The cornerstone of marriage comes from the relationship between two people, and love is the process of achieving this goal. If we choose an unsuitable love partner, it will not only affect our future love and marriage relationships, but it may also affect our lifelong happiness.

When choosing a love partner, pay attention to the following principles:

First: Choose a man who can spend money for you

A man who can spend money for you A man means that he really likes you. Many girls like to find a rich man to fall in love with. In fact, this is not necessarily a good thing. Maybe you are just the target of his game. Therefore, when we are looking for a boyfriend, we must look for men who are willing to spend money for you. But He does not necessarily have to be a very rich man (of course, he does not have to worry about money all day long or is hungry and cold. That kind of man has no conditions for love at all), because if he spends money for you, it means that he really likes you. You, then the probability that you will get married and stay together for life is very high.

Second: Choose a well-matched boy to fall in love with.

Xiao Deng’s boyfriend has much worse family conditions than hers, but she fell in love with him despite her parents’ objections. When they were in love, he paid too much for the other party financially. As a result, when they finally got married, their parents broke up because they did not agree on the financial arrangements for the wedding banquet.

The door must be secure and the household must be right. In fact, this sentence sums it all up. The ancestor’s words were concise and insightful. Haha, many people didn’t know this when they were young and thought it was nonsense. Later, they only believed it after experiencing many setbacks. Environment creates people! If you have the wrong door or the wrong household, you will naturally not be the same person.

Of course, we should fall in love with someone who has the same academic qualifications as us. We can’t fall in love with someone who is in our university and he is in elementary school. If this is the case, we will have nothing in common in the future. This is not to look down on those with low academic qualifications, but sometimes their way of thinking is different from ours, and their understanding of many words is far from ours. There is no use in explaining. He still talks in his own way of thinking and will never get to the level he should.

Third: Don’t fall in love with a man who is too conscientious

I once saw a joke: Boy and girl sleep in the same room, and the woman draws a line: Anyone who crosses the line is a beast! When I woke up the next day, I found that the man really had not passed the line. The woman slapped the man hard: You are worse than a beast! Haha, it seems that men who are too conscientious will also be dismissed.

Respectful men live for a belief. They only do what they should do, not what they want to do. All decent men will have too many rules and regulations. If you love deeply, he will make you sad; if you love lightly, the two of you can be together, but this kind of love is either raw or raw. No interest in life.

In addition, a conscientious man starts working as soon as he enters the office, just like a game machine with coins inserted into it, exerting super power in a short period of time. If the console suddenly stopped, then a coin called cowardice must have been thrown in by mistake.

A timid, fearful, and hiding-in-the-corner man will only attract contempt from his leaders and colleagues. Even if some sympathy is given, no one will ever invest another coin for him.

Although women are wary of men who are too responsible, they always feel that they are too petty. Most women like men to add more passion to their lives.

Although women do want everything to go according to procedure and life to be stable and comfortable, women are also willing to be "passionate" occasionally.

Fourth: Don’t fall in love with a workaholic

Career is an important element of a truly perfect family. Men should be enterprising so that their family’s life can be effectively guaranteed. A man who is ambitious does not look around, does not look towards Qin Muchu, and is tied to his career wholeheartedly. He feels distressed when he looks at him, and loves him when he thinks about him.

However, if he is a workaholic, we still have to be careful, because after marriage, his problems will not be small.

He is stingy and refuses to walk a few steps with you on the street. He keeps asking you to go shopping with you, but at most he only waits under the shade of a tree outside the mall. What's more important is that he is the hands-off shopkeeper, forcing you to take care of everything in the house and annoying you.

If he is too career-minded, he will spend very little time on his family and you. If you ask him to go shopping with you, he will say it is boring; if you ask him to watch a movie with you, he will say no. time. He has achieved success in his career, and you have followed suit, but that is what others see. What others cannot see is your loneliness in the long years. Those men who are not overly ambitious will know how to be considerate and pampering to you.

Men who are too obsessed with their careers mostly have the desire to command others (including women). The biggest harm caused by getting along with a man who is too ambitious is mental. In addition, most "enterprising" men are overworked, and their bodies are not only at the peak of comprehensive quality development, but also facing the most unstable and fragile state. , cardiovascular and cerebrovascular diseases are watching eagerly from the sidelines, taking advantage of the slightest opportunity.

Fifth: Don’t fall in love with a man who is too narcissistic

You can’t marry in “Wu Da”, he is ugly and useless, and he has no future, but if he has Pan An’s beauty Well, that's not impossible, but if he is too narcissistic and only cares about his own beauty, comfort and freedom, looks in the mirror 80 times a day, changes 10 sets of clothes, and praises himself in the mirror, then this kind of man cannot marry.

At the beginning of marriage, a woman loves her man very much and is obedient, and a good man will take the initiative to take care of her. However, if this man is too narcissistic and only sees himself, he cannot see anything about the woman around him. If you work hard and take all efforts for granted, you will see women as having problems and dissatisfaction everywhere. Over time, women will become less and less confident, become more and more numb, and finally lose their own opinions and become puppets.

In addition, thinking about the handsome man all day makes it difficult to concentrate on work, and there is always a sense of uneasiness. Subconsciously, I am always afraid that the handsome man will run away or that others will come to seduce me. If it doesn't work, I will be in panic all day long, wishing I could be with the handsome man all the time, and lose many things that belong to women, such as women's pride, self-esteem, coquettishness, and pretending to be crazy. I have lost a lot of the fun of being a woman, and I can’t do many things.

Sixth: Don’t fall in love with a man who likes romance too much

We expect romance but not too much romance. People who are too romantic may only grow love but not rice. The head says that the head is willing to turn into a small bench for you to rest your feet, and the heart says that the heart is willing to turn into a small cloth bag to insert pins for you, but it will not change. The food on the table fills your stomach, there is a lot of poetry but not enough food and grass, you are elegant but poor, you are in love but not in marriage.

In addition, people are not born romantic. A man who is too romantic shows that he has rich love experience, and such a man is more suitable to be friends. If a man waits downstairs for half an hour to send you flowers, and he buys roses by mistake, it doesn't matter, he is sending you roses in his heart. Although a man who is too affectionate and too sensitive is very affectionate and gentle to you, he will also ask you to be tender and sweet to him, and ask you to devote all your thoughts, energy and even time to his feelings, otherwise you will I don't understand his feelings. Can you bear that?

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