Married women, how is your love as a couple now? Take a look at the declarations of these 6 sex-loving women.

Xiaofei, female, 30 years old, real estate company planner

We value quality over quantity

I am 30 years old, and I have been married to my husband for more than 7 years. . It seems that there is indeed a bit of aesthetic fatigue, and the number of times we have sex is getting less and less. Some time ago, I heard that an authoritative organization released a survey saying: Compared with how many times foreigners have sex a month, Chinese people seem to have very few.

As for us, it seems less.

I discussed this issue with my husband, and he said: Why should we imitate foreigners? First, we have a lot of work pressure, and besides, after many years of marriage, it is not realistic to maintain the frequency of doing it several times a night. As long as we leave a wonderful experience every time, one time is worth ten times, why must we pursue more or less in quantity?

I think what my husband said makes sense. In fact, we have always done this. We don't go there many times, but every time it seems to be unforgettable. Sometimes we would go to the suburbs to find a hotel to stay; sometimes we would do some crazy creativity; one time when my husband was at work, I sent him a text message saying that I missed him. He actually put down what he was doing and took a taxi home to have fun with me.

Treat every time as the first time, prepare carefully, enjoy it, and listen to the call of the heart. This is our declaration of happy sex.

AMY, female, 27 years old, teacher

Intimate massage

It is an indisputable fact that modern people’s lives are becoming more and more stressful, so sometimes my husband comes home to see him I was so exhausted that I couldn't bear to let him force himself to have sex with me. At this time, I prefer to have an intimate massage with him.

The specific approach of the two of us is this: He and I sit face to face, intertwining our hands and feet, and massage each other to relax. Sometimes, my husband just relaxes and falls asleep during my massage. I think, why do we have to have real sex every time? Especially for married couples, sex is of course the best way to express intimacy, but there is definitely more than one way to express intimacy.

Intimate massage not only allows us to experience the intimacy through physical contact, but also avoids the embarrassment of forced sex when we are tired from work. This is my favorite way of having sex.

Xiao Jianping, male, 30 years old, company manager

Take less drugs and exercise more

For a while, I admit that I was a little obsessed with drugs, a new type of After the release of sex-stimulating drugs, I became a big consumer of it, and I couldn’t wait to take it every day.

But I found that drugs seemed to overdraw my body's ability, making me like a drug addict. I might be extremely excited for a while, but then I would feel very tired.

So now I am more inclined to strengthen my physique through swimming, playing basketball, and mountain climbing. It is said that men who exercise are sexy. I understand that this is not only about shaping the body's beauty, but also about enhancing sexual desire.

LISA, female, 28 years old, reporter

Do your own love and let others say it

I rarely read those sex manuals. To be honest, in the eyes of others, my sex life may be a bit miserable. Over the years, I have not tried tools, nor have I even traveled to a fresher place to experience long-distance romantic sex.

The Internet is full of all kinds of sex teachings and self-reports of sex fanatics. Compared to them, I am ashamed to mention my little experience in bed. But I sometimes think that sex also has a time cost. Neither my husband nor I want to spend too much energy on sex. We have so much time, why not devote more to work! My husband and I agree on this, and , we are also very satisfied with our current sex life, isn’t this enough?

My declaration of sexual happiness is: do your own love and let others say it. Although it seems that I am not up to standard, but I feel OK myself.

Xiaoqi, female, 27 years old, editor

Spiritual involvement

Every time, I hope to invest my spiritual experience in sex, not Turn it into a performance.

Many friends I know say that sex is becoming less and less interesting. In fact, they do not lack sex, some even have a lot of it, and often change their sexual partners like changing clothes, but they say they are getting tired of it. I think the reason is that although they are all good at sex, they do not have spiritual involvement, so sex becomes a purely technical behavior, which naturally becomes less and less interesting.

I hope to be like the plot of the novel - fall in love with someone, communicate with him more, cultivate feelings, and then have perfect sex and stay together for a lifetime. In this process, I will pay more attention to cultivating my own taste, reading books, developing more hobbies, and enriching my soul, so that even in the process of making love with him, I can be fully in tune with each other. I think sex is first of all a spiritual yearning, and then a physical union.

SAKURA, female, 26 years old, administrative assistant

Slow, slow, slow, not fast, fast, fast

Everything is fast in modern society, even Many people are like this in their relationships. Did you go online after only knowing each other for a week? It’s too old-fashioned. Many people just met online and went directly to one of them’s house in the evening.

This may be related to the accelerated pace of modern life, so the speed at which men and women go to bed after getting to know each other will be like the speed of computers, getting faster and faster. But I don't like this. I always feel that going to bed too quickly is actually one of the reasons why modern people's relationships are so fragile. Think about it, if you get it quickly, will it soon feel boring? You don’t understand the other person at all, and you don’t know his hobbies, character, etc., but your intimacy has reached the point of being inseparable. How terrible is it?

My boyfriend and I have known each other for half a year, but we are not in a hurry to have sex. We think of sex as a natural outcome of relationships.

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