We all hope that the man we fall in love with has well-developed muscles like Schwarzenegger, a handsome face like Louis Koo, and grace like Chow Yun-fat, but if we say it, it will undoubtedly make him sad, lamented, and ashamed of himself. .

"What are you thinking about?"

Men are most afraid of women invading their heads, and they don’t want to make you angry, so it’s not okay to answer or not to answer.

Facing his embarrassment, you will feel like you are asking for trouble, so let him dream.

"What day is today?"

This always surprised him, and he would nervously "search" for what important day today was: acquaintance? Dating? Go to bed? ……

Now he will ask himself: "I can't even remember such an important date. It will definitely make her angry. Besides, does it mean that I don't value this relationship at all?"

Some girls will then ask: "Do you remember what I wore that day?"

Worse! I advise you not to be so embarrassed that he can't remember it just because most men will only care about your evolving relationship, not a certain day in the past.

"Do you think she is beautiful?"

The man simply regarded it as a minefield, and every step he took was startling.

He knows in his heart that you are actually asking: "Is she more beautiful than me?" Are you lying? You must see through it; are you telling the truth? It’s not asking for “destruction”.

He had no choice but to avoid the important and take the easy: "My dear, don't ask this stupid question, I only have eyes for you!"

"Where's the dress I bought you?"

Oh my god! Sure enough, I asked, it’s really a headache when a man doesn’t like a certain piece of clothing his girlfriend bought him.

Say that you like it, and your girlfriend will ask why you never see him wearing it; say that you don't like it, and it will obviously cause trouble; and finally say "gone" will lead to a series of complaints. If you've never seen him wear it, you'd better not mention it.

"When are you going to meet my parents?"

Most men are afraid of meeting "Taishan", but it will happen sooner or later. You have to help him overcome obstacles, so you might as well use the following simple tips: A. Give him enough time to prepare mentally before meeting his parents, and don’t notify him at the last minute; B. Arrange some short gatherings, don’t let him It feels too painful and unbearable; C. cooperate wholeheartedly to let him pass smoothly.

"Have you ever thought about our future?"

With just this short sentence, he will feel that your relationship has become a lot more serious. In his ears, it became "it's time for you to make a commitment."

So he felt pressured and persecuted, and then thought about getting married and having children, which made him feel like he had grown up, become responsible, and mature... All of these are the things that men fear most.

Think about it, it is easy for women to blurt out these words. However, when the relationship between each other is not mature enough and they have not yet thought of fully designing the future, some words will have a negative impact, so "be careful with your words and deeds" is also A woman's wisdom.