marries his future rather than his present. Many men have good families, but they have no potential, especially no fighting spirit. In this way, life after marriage is very dangerous

There are many disadvantaged men who do not have prominent family backgrounds, but these men have experienced Through hardships and hardships, we have accumulated a certain amount of experience in society and career. They already have the ability to overcome all difficulties on the road of life, but for now they are still gold in the sand. With such men, they will cherish and love women even more.

Love is real. Climbing high branches may make others envious, but this is just the face of love; marrying a real man may make others think you are wronged, but enjoying true love is the face of love. I hope female friends can abandon the illusory face and find and cherish the happy face.

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