6 situations in which you should never force yourself to have sex. When is the best time of day to have sex?
Love between the sexes is an innate ability, but whether love lasts depends on many factors. Sex is a pleasant and enjoyable thing, but this does not mean that you can do whatever you want and there are no taboos. There are some things that it is best not to do during sex, otherwise it will destroy harmony, affect feelings, and even cause sexual frigidity. So, when is it inappropriate to have sex? What time period is the best time to have sex?
6 periods of time when it is not suitable to have sex
1. Early recovery from serious illness Generally speaking, it should be avoided during the illness. Since there are many types of diseases and the severity of the condition varies, it is best to seek advice from a doctor frankly.
2. It is not advisable to have sex when you are overtired, drunk or in a bad mood. When a man is drunk, his sperm may become deformed, which may affect the fetus if he becomes pregnant.
3. During menstruation, under normal circumstances, women’s vaginal secretions are acidic and can kill foreign bacteria. However, during menstruation, vaginal secretions are neutralized by menstrual blood and become alkaline, becoming a good bacterial culture medium; during menstruation, the endometrium falls off, there are wounds in the uterus, and the uterine orifice is slightly open, which can easily bring in bacteria and cause reproductive problems. Organ inflammation. If you already have chronic pelvic inflammatory disease, acute attacks may occur during menstruation. Menstruation can also aggravate uterine congestion, causing increased menstrual blood, prolonged menstruation, or worsening menstrual discomfort.
4. Sexual intercourse is prohibited in the first and last three months of pregnancy. In the early stages of pregnancy, the placenta is not firmly established in the uterus, which can easily stimulate uterine contractions and lead to miscarriage. In late pregnancy, it is easy to cause premature birth, uterine bleeding or puerperal fever. Sexual life should also be moderate during the remaining months of pregnancy. Movements should not be violent and excessive pressure on the woman's abdomen should be avoided.
5. After delivery and before the uterus recovers (about 6-7 weeks), otherwise, it will cause inflammation of the reproductive organs, uterine bleeding, or hinder the healing of perineal and vaginal wounds and the recovery of postpartum health. If bloody vaginal discharge (lochia) lasts for a long time after delivery, the abstinence time should also be extended accordingly.
6. After a woman has her ring inserted (or removed) and a man has his vas deferens ligated, sexual intercourse is prohibited within two weeks. After a woman undergoes fallopian tube ligation, she should avoid sexual intercourse for one month.
When is the best time of day to have sex
1. Make love in the morning
This is men's favorite time to have sex, because most men are in an erect state when they wake up in the morning, which is the result of a full bladder, so they think this opportunity should not be wasted, but many women have the opposite opinion. Women pay more attention to emotion and enjoyment during sex, so it is difficult for them to tolerate kissing and whispering face to face without brushing their teeth. In addition, the time in the morning is often rushed, and it is difficult to warm up slowly. They often enter the role quickly and solve the problem quickly, without the tenderness and whispers after sex. This is also the reason why women do not like to have sex in the morning.
2. 12:00 to 2:00 noon
Choosing this time to have sex has at least one benefit: dieting. This time is very suitable for having sex from a physical point of view. Three hours of work in the morning is not enough to overwhelm us, and meeting our lover after work is a unique experience. We walked into the room in a hurry, locked the door impatiently, kissed passionately, and let the passion burn.
3. Nap time
This time is very suitable for men to have sex, because women often complain that men fall asleep immediately after having sex. Even late at night, they should whisper gently to their female partners before they have the right to sleep. But during nap time, if he fell asleep immediately after making love, no one would blame him.
4. From 5 o'clock to 7 o'clock in the evening
Lovers during this period are like wolves and tigers, and can smell the pure animal scent from each other. Sexual behavior at dusk is the most daring and imaginative. It is said that most lovers' trysts in medieval Europe took place around this time. No less leisurely than the European aristocrats in the Middle Ages, modern people at dusk are tortured by work all day long, and their physical strength is not the best, but their sexual hunger and thirst reach the peak of the day. And at this time, people most want to try something that breaks the rules. French sociologists once conducted an interesting experiment. They invited a Central Asian young girl to belly dance to several men at different times, and then asked them to write down their feelings. Almost all men wrote: The strongest time between 5 and 7 o'clock in the evening.
The same is true for women. After a day's work, there is still a long and relaxing evening waiting for us. At this time, we feel very relaxed. If our lover is by our side, we will not miss the opportunity.
5. Between 7pm and 9pm
This is supposed to be dinner time, but many young people who do not follow regular daily schedules jump into bed with their lovers when they are hungry or just after eating. If you have sex with a full stomach, your body will be extremely tired after the work is done. Coupled with the already dark sky, it will make you drowsy and lazy, and you will lose the good mood to go out. So if you choose to have sex at this time, it is best not to rush for dinner first, but to go for a walk outside together and find a delicious restaurant for a good meal.
6. Before falling asleep from 10 pm to midnight
No matter how unconventional modern men and women are and how brave they are to break the traditional lifestyle, we cannot deny that the time that best enables us to obtain the pleasure of having sex is still the time recommended by ancient medical scientists. At this time, night has completely fallen, sleep has not yet set in, and the day's activities are over. We can give ourselves to our senses and then sleep peacefully. An orgasm helps you sleep better than sleeping pills.