6 major details that prove a man has cheated

Classic details of cheating 1: sudden increase in expenses

After cheating, in order to please the lover, he eats candlelight Dinner, roses, and coffee are necessary to reflect a man's gentlemanly demeanor and romance.

What is romance? It means slowly wasting the number on the credit card with a girl, letting it go from high to low.

This is a compulsory course for men in the love field. It’s a joke. If you can’t afford this small expense, how can any girl be willing to be romantic with you? Why should I play a love game with you, a married man, that has no ending and no status? When you meet a girl who has high material requirements, a house and a sports car are indispensable.

In order to keep this romantic relationship, the man had no choice but to save money for his private life. In the past, the money generously given to my wife will still be given to her in full, but how reluctant is it in my heart? Only he knows. If a man does not have extra income, he will usually use various excuses not to give the full amount of his salary to his wife; if he has extra income, the man will not be as stupid as before - leaving nothing but all to his wife. Some men even hesitate to quit smoking and drinking.

Classic details of cheating 2: often working overtime

A man who has an affair must take time out of work to be with his lover and appreciate the ecstasy and beauty of warm and fragrant soft jade. Naturally, he cannot Go home on time to be with my wife. Of course the wife will call and send text messages to ask why the man is not home so late and who he is with.

Men usually answer in a brazen tone: Work overtime.

At first, my wife told me distressedly: Remember to have dinner at work. However, as the number of overtime work increases, my wife will become suspicious. The man will immediately look aggrieved: I am working so hard and working overtime just to make life better for you and my children? Otherwise, I will be at home with you every day, and you will earn money to support me!

When most wives hear a man’s words, they will feel guilty, thinking that they have misunderstood their husbands.

When the man saw that his wife had given up the idea of ​​doubting him, he went home to accompany her several times, making her happy, and then continued to "work overtime" outside.

Classic details of cheating 3: Too much socializing

These days, men with a little ability like to socialize outside. For men, socializing is decent and prestigious. It seems that not having social entertainment is not enough to prove a man's ability and his successful career.

Women also mostly like men who have the ability to entertain themselves.

Such a man can probably make money and bring enough material guarantees for her and her children's lives.

As a result, smart men will wear the cloak of socializing and develop extramarital affairs openly. When his wife began to resent his constant socializing outside every night, the man had a better excuse than anyone else: Do you think I want this? Then he used his uncle, his wife’s brother, as an example to explain that he had to get off work every day. He went home and had less than 1,000 yuan a month. He always looked for street stalls to buy daily necessities. He scrimped on food and clothing, but he still couldn't save enough for his children to go to college. His wife called him a loser every day. Do you want me to be that kind of man? If you wish, I will stay at home after get off work from tomorrow and cook, wash dishes and do laundry for you.

When the wife heard this, she immediately ran out of battery. Before hanging up the phone, she had to gently remind the man: Eat more vegetables and drink less alcohol.

The man has withdrawn the thread, it’s great to see that he has won his wife’s heart with a little wisdom.

Classic details of cheating 4: Absent-mindedness

When he returns home, he is restless no matter what he does. He is especially sensitive to the ringing of the phone and refuses to answer the phone in front of his wife. If his wife asks him If something happens, he will deny it with a arrogant attitude - what can happen to me? Are you doubting me? When this happens, I can tell you with certainty that he is out there and has a "situation."

As the old saying goes, a selfless heart is boundless. A man who has no secrets outside will face all calls calmly at home, and will not be absent-minded, let alone be arrogant to his wife's inquiries.

Classic details of cheating 5: Too lazy to have sex

Men also have a physiological refractory period, which is normal, but it only lasts a few days. Excluding the past few days, if he is a physiologically normal man, if he is always absent-minded in bed and indifferent to all your hints, for example, you used to have "foreplay" before sex every time, but suddenly canceled it , he had no reaction at all to your charming body language and affectionate and charming eyes. Even making love is a routine matter, done in a hurry, just coping, without any passion at all. At this time, you should be more vigilant. A man's cheating often starts from being tired of his wife's body.

The seven-year itch in marriage is mostly the sexual itch. When sex becomes exhausted, it is also the beginning of marital exhaustion. At this time, men will deliberately or not deliberately look for women who can bring their passion to the outside.

Classic details of cheating 6: Friends come forward to prove his innocence

When a man comes home late or is often late and is suspected by his wife, his buddies will often come forward to come forward. Stand up and clarify the facts for him: He was with us that day. Sister-in-law, you can rest assured that my eldest brother is not that kind of person. I can testify. And I swore that even if my eldest brother wanted to cheat on me, we buddies would not let him go. If he is not satisfied with marrying such a virtuous sister-in-law like you, and dares to have wrong feelings towards other women, let’s see how we can fix him.

The fact is, these buddies of his are all just like him. People say that birds of a feather flock together, and this is absolutely true. The most common tactic a man uses when he is flirting outside and is afraid of a fire in the backyard is to use these bad friends as a shield to make his wife believe that even though he comes home every night, he will definitely protect her like a jade!

Although the above situations cannot 100% prove that your husband is definitely having an affair, if he has all the above 6 phenomena, it means that your marriage is already in a sub-healthy state. As a wife, you must Pay special attention to how to eliminate the sub-healthy state in your marriage, how to restore your husband's gradually indifferent emotions and soul, and how to let the marriage enter the second honeymoon period. This is what you must do.

There are three situations when a man cheats: the first is mental cheating. The second type is physical infidelity. The last one is a double derailment of mind and body. If it is the first and second cases, it can be forgiven. This man is also within the scope of saving. After a cold war, the marriage will return to its original love. The last one can no longer be regarded as cheating, but a complete betrayal. Once a man's cheating reaches the last level, it is estimated that even 10 cows will not be able to bring him back. Sooner or later, this family will be disbanded.

A man's cheating is the same as "three feet of ice does not freeze in a day". Men and women who are deeply in love cannot pretend to be others. Only when marriage makes a man feel dull and tired, will his heart be "ready to move."

If you are a smart woman, you can nip your husband's "ready to make a move" in the bud. But the problem is that many women have never realized that their husband's cheating has anything to do with them. They only recognize one reason - men are not good at all and they want pizza after having cake.

Cheating has become the number one killer of marriage breakdown today. The reason why the movie "Mobile Phone" has attracted many Chinese people to watch is because the story told in the movie is as real as if it happened to them. However, everyone knows it tacitly, and it has become a well-known secret. And "Mobile Phone" exposed this beautiful lie and made it public.

The most uproar is first of all women. She was afraid that her man would cheat on her behind her back, and she didn't want everyone on earth to know that once her man cheated on her, she would be the only one who would remain in the dark. Nowadays, the ancient method of tracking is no longer needed to determine whether a man is cheating. Mobile phone call records, text messages, and MSN chat records can be clearly retrieved by calling up the records. Of course, once a man discovers this, it will put a layer of frost on the already fragile relationship between the two of them. If you don't do it right, you will drive the man's already hesitant heart into the arms of his lover, and you will lose more than you gain at the expense of the man.

In fact, this is not necessary at all. If you are a smart wife, there is no need to keep an eye on her and act like a wolf is coming all day long. Pay attention to the details of life and every interaction, and you will be able to detect the slightest hint of trouble on his part.