1. Frustration: Mr. A and Ms. B have only been married for five years, but their sex life is already quite boring. Ms. B is no longer interested in having sex, and Mr. A is in a bad mood due to rejection. They often have quarrels over this. The reason is mainly due to Ms. B's depression. Six months ago, Ms. B's mother passed away. She was very sad and depressed. Mr. A did not understand that his wife would be depressed for six months and lose interest in sex. In fact, everyone will become depressed when they encounter emotional injuries, financial problems, work setbacks or are under extreme pressure. With the help of a psychiatrist, Mr. A realized that he should be more understanding of his wife, and Ms. B also felt that she should get rid of her depression through treatment and work on improving their relationship. Mr. A and Ms. B. After hard work, their relationship gradually returned to normal.

2. Selfishness: After ten years of marriage, Mr. C and Ms. D lost interest in sex. Through psychological counseling, it was discovered that the problem lies in the lack of mutual praise and support. During the consultation, Mr. C complained that Ms. D took everything he did for granted, and Ms. D admitted this. But he also never complimented her or paid attention to her, she said. A man who is not praised is just as terrible as a woman who is not praised. Both will leave them emotionally deficient. After the consultation, Mr. C and Ms. D realized the importance of mutual praise and enthusiasm.

3. Sexual taboos: Mr. E and Ms. F have been married for four years, and Mr. E’s sexual impotence has become increasingly serious. Mr. E is in a painful situation due to sexual taboos. He feels that "good girls" should not have anything to do with sex. Because he thinks his wife is a "good girl," he always feels nervous and blames himself when having sex with his wife, and eventually becomes unwilling to have sex with her. The psychiatrist told Mr. E to try to adopt a more open attitude towards sex and talk frankly about this issue with Ms. E. And don’t always think about it when you are unable to engage in sexual activities. Learn relaxation training to improve the anxiety and tension at this time. Finally, Mr. E overcame this problem and had a normal and happy sex life with his wife.

4. Sex myths: Although sex myths are two extremes from sexual taboos, they can also damage people’s sexual relationships. Mr. G and his wife are an example. Mr. G has some bachelor friends who often brag about their sexual adventures. Mr. G also saw introductory sexual skill performances in some TV videos. He gradually felt that he was missing something, thinking that his relationship with his wife was not as wonderful as other people's. The psychiatrist told him that this kind of sexual competition is against nature and out of touch with reality. Mr. G and his wife finally understood that they had been deceived by exaggerated sex myths.

5. Lack of adaptability: Marriage is a series of relationships year after year: getting married, having children, children starting a family and starting a business, and then retirement... Psychologists believe that a couple Couples must adjust their marital relationship each time they move from one stage of life to another, and during times of change, sex may take a break. After Mr. K and Ms. L had been married for several years and had a child who was about to enter school, they began to feel that they could no longer adapt to each other, and their sexual life also stopped. Through psychological counseling, they realized that the problem was their inability to adapt to the new relationship of having a child. Now they are not only a couple, they are also parents, which means they play both roles at the same time, and they must adjust their mentality in order to get along harmoniously. As they adjust, sexual relations return to normal and become pleasurable again.

6. Disharmony: Mr. M and Ms. P have a daughter who is in junior high school. The couple’s sex life is deteriorating. Through psychological consultation, they found that there is always disharmony between them. They have completely different views on raising children. Mr. M is liberal and tolerant towards his children, while Ms. P is very strict. As her daughter grows up, this problem becomes more and more obvious. Ms. P even thought that Mr. M was too focused on his daughter and had forgotten the existence of his wife. Their frequent public quarrels put a strain on their sexual relationship, which almost came to a standstill. Psychologists believe that good sexual relationships are based on shared perspectives in life and become more pleasurable with harmonious coexistence. If couples cannot reach a common point of view, conflicts may ensue and "sexual interest" disappears. Both couples must try to understand the other person, and they must be able to sit down and give their opinions. With the help of a psychiatrist, Mr. M and Ms. P finally worked out a compromise method, clearly stipulating what their children could and could not do. When problems arise related to their daughter, they will recall the original agreement. After the tension was resolved, they finally reconciled.

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