Men's sex lies

Lie 1: "The condom is too small!" One tender night, before you have sex, she will habitually take out a condom and hand it to you, and you will often be stunned. , pretending not to understand. If she has to urge you, you can helplessly pick up the condom and gesture, then throw it aside and tell her confidently: This condom is too small and does not fit you. She was stunned. The size of 25cm is not suitable for you. Could it be that you are the greatest man in the world? But she is too embarrassed to expose you to your face. She wondered why men always refused to wear condoms.

Intimate interpretation: Ask 10 men, about 9 men don’t like to wear condoms during sexual life. Why? The most direct reason for men is that condoms hinder pleasure, but this selfish reason cannot be put on the table. If you say this, women will definitely walk away: You men only care about yourself, what if I get pregnant because of this?

So the most common reason why men don’t want to wear condoms is that they dislike the size of condoms. This objective reason is both reasonable and reasonable, and it also satisfies men’s vanity. In the life of a couple, sometimes a man is like a child who likes to lie. These lies may be harmless, but the man never tires of them. This in the end is why?

Lie 2: "I don't need '*'!" When * came, for the sake of "good for her and good for you", my wife secretly bought a box and took it out with a smile before getting married. But you threw the * aside and said jokingly: "Do I still need this thing?" However, that night, when my wife woke up from her dream in the middle of the night, she found that you were secretly studying the instruction manual of the *. Later, she accidentally discovered, You would rather go to the hospital to buy another box of * and take it secretly than use the * she bought for you.

Intimate interpretation: Men are most afraid of women suggesting that their sexual abilities are not good enough. Buying sex for him is tantamount to declaring that his sexual ability is weak. When a man realizes that his sexual ability is declining, he realizes that his youth is fading. Therefore, a man has to pretend to be fat in front of women even though he is obviously not good at it, but he just sneers at women.

Lie 3: "My love history is very simple, there is nothing to say!" Women like to ask men about their past privacy, such as how many old loves they have, whether they are as cute as themselves, etc. . At this time, most men immediately become iron-tongued. No matter how much the woman asks, he will just smile ambiguously, pretending to be the last virgin.

Intimate interpretation: Men know very well that some experiences cannot be told to women, otherwise, jealous women will inevitably bring them out often in the future.

Lie 4: "I am too tired from work!" This is a common excuse used by most men after poor performance. Women may be confused: Is this really the case? Most of the time, men are "full of sex". Why do men always say that they are too tired from work for a few days a month?

Intimate interpretation: When women don’t want to have sex, they can use reasons such as special periods to refuse, but our social culture seems to have been implying that men are sexual beings and should be in a state of readiness for sexual arousal at all times. . However, experts have found that men, like women, also have sexual refractory periods. Men also have "those days" when they feel no interest in sex. Originally, men could justifiably tell women that they didn't feel comfortable and therefore didn't want to do it, but they were worried that saying so would damage their image, so they could only use the excuse that they were too tired from work.

Lie 5: "I never care about women!" Men like to use "picking up girls" to describe their attitude towards women. It is clear that man A likes woman O, but if other men ask man A if he is fascinated by woman O, he will most likely say: "How could it be so?" Women are always confused by this, even though he swears by it just yesterday. Why did he change his tone when he was proposing to him and his friends?

Intimate interpretation: I have to admit that male dominance still exists in our society today, which is manifested in many aspects, including: 1. Men cannot reveal their feelings easily (emotional blog, let’s talk about feelings). They have to pretend to be cool and Deep, otherwise he will not look like a man; secondly, men cannot care too much about women, otherwise they will be considered worthless by others. Therefore, when men joke with each other, they will deliberately exaggerate that intimacy with women is just a sex game to show their cynicism, indifference and perseverance. This is in line with today's society's expectations for male images, so the more men show that they don't care about women, the more they will lose face in front of other men.

Lie No. 6: "Women who take the initiative are very cute!" When Xiaofeng and her husband discussed private topics, her husband said more than once that he liked women who took the initiative and opened up in their married life. So one night, Xiaofeng dressed up carefully and pretended to be a witch from Arabic mythology to seduce her husband. When her husband came out of the bathroom, he was shocked and made him laugh loudly by Xiaofeng's appearance. As a result, nothing "passionate" happened between them that night. Her husband left Xiaofeng aside and watched TV alone. When Xiaofeng asked her husband full of grievances, her husband said: "I think you were cuter the way you were before, but I really can't accept this sudden change."

Intimate interpretation: The media has been hyping up these years It’s cuter for women to take the initiative, but there are more signs that it is just a gesture for men to adapt to the trend of women’s liberation and echo the feminist movement. When women become open and creative in their sexual lives, men's old designs for sex are shaken, and they become confused. On the one hand, they are used to controlling women in their married life; on the other hand, they are worried about women's creativity in their married life and do not know where it will lead them. They are worried that they will lose their previous dominance in their married life.